Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

How often do you fight with your spouse and what is it over? Does it ever get resolved and if not how do you deal with it? How much arguing is too much and how much is normal? We argue about the same things and they never seem to get resolved. Its like a little bit gets resolved each time but not enough to make the issue go away.

2006-09-26 06:34:35 · 14 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There are two things that really catch my attention about this site:

1. I may be wrong about the ages, but it seems to me that younger people have little if any self-restraint when it comes to their sexuality. I'm not an old fart, but the attitude seems to be "act now, consider consequences later." It's not as if we're living in an age where that kind of thing makes any sense.

2. The ability to express oneself clearly or think critically doesn't exist. I find myself skipping a lot of questions because they don't make any sense at all.

Our parents probably said the same things about us, but has anyone else noticed this? Not bashing, just making an observation.

2006-09-26 06:34:18 · 19 answers · asked by Le_Roche 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 06:33:42 · 5 answers · asked by t_j_mccafferty 1 in Singles & Dating

If a female asks if I've ever been hurt before in a relationship, I don't know how to answer. I've been cheated on and left for another, but looking back at it, it really didn't hurt me. Some people act like they've lost their mind or get depressed, whatever. Doesn't really bother me and it hasn't affected any of my relationships. Am I crazy for that, or is everyone else overly sensitive. I have loved them and still talk to them with no bitterness and people don't understand that.

2006-09-26 06:32:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love chatting with a man I met online. We have so much in common. We make each other laugh. I look on it as harmless fun, we are both married.

2006-09-26 06:32:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If i had these eggrolls every night for like....oh...lets say 3 weeks...how much weight do u think i might lose...cause i bought me some armani shirts without trying them on...and it turns out that i am not as skinny as i thought i was...lol.........i need to drop the poundage...good idea????

2006-09-26 06:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by The Phoenix Wears Armani 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has given me papers.

2006-09-26 06:32:05 · 5 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am doing a video of family photos for an upcoming Family Reunion and I need tons of songs. There are 6 different segments to it. Couples(married), Baby pictures, One of just the women, one of just the men, parents with their kids, one of everybody being silly.

I need at least one song for each! Suggestions please?

2006-09-26 06:31:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 42 yr old single woman, feeling it's time for me to settle down. But I am very picky, don't want to settle with what ever comes along, I am pretty and very ambitious and am a christian. I am hoping to find someone that is appealing to the eyes, romantic and christian. Great personality. But I am not sure how to go about finding such a guy? I am not into Bars. I do go to church, but I don't know how to make myself look available and not catch the wrong type of men.

2006-09-26 06:31:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wonder. I appologise when I get upset because I need help. Whats wrong with me.

2006-09-26 06:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by Windwispers 4 in Family

Normally when I recieve a number I wait at least week before I call them. Is a week to long of a wait? Also sometimes she ends up calling me that day if we both give each other our numbers. Does that mean that she is desperate?

2006-09-26 06:31:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 06:30:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you ladies say if I told you that the only beauty I will ever Consider is the beauty that is in your eyes and soul? honestly to me all a woman has to be is a kind hearted woman with a beautiful soul, and my eyes will automaticly drift way from the girl with the short skirt and shirt. you might think its a line but I dont go for the sluts of the world, I was sick of them in highschool and I dont cair for them still.

2006-09-26 06:30:11 · 24 answers · asked by Brother_Alex777 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 06:29:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 06:29:54 · 7 answers · asked by noisy 2 in Friends

what should I do with a gilr who is completly obsessed by my boyfriend? She knows we are together and she always comes to me(even if she doesn't know me at all) and askes me how the things are going on with my boyfriend. She follows him everywhere and the other day she sent him a video of herself.
He told me he knows about it, but that he loves me very much that's why he is with me and he started to live with me and that he doesn't care about her and so he doesn't want tell her anything. He told me that of course she is free to go where she wants and do what she wants and he feels he cannot tell her anything....But I think that the next time when she askes me ho we are I will tell her something very bad....why is she so hypocrite and what should I do?

2006-09-26 06:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by Monika H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm sitting in my office and I am very bored and none of my friends are answering my mail and I want to chat to make the time go by. So someone send me a message.Please

2006-09-26 06:29:34 · 8 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you think would happen, if I told her I'm attracted to her? (Further note, I dated one of her friends last year for 2 months. We broke up cleanly. Neither of us was that into each other, but we did have sex, before we went our seperate ways.)

2006-09-26 06:28:49 · 21 answers · asked by Daemon 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are on this break because he is tired of fighting. it's been a while now. we still talk and say i love you but he refuses to see me.

today is our anniversary it is almost three yrs. and i told him i have a gift for him because i got it a long time ago before anything happened. he said he would like to see what it is, meaning he will come over to see. he said if im nice to him and dont argue with him he will come back to me. that's what ive been doing for a while.

i told him he has two suprises. one is the gift and the other is me and that i will stop fighting with him. he said he was happy without all the fighting. if i love him i will truly stop figthing with him over stupid ****. he needs to trust me.

will he take me back or is he just holding onto me because he doesnt want to be alone right now?????



NOTE: i didnt tell him the other suprise is me yet. i want to tell him in person.


to be honest i think it is because we saw each other every single day

2006-09-26 06:28:35 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

SHOULD I SLEEP WITH HIM NOW?!

2006-09-26 06:27:35 · 22 answers · asked by pitbull luver 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is like in his 50's/60's. When he first came here 3 years ago, he made it clear that he wanted to have lunch with me but I made it obvious that I wasn't interested and had a b/f. He left me alone. But every once in a while, he would offer me jewelry, toys for my kid, expensive perfumes in which I refused all. A month ago, he kept trying to persuade me into letting him setup a trust fund for my daughter in which again i said "No Thanks!" Today, he has secretly told me that he is leaving the company to go to some island and he wants to help someone before he leaves and he chose to help me by helping me get a car, paying school tuition, or living in one of his paid for houses. To get him off my back, I told him i'll think about it. This guy is old fashioned, a complete gentleman, and has a good family background. Is this the result of his generosity? I don't think he would offer this to just anyone. A friend told me it seems he wants to be my "sugar daddy". You think?

2006-09-26 06:27:12 · 35 answers · asked by melcar12345 4 in Friends

Due to a medical condition (not an STD!) I am currently unable to have sex. My boyfriend and I haven't been able to have sex for close to 2months now. He has stayed with me.... Does this mean he loves me? What do you think?

2006-09-26 06:26:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At my work place all the workers were on the same level ( paycheck to paycheck) single or divorced, we all worked together and helped one another when needed. Then one found a new boyfriend and within months was married, moved into a new elaborate home, drives a new car, and makes sure that we all know she no longer has to worry about anything and that she doesn't even have to work and is thinking about quitting but loves her job and hates to leave. She has redecorated our unit and has decorated it with pictures of her new husband, her pool, house etc. We are all happy that she has found such good fortune but it's going too far and creating stress for several. I reminderd her where her roots were and she laughed at me and said that's because the rest of us didn't set our goals high enough. Help our office is in dismay.

2006-09-26 06:26:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband goes out sometimes and he tells me that he's going to do one thing and then he does it and then goes off and spends time with his friends or does things with them without calling me or telling me that he is going to. It makes me upset because well he's told me that he never gets to go out and do things with his friends (not true - he hangs out with them every morning after he gets off of work basically and at other times too). We have a 20 month old son and although I occasioanlly get a babysitter I feel like he should be helping to take care of him too. I'd like to spend time with my husband and he works 12 hour shifts at night several days a week and then he sleeps during the day so we never really get that much time together. Gosh, this is a whole bunch of problems rolled up into one. What I guess I am trying to ask is why does my husband do this and how can I get him to stop? His friends are married but they have no kids and he acts like he'd rather be with them than me

2006-09-26 06:26:44 · 13 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

While he was planning to marry his current GF, trying to prove he loves her, he still exchanges 'I Love You's' to his ex. They kind of broke up, but still in sweet connections to each other. Then he married his current GF. Now came a time his wife knew of it and asked him about it, he said it meant nothing. Guys, does it really mean nothing when he said it to his ex? How true is he to his current GF that time? And why he married this woman? Any guys out there who have ever been like this?

2006-09-26 06:26:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please no red or white

2006-09-26 06:26:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

conference call to Grandma to wish her Happy Birthday?

2006-09-26 06:26:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is that bad

2006-09-26 06:25:50 · 4 answers · asked by sweetangel 1 in Singles & Dating

go out with some one who I don't know well but loves him?
I need help before he calls me after school!!!

2006-09-26 06:24:54 · 13 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

i lost my dad to sucide how does anyone bounce back from that i cant sleep and when i do i see his face everyone says im being strong but thats just a front for my mum and brother.

2006-09-26 06:24:51 · 12 answers · asked by riasmurfblaze 1 in Other - Family & Relationships