Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

is it exciting when you catch a hot guy staring at your chest?

2006-09-26 07:10:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were both married then - are both divorced now - always had a mutual attraction back then but did nothing about it - saw him at a party - flirted all nite - both had a little too much to drink - slept with him - he asked me for my number the next morning - i hestitated - his cell phone rang - so i got in my car & left. should i contact him? or was i stupid to sleep with him - it wasn't like i just met him - have known him for years - think i would like to see him again - he's the first guy i've slept with since my divroce.

2006-09-26 07:10:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 07:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by Erika M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

-so this guy at work asked me out - to go to a club with him. First I should say that I do like him- I find him very attractive on a physical level, but I think its the same for him and I dont think he wants anything else- but he doesnt know me outside of work and as it so happens- i don't believe in sex before marriage- I am a very traditional and straightlaced catholic - and while I want him- i know its not what I should choose because it may wreck my life...I know its sounds like I am freaking out over nothing but bear with me...and somebody pls tell what I should tell him without gettingas complicated as this...also how I can do it so it wont be too awkward at work after...

2006-09-26 07:09:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well theres this guy i met and we have kept in touch but it has been like 2 1/2 years that i havent seen him. as of right now he is stationed at 29 palms and he gets mad because of the fact i can't drive down there. i thought everything was going fine until my birthday i mean he was the first one i would of expected for him to call. it took him 3 weeks for him to call bc i wasn't going to do it. why should i call if he didn't!!! the point is that he is always confusing me, during those 3 weeks ive meet to people (guys) and now i don't know what to do, should i get back with him or move on. please help me, especially guys in the military what does it mean.

2006-09-26 07:09:00 · 7 answers · asked by Y@-Net 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it their intellect, their physical appearance or something else? What would make you go up to somebody and ask to go out on a date?

2006-09-26 07:08:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I noticed that whenever I post a question on here, I always have a negative answer. Just someone with an attitude, taking it out on me. Well, if all you're gonna do is be negative, I don't wanna hear it. Take your attitude somewhere else. Am I the only one who notices it?

2006-09-26 07:08:25 · 15 answers · asked by justasweetestthing 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this guy (of course!) lol he used to like my friend (she was a tad bit promiscious) and when he found out that she was (in his words a whore) he stopped talkin to her because he said he didnt want a whore, me and him talk every night and i really like his personality its easy to talk to him but i think hes just using me, because like toward the end of our conversation he'll start jokin around askin for a bj or somethen (and it doesnt upset me i think its funny - but im startin to think that might be all he wants) i mean were not talkin as a couple were just talkin as friends (i want to be more than friends) but i just usually tell him "im not that kinda girl" and we start talking about somethen else & start laughin i have so much fun talkin to him (and id give him a bj, but i dont just give anyone one, i want to be in a relationship ..they gotta be "special" i guess lol & i told him)..im confused i dont know if hes interested in me or just interested in a bj

2006-09-26 07:07:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this dude is like my best friend he has liked me for 6 mo straight now, and i just now found feelings for him ..... he now has a gf ...... and im stuck being single ! he asked me out again about 2 days ago coz thing arent goin too well w/ him and his gf ..... sooo should i go out w/ him ..... he dont know how i feel about him right now ... he still think i only see him as a friend , but i dont how to go about sayin that i now have feelings for him !!! ive turned him down about 20 times and he is still persistant , should i be brave and tell him how i feel and give him a chance ? the problem is is that i know his gf and she is one of my friends !!!

2006-09-26 07:06:56 · 17 answers · asked by talks_alot_0 1 in Singles & Dating

If they haven't had anything to do with them for a while why write a letter to say they didn't want to be part of the family anymore? Why not just leave them alone?

2006-09-26 07:06:55 · 7 answers · asked by DC 2 in Family

2006-09-26 07:05:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bro is going through a rut that has been for about a year now... ive got him 2 job interviews and each time he messes them. Hes living at home and wont make any effort nor contribution... sleeps till 7pm at night and spends all his time and little money he has on online poker. My parents are at their wits end and dont know what to do as hes too arrogant to even talk and as far as he is concerned he is in the right and every one else is wrong. Weve thought about counselling but doesnt he need to accept he has a problem first? Whenever I try to talk to him he just sneers and tells me where to go. He is wasting his life and at 25 years old he should be going somewhere... any advice would be appreciated. Thanx

2006-09-26 07:05:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this boy and I deeply love him with all my heart. I have liked him 4 a year now and he has liked me. About 6 months ago he wouldn't stop asking me out but I kept saying no becuase he had a gf. He just broke up with her. Im afraid to ask him out because he will be my first love. I dont know how to kiss and im just really nervous. I like him soo much though. How do I tell him. What should I say that will catch his heart?

2006-09-26 07:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by saweet_chick_lee 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i are trying to have a baby the first time after we got married it took me 4 month to get pregnant but i lost my baby, its been 3 months since then and we are trying again, but i havent gotten pregnant, my Dr told me that i could start trying for another baby as soon as i got my first period which I did and my periods have always been normal, he told me that my miscarriage was most likely due to a chromosomal defect and that it happens during the 1st trimester my husband and i want to have a baby so bad but after the miscarriage we've been trying for about 2 months and i havent gotten pregnant yet. Does this mean that i am infertile??Please Help!! Or maybe one of you ladies had the same/similar situation

2006-09-26 07:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Friends

How would you feel about a man that is submissive to you behind bedroom doors.

2006-09-26 07:04:18 · 4 answers · asked by Justin 3 in Singles & Dating

My girl is not giving me sex at all,Ihave to make the move all the time,and I'm a great lover,but she said's she tired all the time,but when her friends call to go out she up and gone.But when she comes home from the club or lounge, she want's to have sex.Why not when she just home?And I work way more than her 60hrs a week, have kids with me 70% of the time,clean ,cook take care yard work and I find energy to have sex.What's going on?should I cheat?

2006-09-26 07:04:14 · 17 answers · asked by Da..KINGizHeRe!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a relationship with this guy which we started off as friends. It was GREAT! in the beginning. Then, it progressively got worse. He became controlling and I knew he was cheating on me. Since I have the old Skool values of "stand by your man" I tried to work things out. It just kept getting worse. Well here comes the problem. He did not let me work because he had ALOT of trust issues. So now that I have left him I have nothing! I am at my mom and dads house going insane! If anyone has any ideas I need a way to make quick money and find somewhere to go like asap. I care about him alot, but I know that I deserve more than that. My sister was in an abusive relationship and has recently gotten back together with her husband and I dont want to be in that same boat. There is nothing more than I want than to be with him, but I know he will never change. Please Help!

2006-09-26 07:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by christy85 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in chicago and I'm planning a wedding for may 20 2007 I'm looking to have 70 guest with open bar and spend uder 1100$? does anyone know where a great location would be?

2006-09-26 07:03:50 · 5 answers · asked by laeloni_2004 1 in Weddings

2006-09-26 07:03:45 · 14 answers · asked by ldog p 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been recently having sex with my bf, we always use a condom however last week it split i took the morn after pill. i now have what seems to be virginal thrush, however as i havent had this before i dnt know, i have a discharge that is white and thick. yet it dosent smell. When i read anything about thrush it says the discharge is like cottage cheese? Well isnt cottage cheese lumpy? if so i havent got that. Pls someone help i cant ask any one.

2006-09-26 07:02:48 · 23 answers · asked by choooo choooo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 07:02:32 · 2 answers · asked by § gαввαηα § 5 in Friends

theres this gal whom is in my age (20yrs old)..i like her a lot and i very much care about her...
i think i love her but i am not sure how to say it..i am afraid tat she mite mistake me as just another guy who wants to date and flirt with her..
i am not keen to flirt with her or date her or have a relationship...

i very much care about her and all i want to do is make sure she's happy ..no matter who shes with..and love her the way i am being loved by people around me..

but i dont know how to convey it to her ..she is highly conservative..i am afraid she mite mistake me..any opinion in this regard is welcome..

thanks in advance :)

2006-09-26 07:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by auroga 1 in Singles & Dating

I always meet prince charming...of corse I obsess and we have the best time togther, soon as we lean in and cross the line we end up in heartbrake because he moves away or I move..and we lose contact for a few years I run into my prince charming but he has a gf and nothing is the same and life is depressing...this course has repeated itself three times .....why does this continue to occur??

2006-09-26 07:02:12 · 20 answers · asked by All Of the Above 5 in Singles & Dating

Let's say a friend with whom you share a lot but the 2 of you decide to exclude love-making from this relationship.

2006-09-26 07:01:31 · 16 answers · asked by Vicky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in the 9th grade.

2006-09-26 07:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of course it was all a joke...but come on people...seriously...why would a woman be named FATHER MARTIN LOUIS???? hello! i swear some of you people on here have some serious brain damage.....

2006-09-26 07:01:07 · 25 answers · asked by Father Martin Louis 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been in a situation where i'm seeing a girl who already have a bf. we get along and i told her i like her and she said she can accept me if only she's single.well,,,this situation also occcured with another girl..

2006-09-26 07:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by Hafiz N 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who is allergic to cats, but her boyfriend has one. when she stays over, the cat Sleeps in bed with them! and she told me when they get married, he wants the Cat to have "free reign" over the house..and bought her Allergy medication.

....but that means she has to take it EVERY DAY, and has to sleep with the cat, etc etc...isn't that too much to expect from her? what do u think?

2006-09-26 07:00:41 · 13 answers · asked by tarmee2006 4 in Singles & Dating

do you think it would be interesting to be a guy for a day and what sorts of things would you want to do in that day?

2006-09-26 07:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had no contact with my father for the past two years as I have feared for my life. I've never taken any legal action against him, but now I've been warned that his behavior is becoming more and more erratic. I'm scared to wait until he tries to come to my house or something to protect myself, but it seems that legally there must be a verifiable issue before you can do anything. Help!

2006-09-26 06:59:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family