Why do men cheat on beautiful wives with UGLY women?

Answer 1

maybe they were drunk at the time. My father got drunk and got this ugly manly looking woman pregnant while he was married to my very atractive mother. He left my mother becasue horse face said she wanted to get married before the baby was born and her parents would make her get an abortion if she had another baby out of wed lock (she already had 2 kids). Needless to say, my father has a horse faced wife and a little horse faced boy who is now 8.

Answer 2

Just so you know women do the same thing. Looks are not what cheating is about. Yes there maybe some attraction there but when a person cheats that pyhsical attraction is run over by the emotional and mental attraction. When people cheat generally they are looking for something that is either void or non existent in there current marriage. Here's an example, George met sue one day running at the park. George loves staying in shape and using exercise to relieve his stressful marriage. Him and his wife have seemed distant for the past 6 months. She seems to be to occupied with the kids and the bills. She never seems to take an interest in George anymore. They still have sex occasionally, but lately it seems real mechanical. She seems uniterested, even if he brings her home some flowers from work. And over a year ago she just stopped excersising with him, she said she needed more rest and even confessed to him that she really doesn't enjoy working out like he does. Which is ironic becasue they met each other at a local gym.

Now this girl sue is a regular runner on his morning jogs at the park. They eventually become acquainted with each other and start jogging in the morning together. And one thing leads to another and an affair happens.

Sue isn't very attractive but George had a very strong emotional connection with her. That's just an example of how things grow. The key is to keep your spouse as priorty number one. Love each other and talk to each other and be there for each other. I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Some of the most beautiful women I know can get really, really ugly in the personality area. Ugly women, on the other hand, are sometimes quite sweet and kind--and often kind of desperate, which makes them sometimes "easy".

When I was a teenager, my parents suggested to me that since I spend a good deal of time at the library, read something by Benjamin Franklin on his proverbs and advice on life (frugality and such). Well, I did. But next to one of the books of Franklin's practical philosophies was a book with his advice to young men. There was this really scandalous chapter suggesting that teenagers get their sexual training with older women--they are experienced "and so grateful afterwards."

To be sure, there are plenty of the other going on, with men chasing and catching gorgeous girls on the side.

There was a story about a couple of men that went to heaven when they died. One was allowed to roam heaven freely, but the other "because you were cruel to your wife" was tied at the ankles to a hideously ugly woman in punishment. One day the two men were talking and a third person they knew on earth approached. He was a terribly ugly guy, hard-working but weathered, and his ugliness had been helped along by a couple of accidents when he lived on earth. Attached to him at the ankle was a drop-dead gorgeous girl. Well, the friend snagged a passing angel and asked, "This friend is tied to a truly ugly woman and we know why, but this other friend is tied to a fabulously beautiful one, what did he do to deserve that?"

The angel simply said, "HE isn't the one being punished."

Answer 4

Beauty might get a man, but beauty can't keep a man. Would it be easier to accept, if the other woman was beautiful? Most men can see the beauty in a woman. Why he cheated in terms of looks is really not important. I would be more concern with why he cheated period. Is he not happy with his beautiful woman, or is he a dawg whom has to screw everything that wears a dress??

Answer 5

Because ugly women self esteem is already low, so it's easier and less of a challenge for the men. He already conquored the beautiful one....you, feelings and heart is with you. Kids are had with you. You are the arm piece that he brags about. The Ugly chick is the whore that is used to hiding and not being seen. Plus, she cheaper, she will do all of the whinning and dining. She will pay for the room and do whatever he wants her to do. And not mind being the "other one". Can't do that with a cute chick....would you settle with this from your guy as his second H*LL NO...you are too cute

Answer 6

I don't think cheating has anything to do with looks. I think most people cheat because they are unhappy for whatever reason. Instead of talking to their wife, there's always some women willing to lead a "caring" ear and men (and women too) get caught up in that. They don't want to face their spouse. For some reason they think it's easier to cheat than to work out their marital problems. That only makes it worse. People that cheat are cowards.

Answer 7

Because she is saying "yes" while the wife is say "no" as she is picking up the kids toys, washing the dishes, helping his children with their homework, fixing dinner, and getting the little ones off to bed. its all about sex when cheating. its about what that woman gives him that the wife isn't. if the wife is beautiful lets say but shes a money hungry *itch and doesn't satisfy him sexually, he might seek someone who can fulfill his sexual needs. To me, looks don't matter if a man cheats on his wife. cheating is cheating. and there's no excuse for it.

Answer 8

i'm a guy and never cheated on my women that i went out with but the guys that do are just stupid so the only way they cheats is that there are not happy at home the ugly women iso that way there didnt bring home vd

Answer 9

1. Looks are subjective...what you find ugly he may not, and vice versa.

2. For some guys, willingness is much more important than a pretty face.

I'd be more curious about why he cheated, than why he cheated with someone (I thought was) uglier than me. *shakes head*

Answer 10

Because they want substance...
My guy's good friend had an affair with a a girl he met when they played softball together. He was married to a really pretty lady. but she was shallow and she hated softball. And voila, he hooked up with a dikey type softball loving girl and they are very happy.
"If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never
make a pretty woman your wife..."