we were both married then - are both divorced now - always had a mutual attraction back then but did nothing about it - saw him at a party - flirted all nite - both had a little too much to drink - slept with him - he asked me for my number the next morning - i hestitated - his cell phone rang - so i got in my car & left. should i contact him? or was i stupid to sleep with him - it wasn't like i just met him - have known him for years - think i would like to see him again - he's the first guy i've slept with since my divroce.
2006-09-26 07:10:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you like him, go for it. Sounds like you're hesitant because it was the first since your divorce. If you're not ready, don't do it but if you think you are then go for it.
2006-09-26 07:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 14:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by idsalex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up, see if he wants to go to dinner. Or have a BBQ with friends over and invite him too! Make it an early night, no sex, see how you guys fare when that's off the table and see if there's a follow-up date that he makes with you.
2006-09-26 14:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by badasslilnici 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never works out with the first sex after a divorce, date around see the world, plenty of fish in the sea,, if the sex was good it is nice to have a friend with priveledges,
good luck
2006-09-26 14:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if he is still single,try contacting him and see if things work for you again!!this happens usually that after divorce and a long gap of seperation people tend to get back cos they start understanding things and priorities!!good luck!!
2006-09-26 14:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it might still be salvageable, but I doubt it. once you slept with him at first.
seems once men get it on the first go round, they never respect you like they should.
now, if you just want a "playmate", then maybe it will work.
2006-09-26 14:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nice to see you got back on the horse (no pun intended)
I see no reason why you should not call him. Go out and have a good time
2006-09-26 14:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him and explore the connection. If nothing else you have the uncomfortable period of when to have sex out of the way already.
2006-09-26 14:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by rilindy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it, what are you fretting about? Have fun while you can. Look him up a few days later, and see where it takes you.
2006-09-26 14:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and see if he wants some more of that p u s s y.
2006-09-26 14:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋