okay this dude is like my best friend he has liked me for 6 mo straight now, and i just now found feelings for him ..... he now has a gf ...... and im stuck being single ! he asked me out again about 2 days ago coz thing arent goin too well w/ him and his gf ..... sooo should i go out w/ him ..... he dont know how i feel about him right now ... he still think i only see him as a friend , but i dont how to go about sayin that i now have feelings for him !!! ive turned him down about 20 times and he is still persistant , should i be brave and tell him how i feel and give him a chance ? the problem is is that i know his gf and she is one of my friends !!!
2006-09-26 07:06:56 · 17 answers · asked by talks_alot_0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah.... a shot to the head.
2006-09-26 07:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Duncarin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats complicated, your friends with him & his girlfriend. talk to the gf and find out if she thinks the relationship is going good and if she still has feelings for him, if not, then tell her that you like him and that if she doesnt want you to the you wont act on them. if she says she doesnt care (which she might care, and it might change your friendship a little) then you should talk to him and tell him how you feel.
if i was put in the situation, id talk to the gf (who is my friend) and wait for them to break up and wait a while and then after it had settled down, go for him (only if the gf said that it was okay and she had no feelings for him)
hope that helps :)
2006-09-26 14:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly do not think you deserve him. If it was him asking, I would say steer way clear of that friend of yours and dont touch her with a barge pole.
So you told him no 20 times, and now that he has a girlfriend, you all of a sudden have feelings for him? Like those other 20 times you could not find feelings for him and now you do? Sound too much like one of those b i t c h e s, dirty scum bag girls who treat men like dirt until they see them with another girl, then they want you. We see this hapening all the time my friend, and we are on to you. No way. Go your own way.
2006-09-26 14:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by jimbomediterraneo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... let him know that you have feelings for him but don't go out with him until he has officially broken up with his current girlfriend. That's simply out of respect for your friend (his gf).
2006-09-26 14:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u go out wid him dat's cheating,tho he doesnt know how u feel abt him.if things arent goin well wid his g/f y r they still 2gether?jus stay away 4now.if they break up then by ol means tell him.
2006-09-26 14:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I'm going to say is "go for it". You only live onece and you might as well find out what might be. Then you won't look back thinking what might have been. Live your life like you stole it and remember to enjoy. Happy hunting.
2006-09-26 14:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Branden W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you should tell him how you fell but also let him know that you can not go out with him till he breaks it off with the g/f. cheating is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and prepare yourself to lose a friend because when and if she see you two together it is all going to be your fault he left her (at least in her mind) GOOD LUCK and GOD BLESS
2006-09-26 14:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by thunder_rainclouds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a fun night on the town with his his girl and a few othere friends and maybe see what happens. dinner and dancing at a local club
2006-09-26 14:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how u feel but not go out with him unless he leaves his gf.
2006-09-26 14:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by scartissue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always avoid dating, when one partner isn't single. It just causes problems in the long run. Besides, if he would break up with her for you, then how do you know that he wouldn't break up with you for somebody else?
2006-09-26 14:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not.
If he does this to his girlfriend, what's going to stop him from doing this to you? Would you like he ran to some other girl every time you got into an argument with him? That's what he'll do to you.
2006-09-26 14:09:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋