theres this guy (of course!) lol he used to like my friend (she was a tad bit promiscious) and when he found out that she was (in his words a whore) he stopped talkin to her because he said he didnt want a whore, me and him talk every night and i really like his personality its easy to talk to him but i think hes just using me, because like toward the end of our conversation he'll start jokin around askin for a bj or somethen (and it doesnt upset me i think its funny - but im startin to think that might be all he wants) i mean were not talkin as a couple were just talkin as friends (i want to be more than friends) but i just usually tell him "im not that kinda girl" and we start talking about somethen else & start laughin i have so much fun talkin to him (and id give him a bj, but i dont just give anyone one, i want to be in a relationship ..they gotta be "special" i guess lol & i told him)..im confused i dont know if hes interested in me or just interested in a bj
2006-09-26 07:07:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not goin to give in and give him a bj, i dont do that sorta thang unless i'm datin the person <3 aww aint i such a good girl lol i suck.
2006-09-26 07:13:53 · update #1
bj's arent all we talk about we talk about other things and laugh & cut up together, but some point during our conversation he will bring it up, ill say i dont do that & then say somethin teasingly and we'll start talkin about somethen else & go back to laughin and gettin to know each other <3
2006-09-26 07:15:24 · update #2
IM A DUDE AND U HAVE IT PERFECT ........HE WANTS TO SEE IF UR EASY,, TO SEE IF UR THAT TYPE OF WHORE THAT GIVES BLOW JOBS TO ANYBODY WHO ASKS.....FROM WHAT I READ IN UR Q .. UR A SMART GURL WHO IS BETTER THAN WHAT THIS GUY THINKS ....IF I WERE U I WOULDNT AND EVEN THO IMA DUDE AND WOULD NEVER TELL A CHICK HOW A DUDE PLAYS ....IMA TELL U STR8 ...........I RESPECT THE CHICK THAT WAITS TO TRULY KNOW WHO A MAN IS B4 THE GET BUSY ... YA KNOW I WANNA CHICK THAT HAS A BACKBONE .. LIKE U .................... ANYWAYS FUN IS FUN ... BUT LUV IS WON THRU LOYALTY , HONESTY AND INTEGRITY
2006-09-26 07:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately if all that he's talking about is a bj and not about taking you out to dinner, than that is all he wants. You have to understand that guy's are straight to the point, they don't b.s but at the same time they don't want to hurt our feelings. What this guy is doing is testing the waters with you to see if you'll give in and move to the bj's, but he has no intentions of wanting to be with you
2006-09-26 14:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by drea6996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked your friend until she gave him what he pursued. He'll do the same to you and after you give him his ******** or sex he will have proven that you are simply a piece of meat and push you away. He didn't respect your friend and it doesn't sound like he's respecting you be even "jokingly" suggesting you give him a bj. Friends don't do that!!! Drop him.... why would you want to be with someone who called your friend a whore anyway?
2006-09-26 14:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that is interesteing. Well, just play it out and be friends. See if he takes it more to friendship because you don't want to initiate it and him do it because he knows what he can get if he does. Does he mention that everytime you talk? When you tell him you're not that type of girl, that he knows hes not gonna get one so stop asking. From there, I would check his reaction and see if he is still the same to you. Maybe that will help.
2006-09-26 14:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be playing you, but I would lay the ground rules down before doing anything. He might also think that birds of the same feather flock together. You might need to remind him YOU are not like your friend and after all of that is established and you and him are in a relationship.......GIVE THAT BJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-26 14:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Angela T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's gotta be the longest run-on sentence I have ever read....
Anyway, guys only want one thing... yada, yada, yada... to put their you know what into your shling...
He doesn't want to be "friends". He wants "you" to be "his" "friend". Get it? But if a complex mutual relationship comes up and he is able to build a solid friendship with you based on trust, love, and respect, then that's great too! (Dude, the guy that is, you can thank me later. Enjoy the BJ!)
2006-09-26 14:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by blue2monday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be interested in both, but he's just asking for a bj so I would say that's where his main interest is.
2006-09-26 14:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a BJ and you'll soon find out if he is really interested in you.
2006-09-26 14:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what guy doesnt want a BJ, and if he is in a relationship with you why shouldnt he get one? He's not playing you he is being sincere
2006-09-26 14:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's "so easy to talk to" try having a SERIOUS conversation with him and figure out what is actually going on between you two. Remember, it's always best to know what's going on before you go down. ;-)
2006-09-26 14:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by shazaam4sure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋