SHOULD I SLEEP WITH HIM NOW?!
2006-09-26 06:27:35 · 22 answers · asked by pitbull luver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
geeze---after 2 years---i think i would get a new fiancee
2006-09-26 06:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you're ready, like the first person said. I will say that sexual compatibility is very important to some people and can make or break a relationship. Is he a virgin??
This is a very hard one for me to answer, because I am engaged as well, but am not a virgin. I would like to say follow your heart, but maybe you should talk about it with him....especially if he has been with other people...
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 13:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by lynswil_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends...do u want to sleep with him or wait till you're married. you've been engaged for 2 years now and thats pretty good so u could wait till the honeymoon and just go crazy. someone told me that they lived with someone for a couple of years and they were having sex with each other. then they decided to get married and when the honeymoon came, they really didnt have anything to new "offer" that night. the only thing change was that they were officially and legally husband and wife. think about it
2006-09-26 13:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by T9000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to sleep with him now, why not. Personally, I wouldn't ever wait that long, but it sounds like you guys have a good relationship, which means it'll be fine if you do, and it'll be just as good if you don't. I'm not sure why I ask, but how does he feel about it? If he's like most guys I'm sure he wants to too. The only thing is if your wedding is soon, I wouldn't add 'your first time' to the stress you might be feeling right now.
2006-09-26 13:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've waiting this long, what is a little more time... but I wish I had waited... Whatever you decide, don't have really high expectations for your wedding night, My husband and I made a deal to not have sex that night which was the best decision ever because we were both exhausted and it was nice to just cuddle, teh next morning was another story however :)
2006-09-26 13:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve waited this long, keep waiting. Fiancee for two years? Are you planning on getting married soon, I hope?
2006-09-26 13:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kuiper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I know it's hard, (I dated for 2 years before I got married). It made our first year of marriage a lot more work because we did have sex prior to tying the knot. Admire your finace for having such wonderful self-control and then set the date! GET MARRIED!!
2006-09-26 13:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, If he stayed with you those two years and is still with you that has go to tell you something, he's not in it for the sex, he loves you, do what you feel in your heart don't ask someone to tell you how you feel.
2006-09-26 13:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great you're still a virgin. My advice is, You've waited this long, just wait until you are married.
2006-09-26 13:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Q'reezie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on getting married why not wait until you do. He has waited this long then he unndersatnds and you should do what your comfortable and ready to do.
2006-09-26 13:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋