What do you think would happen, if I told her I'm attracted to her? (Further note, I dated one of her friends last year for 2 months. We broke up cleanly. Neither of us was that into each other, but we did have sex, before we went our seperate ways.)
2006-09-26 06:28:49 · 21 answers · asked by Daemon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love you my friend because what you have is just a question and nothing more. If it were real, you would not be here asking that question. You are allowed to have questions lingering in your mind. That's what makes us humans very sophisticated animals.
Now that you have explored with that question, it's time to make your move. I believe you are there at work and doing what you do best, that is work. So do it and at the end of the day you may go home and relax.
You're not going to regret my advice. If you feel this is too difficult to do, then ask your boss to transfer you to a different location e.t.c. Do you realise that you are about to bang all the women in that office? Believe me at that rate you will. The question is and then what? The problems will start and it will be easy for the women to collaborate on their story, plot or react, having seen in the end how stupid they all were "supposedly".
Believe me that is not a joke. You could end up badly.
Consider yourself warned. Take care of your libido. What you have is nothing more than a fantasy.
2006-09-26 06:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Visanza 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More than likely..if you told her you were attracted to her (adding you know she is married) she will probably take it as a compliment but she would definitely tell her girlfriend. If she approach her in a "I want to get with you" kind of way, she may become offended since she is married and she knows you know she is married. And still tell her girlfriend which will make you look like a total dog. Not to mention, above all of this..the sex you had with the girlfriend is going to become a topic of their conversation (because that's what women do) so unless you want your business out in the open..its best you leave it be.
2006-09-26 06:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is almost always a really bad idea to dip your pen in company ink. It usually does not end very well. When it breaks up you still have to work with the person.
And, if YOU fall in love, do you think she will leave her husband for you? Keep on dreaming.
And, when the break up happens, most of the time somebody quits or ends up getting fired.
Sometimes women or men are not receptive to being hit on in the workplace. Sometimes they talk to a supervisor.
Oh, yeah, and sometimes good old hubby comes calling. Are you prepared to duel to the death?
Stay away. She is married.
2006-09-26 06:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. You should know better than dipping your pen in the company ink, especially when she's married. It's perfectly normal to get turned on by a woman at work, but go home and churn one out.
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2006-09-26 06:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hurting Dude !!!! Count your losses and move on. The married chick won't give you the time of day, plus you dated her friend. It ain't gonna happen. Why waste your time, you won't win, start finding a new set of women.
2006-09-26 06:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling her your attracted is fine as long as you realize:
1) Her husband is probably not going to be happy
2) You're ok with the harrassment lawsuit that may occur.
2006-09-26 06:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener in the yard next door. And what we cant have often seems tempting. DONT DO IT. you my end up ruining your life and career. you could lose your job if she feels if sexually harassment. Find your self a single girl
2006-09-26 06:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by careermom18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell her ? If you're doing things right, she already knows it. Verbalizing your attraction puts it out there for all the world to see, including her husband.
2006-09-26 06:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by davidosterberg1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um dude she is married, which means she already has a man is not looking and if off the market. leave her alone n go find a single girl.
2006-09-26 06:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you move on and get someone who doesn't have a husband??????? How would you like it if some guy approached your wife??? Think about it........use your brain for more than a hatrack, stop thinking with your dick for a change......
2006-09-26 06:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋