what should I do with a gilr who is completly obsessed by my boyfriend? She knows we are together and she always comes to me(even if she doesn't know me at all) and askes me how the things are going on with my boyfriend. She follows him everywhere and the other day she sent him a video of herself.
He told me he knows about it, but that he loves me very much that's why he is with me and he started to live with me and that he doesn't care about her and so he doesn't want tell her anything. He told me that of course she is free to go where she wants and do what she wants and he feels he cannot tell her anything....But I think that the next time when she askes me ho we are I will tell her something very bad....why is she so hypocrite and what should I do?
2006-09-26 06:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by Monika H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had the same problem too, an old friend of my boyfriend, who apparently is a girl does the same things like sticks around with him, talks to him in a certain way and stuff like that, first I was kinda jealous and tried to avoid her but later on I talked with my bf about it. I said that I wasn't comfortable with her being around and he said that they were just old friends without any feelings for each other. He told me he loves me and wouldn't do anything to destroy our relationship, I trusted him, so I guess you shouldn't take the matter so seriously and if your bf really loves you he wouldn't care about her a single bit. trust him and good luck.
2006-09-26 06:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by white rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust your boyfriend if you really love him. But I believe he should really talk to her, with you there by his side. Talk to him and let him know that you do not want to spend your days being harassed by this girl. And that you do not feel comfortable with her always following him. If he loves you and doesn't really like her, he will take care of this mess. Maybe she thinks she has a chance with him because he has never told her that she doesn't. But I strongly encourage you to get him to tell her he is not interested in her and he would appreciate it if she would just leave the both of you alone.
2006-09-26 06:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was snubbed by a girl before we started dating, and wanted nothing to do with him, but just as soon as she found out that we were dating, she was like a little lost puppy dog, and just HAD to have him. Every time we saw her like sitting in her truck outside the store, just watching us...we would just laugh at her because she had no life. It pissed her off that we hold hands all the time, and made comments like "she doesn't wash her hands, you should be careful what you touch" dumb stuff like that! Just jealousy, that can't have him factor made him the hottest man on earth! Dumb *****, just laugh at her together, obvious that you're laughing at HER and she'll get the picture!
2006-09-26 06:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her things r very rosy u 2 love eachother and r planning 2marry soon!dat shud put her off!
2006-09-26 06:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her things r very rosy u 2 love eachother and r planning 2marry soon!dat shud put her off!
2006-09-26 06:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋