2006-09-26 06:18:41 · 16 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you love him then go for it.but do you love him enough to take on his children when they come to stay.there re many men out there that would not think twice to marry a women with kids and take them on. so its really up to you i would do it if i loved him
good luck
2006-09-26 06:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by twinmum1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Husband Is A Wonderful man And Father To His 7 Children. He Has Three By His First Wife(He Pays Child Support And Sees Them On A Regular Basis). He has 1 By A . . .How Shall I Say A , Girl He Was Playing With(He Pays Child Support And She Wont Let Him See The Child). And We Have Three. The Children Was Not An Issue For either One Of Us, It's The BABY MAMA DRAMA That You Should Be Concerned With. Not All Women Are Strong Enough To Deal With It,
If You Love Him And He Loves You And He Has The Other Part Of His Life Under STRICT Control, There Should be No Problems.
2006-09-26 06:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Nakia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we gained't stop yet another man or woman from doing what they opt to do. So, if he stop his job and is starting up yet another agency, i wager there is not any longer a lot you should do at present. I do trust your husband is egocentric and insensitve, although. merely up and quitting a job once you've a relatives, NO fee fee reductions and a loan is slightly irresponsible besides. once you've belongings you would opt to do and attempt, then he can not truly inform you NO, both. you're an man or woman man or woman, and should be loose to make your own selections. in spite of everything, he does it. If this bothers you, then talk it... do what you could in the previous yo provide up. i wish it truly works out. take care, ok?
2016-12-02 02:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by rezendes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a guy who had three kids from a previous marriage and I have been married for 11 years and I am not happy. please know it will be hard on you. dont do it!!! I know because I am not happy now.
2006-09-26 15:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you have to ask then absolutely not.You should marry him because you love him and if you aren't willing to accept him for him and all of what has helped form him into the person he is today (including being a dad of 3 kids) you should walk away.
I am on my second marriage...First marriage had two kids and I remarried -- my wife has two from her first, we have two together, and two from my first. I love each child seperately and equally and married her because I love her. Not because she did or did not have kids.
2006-09-26 06:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth it if you love him and his kids. The choice is really up to you. If you just met him, then I would not rush to marriage. If you have been together for a while, then you would know.
2006-09-26 06:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't mature enough or ready to be a step-parent, and aren't ready to welcome his children into your life - then do him a favor and move on
Just because he has kids from a previous marriage doens't make him a monster, and it doens't make a relationship with him (and his kids) impossible, but if you can't handle it, don't put him and his kids through it.
2006-09-26 06:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU RELAY LOVE AND CARE ABOUT HIM "HELL YES" --- WOULDN'T YOU WANT A GUY TO MARRY YOU IF YOU HAD THREE CHILDREN FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP???
2006-09-26 06:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I hope you like kids cause that is a big responsibility. If you love him you love what comes with him. That means everything!
2006-09-26 06:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK HE HAS 3 KIDS CAN HE AFFORD TO BE MARRIED..YOU DONT WANT A MAN WITH 3 KIDS AND HE IS BROKE FROM CHILD SUPPORT CAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO BE SUPPORTING HIM, ALSO YOU DONT WANT TO MARRY ANY MAN THAT HAS BABY MOMMA DRAMA....IF YOU DONT HAVE PROBLEMS WITH NONE OF THOSE THEN MARRY HIM IF HE TREAT YOU GOOD
2006-09-26 06:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋