I am 21 years old and still in college and my Bf is 23 and just started working we went with mutual friends to a bachelor Party and bachelorett party combine and a few drinks later were dared to walk down to the white chapel and get hitched since we were more cozy than the engaged couple. Well we did actually get married. We were only together 6 months before this and were only thinking of getting engaged!I am really confused and scared wedding night was a blur and i dont think we used a condom.This happened last week and i think i am still in shock.
2006-09-26 05:00:59 · 7 answers · asked by kelly v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont live with him because i have a dorm room but i do sleep over at his place a lot and i really have not had time to clear my head and speak to him.
2006-09-26 05:02:24 · update #1
Maybe you should consider an annulment. There is a huge difference between talking about getting engaged and getting married. I think anyone in your situation would be in shock. Get the annulment and get your life and relationship back on track. Now is not the time to be married.
2006-09-26 05:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are the one who should decide. Do u love him? Can u have feelings for him? If after another while, there is nothing, maybe it would be time to get a separated or something. To get married is easy. To get a divorce , it's even complicated soo make sure u won't regret it.
2006-09-26 12:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to loose and a lot of gain if you will remember your marriage vows.Your and his promises made to each other during a wedding ceremony. Didn't you promised ("love, comfort, keep"), faithfulness ("forsaking all others"), unconditionally ("for richer or for poorer", "in sickness and in health"), and permanence ("as long as we both shall live", "until death do us part"). or just run to court to get annulment before you get pregnant and with children it will be big hardship for both of you.
2006-09-26 12:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Sounds like you two had a fun night...!!! Either get it annulled OR try being married for a while...you might actuall ylike it and realize you love him. Best bet is to talk to him first....
2006-09-26 12:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW - sounds like you really need to sit back and think this out. Are you IN LOVE with each other??? You need to get together and talk everything out.
2006-09-26 12:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the way you got married, you got more days to get over it. You just mess up your life, hope you fix it before it is too late.
2006-09-26 12:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by carzone28 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry the shock wears off after a year or two
2006-09-26 12:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋