What does that mean??!!...........cause this gurl i knew her for 3-4 years and, she backed off cause she said she was scared cause she questioned if she really loved me or not, and also cause she thought i loved her more then she loved me......isnt that what women want is a guy that will love them more?
2006-09-26 05:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by Trent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I believe most women want to the love to equal on both sides. I personally have been with guys that loved me more than I them and it made me feel a bit smothered and obligated to be with them to compensate for the love that I didn't have for them. I say let it go because you will more than likely be the one who will get hurt because she will feel that after while she no longer owes you a debt of gratitude for loving her unconditionally and due to the fact she's made it known she doesn't love you as much will make it easier for her to cheat seeing as how she has nothing to lose or gain. I wish you all the best.
2006-09-26 05:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between loving your girlfriend and loving her too much. When you love your gf as much as she loves you, there is a balance in your relationship and you try to keep each other happy in about the same level. Basically, you both give and take about the same amount.
However, when you she thinks that you love her more, she might feel stifled and trapped in the relationship. You depend on her more and she might feel obligated to give more than she is willing to give. Also, she might feel pressured to commit more to the relationship than she is ready to, even if she does love you.
At this point, I think it is important to give her a little bit of space. Then, she would be able to think clearly about what it is that she wants in your relationship, and it would give her time to reflect on what it is that she loves about you. Once she gets over her own worries (and she would probably want to talk about them with you), then she would feel better about your relationship.
2006-09-26 12:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kristine L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a way of saying that she's not interested. She is trying to let you down easy. Find someone who will appreciate a nice guy like you.
2006-09-26 12:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was scared she'd end up hurting you or breaking your heart. she didn't want to lose you and wants to be compeletly honest with you. we've all seen how upset a guy can get at a girl because of this...she didn't want you to feel that way towards her. yes, that's what all women want...lol
2006-09-26 12:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She prob just doesnt have strong enough feeling for you and doesnt want to hurt you in the long run. and we only want men to luv us as much as we luv them.
2006-09-26 12:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was not in love maybe she just loved you and it was not enough in the end you want some one you can be In Love with...
2006-09-26 12:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means the girl really didn't love you or she has found someone else.
2006-09-26 12:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats her way of telling you she isn't that into you. Move on. Sorry.
2006-09-26 12:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she feels the guilt of not loving you the way you love her...
2006-09-26 12:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by r_y_s_s_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably more to it then that..just a "nice" way to leave you
2006-09-26 12:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋