Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

I've been doing affair w someone who's much older, then fcourse,, he's married. He has help me financially, and change my life into a better condition.He's very jealousy, and he juz wants me to be his, i cannot make friends with other man, even only become friends. Lately i juz found out by unproven proove that he has also another relationship with another woman. And i'm really hurt right now. I don't know what to do. I'm not ready to separate with him. But, i can't except if he has someone else. I want him to comeback to me. But, I also realized, that someday it'll be over, coz he'll never get divorced, and somehow, i also don't want that to ever happen. I know, i'm in a wrong position however i explain, and whatever my reason is. Actually, i've avoid him, but he kept chasing me. And now, this thing happen. I feel silly, hurt and juz don't know what to do. Should i juz proove infront of him that he's having another one, then juz left him. Or, should i act like i know nothing. Thanks

2006-09-26 05:00:53 · 9 answers · asked by Happy_hours 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it is realy hard being in a longdistance relationshipand want some advice to how we can make it better cause we both love one another and all but he has work that takes him out of town and all and sometimes he cant talk for days to me and i want to be able to spend more time with him should i (a)surrprise him with showing at his hotel or (b)just waiting for him to come home as they say absence make the heart grow founder right

2006-09-26 05:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by wounderwoman44 3 in Singles & Dating

What does that mean??!!...........cause this gurl i knew her for 3-4 years and, she backed off cause she said she was scared cause she questioned if she really loved me or not, and also cause she thought i loved her more then she loved me......isnt that what women want is a guy that will love them more?

2006-09-26 04:59:52 · 14 answers · asked by Trent 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 04:59:30 · 13 answers · asked by k p 1 in Friends

The other night my 5 year old said, "God, talks to me." He meant that when he prays he is talking with God, but it got my wheels turning about Mary and Joseph and what kind of things they might have done differently then other parents at the time.
It also got me thinking about whether or not, it would be a good or bad thing if the parents knew. I mean would knowing make the parents more protective and hence keep the kid from experiencing certain pains, similar to Buddha.

2006-09-26 04:59:18 · 5 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Family

I am very active and heavy in church and try to be with God. My husband goes but still cheats in any and every form there is. He also hits me often, pulls my hair talks bad about me. The pain is so deep I want to go but I also think I should give him a chance. The cheating memories haunt me day and night, I don't get much sleep. I hurt so deep!! I try to talk to him and he ignores me a great deal, or slaps me around. She's been in my house while I've been at work. He says he was upstairs alone looking for cigerrets. Theres been other incidents with the same girl and many many many many other girls.

2006-09-26 04:58:32 · 40 answers · asked by Cherokee285 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i havae a boyfriend who has recently moved we've been together for 2 years he is very loyal to me were getting married soon but every since he's moved i spend less time with him and talk to him less...yes there ae other guys who "want" me but i dont want them i want my baby what is a good way to deal with the fact he moved even though were still together and other kids sa hes cheating but he would never do that what should i worry about more...him cheating or falling out of love?? we love each other dearly but i jyst need some advice..so please HELP me!

2006-09-26 04:58:16 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiances dad seems like he disowned his only child. We live about 3,000 mile away, when we went to visit him he acted like it was a chore to go to dinner with us and when we arrived he let his wife totally disrespect us. She has 2 of her own, which my fiances father does everything for/with, but when it comes to his only son, he is short on the phone and could care less about what my fiance has to say to him. He has told me more than once he cant understand why his dad is doing this to him and that it hurts him, he wants to talk to him about it, but he doesnt know how. Would it be proper for me to call his dad and ask him what his problem is?

2006-09-26 04:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by madamjenn40 1 in Family

2006-09-26 04:57:18 · 3 answers · asked by Buff 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Please give more info on what British boys find attractive. The more specific to American girls, the better. Thanks!

2006-09-26 04:56:08 · 16 answers · asked by Kristine L 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the most embarrassing thing about you that you don't want anyone to know and you try to keep secret?!?!?!

mine is that i have a very small "package". yikes!

2006-09-26 04:55:51 · 6 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If your boyfreind after 3 yrs cheats on you and u love him should u take him back.

2006-09-26 04:55:49 · 39 answers · asked by hot chick 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to plan something really nice....but im all out of ideas...anyone??

2006-09-26 04:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by nikki m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my fiance were thinking bout having a redneck wedding, but now im not so sure. i need suggestions on what the theme should be

2006-09-26 04:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-26 04:53:54 · 11 answers · asked by Elias B 1 in Weddings

2006-09-26 04:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by sh_ptrsn 1 in Singles & Dating

My father never wants to spend time with me ( im a girl and im all most 15), bout 1 and 1/2 ago he bribed me to not go to public high school he said he would take me to hawaii i said ill go along with that if he spends more time with me he promised me, well he did not mean that promise. So yesturday i went to talk to him bout it and all he did was turn it back to me and what i did wrong, he called me a stupid b***h. He is a workaholic and this kinda behaver has been going on for all my life it started with my mom and now its my mom and me. He was 3 sons my half brothers they hate him cuz he was not a dad and i swear when i turn 18 im going to cut off any ties i have with my dad. i need some advice on what to do, im confusied please help me. thanks so so mutch.

2006-09-26 04:51:21 · 19 answers · asked by RedneckCuitie 2 in Family

why do guys do that, girls aint interested in that! that's just setting a wrong impression to a complete stranger.

2006-09-26 04:51:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other night my husband and I went out to eat, everything was going fine and out of no where a couple walked by us and my husband starting asking me if I was intimidated by her I said no why, the lady probably weighed 250 or so and I weigh 125, im not putting her down or anything but I felt no reason what so ever to be intimidated by her , I had no clue what was going on or why the cause for his attitude, well to make matters worse he was drinking like a fish, and started yelling at me for being jealous of someone he had an affair with 3 years ago[YES HE CHEATED ON ME] he was yelling are you mad cause so and so got some of my cock, my god what is wrong with this man I am really thinking about divorce, why would some one act this way?

2006-09-26 04:51:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-09-26 04:50:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with this dude and and he seems kinda sad but not really is it too early to get a new boyfriend.....?i broke up like 5 minutes ago and we only went out for a week

2006-09-26 04:50:26 · 10 answers · asked by Marissa S 2 in Singles & Dating

well my mom and dad always get mad at me for something i didn't do and they still blame me for it! i just wish they could walk in my shoes for a day even a week and see how my life is from their 2 eyes.

2006-09-26 04:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-09-26 04:49:09 · 15 answers · asked by Owlwings 7 in Friends

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2006-09-26 04:48:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 04:47:46 · 39 answers · asked by Rockman 1 in Singles & Dating

ok the thing is dat hes my finacee homeboy and hes at my house everyday once i get home from work. and we drink and smoke together and den he starts to get real friendly and touches my hand and is always starin at me for no reason at all. and its weird i mean he has so many girls after him but he chooses to stay at my house and chill with me, my finacee and my son. i havent told anything to my fiancee cuz if its all in mind i dont wanna start anything but why is he always lookin at me n touchin my hand he starts to get alil playful like he'll start to push me around alil like play fightin... i dunno i need to know wat da h*ll is goin on with this guy. i dont wanna ask him cuz i dont wanna feel stupid. so wats goin on

ok... i know im engaged n im not plannin to keep it goin which is why i wanna know if he likes me or wat da hell is hes problem. i dont want nothin to do with him but i wann know wat are hes intentions so i can let my fiancee know i no longer wat him in my house.

2006-09-26 04:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by mperez637 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 15 and so is my best friend. I am a guy, she's a girl, we have known each other for 2 years. I have noticed that we get along better in a more intimate surrounding, with fewer people around, like at her house watching T.V. or in the pool hall. But in school we generally hang out seperately and dont talk as much as we could. Why is this? Why do we get on better in quiter places?

2006-09-26 04:47:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 04:46:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you kiss a girl who you were sleeping with when she was sleeping and what does it mean if there is a meaning

2006-09-26 04:45:52 · 17 answers · asked by wetnslippy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 04:45:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating