I am 15 and so is my best friend. I am a guy, she's a girl, we have known each other for 2 years. I have noticed that we get along better in a more intimate surrounding, with fewer people around, like at her house watching T.V. or in the pool hall. But in school we generally hang out seperately and dont talk as much as we could. Why is this? Why do we get on better in quiter places?
2006-09-26 04:47:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ever here of the saying "Don't crowd me I need my space?".
If you just back off and let her breathe and when your together cool and when your not cool.
You will get a much more better response from your mate when they can see that you are more than what is mutual inside. Your a real person with real feelings and your life is not put on hold because of a mate. Party Hardy my friends..:)
2006-09-26 04:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just the nature of your relationship, it does not mean anything bad. I am 38 years old, so I have a little experience under my belt I have friends that all we do is go to the gym together and discuss sports, I have other friends that all we do together is discuss politics and current events. It means that we are different in a lot of ways but we have found enough areas of common ground that we can be friends. It is a good thing.
This may mean that you are romantically suited for each other or that you are just friends, either way you win.
2006-09-26 11:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 15year old, I'm 13 and i no god wot world do u live in. OK @ skool if a guy hangs out with a girl this can only mean 2 thing 1.he or she fancies each other 2.Ur dating in secret.
c people can't stand that people are just friends, it makes skool more fun if threes dating.
i get it all the time c u l8r k
2006-09-26 11:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Eliza Dolittle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe the different crowds that you two hang out with is the problem. If one is totally different than the other, it can be wierd. Unless it's a problem for you, like you feel she's ashamed to be seen hanging out with you, then I'd just let it continue how it is. But if you do feel that way, it's definitely good to bring it up to her and jokingly ask her about it or something.
2006-09-26 11:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are teens and hormones start to take advantage of you guys!!!!! @ school you pay more attention to what your friends (guys) do and she is w/ her girl friends; so inside you started liking each other. That happened to me when I was your age (Im a girl) ; I had a best friend (a boy); I started dating his brother and when we broke up, he told me to be his girlfriend, I didnt accert because after that friendship it not the same anymore, so be careful
2006-09-26 11:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get along better in quieter places b/c you aren't around your friends so you don't have to try to act cool you can just be yourself and it is easier that way.
2006-09-26 11:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt really know how you feel about her. so just talk to her and tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she will tell you she likes you but was afraid. She is willing to be close to you by yourselves becase she wont have to try to explain something she dont know how to explain to her friends. so basically just talk to her and tell her how you feel and hopefully she will tell you how she feels. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 11:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur just more comfortable just being together - you dont always have to hang in big crouds - doesnt really sound like there is a problem
2006-09-26 11:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its that you both are unsure if the other one feels the same way so its easier to just not do anything about it infront of ppl risking public humiliation i say just go for good luck !!
2006-09-26 11:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by playstp123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try hangin out together more with other people and see if she acts the same towards you as when you two are alone. if not there is nothing to pursue
2006-09-26 11:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋