Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

I have been dating my GF for 7months now. She has a M friend that her family has known for over 10 yrs. When I met her she told me they never did anything. I found out that she had slept with him a couple days before I met her. She claims it was a mistake and that she told him it was a mistake and she doesn't care for him like that. Sometimes she acts very vague and uncaring when I talk to her on the phone and then sometimes she will be very open and loving. She swears I am over reacting and I'm reading into things. I believe he goes over to her house and in the past she has admitted to him being over there. Now she never tells me that he is over there and when I call she doesn't answer her phone and claims she fell asleep or left phone in room. She works the mid shift so her hours are a little later than mine (2-10pm) so she is up much later than midnight. She takes my calls before 12am but ignores me from about 1:30am to 5:30am.. this is around the time he has to be at work. help me

2006-09-26 04:21:59 · 17 answers · asked by Tyler John 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys -

Okay, can us girls just assume that if you are being nice to a girl, touch her in any way, or joke with her, you find her attractive?

2006-09-26 04:21:32 · 27 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

people search trying find friends.

2006-09-26 04:21:25 · 11 answers · asked by david_channells 1 in Friends

Okay guy's this is more of a statement - and maybe some of you will THINK before acting. ... why the questions.... I'm cheating on my husband/wife should I tell her/him.

What do you guy's think? Are you 10 years old? Does your spouse mean that little you that you think nothing of giving to everyone. Does your spouse not deserve the same respect and consideration that you expect from them.

Next time any of you want to "jump into bed" with someone - why don't you think about your spouse BEFORE it happens. Not moan and cry about it after.

And if you've already shared with someone other than your spouse then you should give them the respect they deserve and leave them.

Children are SNEAKY that's why they are children - to grow and LEARN

We are SUPPOSED TO BE ADULTS.

Some of you really need to GROW UP.

2006-09-26 04:21:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would be the first thing you would do?

2006-09-26 04:21:05 · 13 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 04:20:51 · 2 answers · asked by destiny 1 in Friends

It is your special day..... wouldn't you like to see your wedding party getting the best use out of those dresses and tuxes?

2006-09-26 04:20:50 · 7 answers · asked by exotic69n 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter which is his grand-daughter, my daughter's 2 baby boys which are his great-grandsons, or my sister but he will talk to me every now and then. This is only since my Mom died. He now has a lady friend (girlfriend) that he has been seeing for over a year. He does all kinds of things with her and her family. What do you think the problem is? I have asked him and he says there is no problem, its just that he has a new life now.

2006-09-26 04:20:50 · 8 answers · asked by Kim M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help me please! I have two children, ages 2 and 5 that love to watch PBS Sprouts, especially the Good Night Show. My problem is this show has a new host that sucks! The kids hate him! Plus they rearranged their programs too! Please send an email to info@sproutletsgrow.com and tell them to get rid of Leo, bring back the old line up. A bonus would be to ask them to bring back Melanie.

2006-09-26 04:20:41 · 1 answers · asked by pablo h 3 in Family

My boyfriend of nearly a year cheated on me several times with another girl. Eventually I saw pictures of them together at various events while I was out of town. Now he wants to continue to hang out with his guy friends who helped him engage in these trysts? Should I be fine with this? I simply don't feel good about it.

2006-09-26 04:20:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 04:19:58 · 28 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a great boyfriend and i know for sure he loves me i just what to hear what yall think..

2006-09-26 04:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by Shayla 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I should give up and move one, but I just can't do it even though things seem to be heading towards an inevitable end.

Maybe I should just stick it out for however much longer it lasts?

(Ok - I'll shut up now)

2006-09-26 04:18:15 · 25 answers · asked by Mad Professor 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

me n my bf's 2 years anniversary is coming up {novemeber 8} and i want to do something sweet for him...ive already made a photoalbulm wid our pix hes surprised me wid a picnic at tha park..wat are other good ideas?? pls let me kno!!!

2006-09-26 04:17:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a new relationship with a man who makes me feel like me - like how I used to be, how I want to be. I have girlfriends from a prior relationship - I have left those friendships on the back burner. Now she wants us all to get together for drinks - I feel as if I've moved on & that we are different than how she wants me to be, how she remembers me. What should I do?

2006-09-26 04:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by CoronaGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you have more than one ethnic group in your group of friends? If you don't what are your reasons?

2006-09-26 04:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by craftykid22 3 in Friends

2006-09-26 04:16:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love sports, watch tv shows like LOST, 24, and Prison Break, are in college, and are attractive?

2006-09-26 04:12:19 · 16 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

Our weirdest was "accidently" giving a live show @ an "adult" theather in front of others. That was extremly weird but it turned out to be pretty cool!!! Wont do it again though.


*****LOL!!! BORED @ WORK *****

2006-09-26 04:12:04 · 16 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old husband he is 21 and we got married after 2 months of knowing dating each other in vegas as a joke. And due to a lot of drinking that same day have a baby on the way. We have been married for month still have not told our parents and we had our first big fight recently. I have to keep fighting the urge not to throw a fit and cry?Also sometimes my husband speaks to me as if i were a child?Calls me "kid"! He says i am his baby girl and he wants to take care of me and has strong feelings for me still and wants to take care of me and his child. He is an italian guy so aparantley he has always wanted to be a father eventually though he admits this is way ahead of schedule. He wants to stay married and know wants to attend my doctors appointments. He almost seems excited?I am afraid he is going to chang his mind? Do i believe him?

2006-09-26 04:11:53 · 18 answers · asked by Keri O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought most women prefer it.

2006-09-26 04:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by Salami and Orange Juice 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm divorced/single. I have a 20 yr. old daughter. Ever since she was about 14 yrs. old, she has been going back and forth (living) with me and her Father. I know in my heart that this is not going to work between her and her Father/Step Mom (again). Mom's the one who will have to pick up the pieces. I love my daughter dearly. She needs stability and direction. She needs her Father in her life, but at who's and what expense? What to say?

2006-09-26 04:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by sissycowgirl_64 1 in Family

2006-09-26 04:10:49 · 13 answers · asked by ceri p 1 in Friends

this guy that i went out with treated me so bad for one because i didnt have sex with him. well dreams go like this we are together which i think we never happen because he made feel like i was stupid and i didnt know anything and plus hes controlling he ask me for my social security number etc.hes just a total jerk. and we come from one of my relatives house.he confront me claiming that he think i be cheated on him.which i never did. then we go to this party and he down in the bsament tell me to wait for him and hes drinking. what do you think the meaning of this dream is.

2006-09-26 04:10:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

coz ive never experience it yet!!!!!!!!!can u help me???????

2006-09-26 04:10:13 · 17 answers · asked by LilyflowerChinne 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes or no?

2006-09-26 04:08:19 · 29 answers · asked by Mad Professor 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

it's been 4 months, since i found out, he still works with her, i never got to confront her, my husband has tryed to make it up to me , he took me on a month long trip to asia, and got me what i wanted to feel better new breasts and a full face lift, I was better looking than her to start but he was attracted to her naughty dirty talk, i have met her i had a bad feeling something was going on and it was

2006-09-26 04:07:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Yes or no?

2006-09-26 04:07:22 · 9 answers · asked by Mad Professor 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my BF always says go to your room..leave us alone..shut up no one wants to hear you..dont talk..get away..your annoying..your stupid....He never started acting like this till a few months ago, We have lived together for over a year and just about 3 months ago he started acting like this and he tells me im controlling if i ask if we can have a day alone and not have any friends over....is he showing signs of being controlling? Even yesterday i went to the gym with him and he kept saying no dont do that your doing it wrong use more weight use less weight out your hand further apart...i know how to use the machines i used to work out every day for dance and in high school....I'm worried im letting him do to much Opinions please

2006-09-26 04:07:05 · 17 answers · asked by TEMPTRESS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am sick and tired of my wife's aggressive style of talking. I feel she always wants to wrong me, that I am not right, I don't like it. I am 7 years older than she is, i am 26 and she is 19, it was an arranged marriage, after marriage i am very disturbed because we fight every week or after every 3 days.

I think no matter what i do, she will never appreciate, yes there is a problem with understanding in the two of us, maybe i am too sensitive and can't stand the way she talks, and she is not hating me or something, but it's her way of talking. In other words its not our delibrate something, it is something that we might have to live with, personality differences.

I can't divorce her either, because the culture in which we live, a women who is divorced is as good as dead (u know india) and the situation is worrying me more becvause i have gotten her impregranted.

Now what the hell do I do? confused as in hell...

2006-09-26 04:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by busynessmaan 1 in Marriage & Divorce