Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

my frnds' relationship is 2 years, my 2nd friends' is 4 years, mine is 3 years.
all of us get bored to our bf.

now lets focus in my relationship...
i think i get bored w this long relationship.
n if i away from him, lets have sum long distance relationship for a month, i hv tendency not to miss him n start to flirt w guys i attracted to ( doesnt really mean to go out for a date or anythin, so far i only flirt to hv fun)
but when i get back to the same place n we start to see regulary again i kinda feel the need to see him again....i think i only need "sumone " to accompany me n he is a very nice guy, but i dont love him as much as he loves me.

the prob is, i cant break him up becoz its hard to find guy as nice as him, i still love him ( just get used to him too much) but not as much as he loves me...

but..i get bored n i dont feel the old thrill...........i dont know how to put this into proper question but i hope i have describe this gud enough...

2006-09-26 03:34:43 · 12 answers · asked by facobasten1984 3 in Singles & Dating

i just wondered how many people (in the UK) used a professional wedding planner for there wedding day and if so did you think it was a smart move or a waste of time and money? if you not already married, would you hire a wedding planner when your 'big day' arrives? im seriously thinking about doing a diploma in wedding planning and once qualified, starting up my own 'wedding planning business' and just wondered what the public requirement would be for a wedding planner and if you think it would be worth the time and money if i were to enroling in the course? only serious answers please.

2006-09-26 03:33:16 · 9 answers · asked by Littleme 2 in Weddings

I have been nice to her and I do not think I gave her signs of interest??Sex blackmale this is a first for me! I am worried that if I tell my gf about it she will believe her and not me We have been together for 3 yrs and she has been friends with her since they were in high school together 10 yrs or so. How should I handle this?? IKnow truth is always best but....I don't want to lose her??

2006-09-26 03:33:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is trying to make me look unfit because I left him for another man. He says that I can't have any custody if I marry this other man. He changed the locks on the doors when I tried to take my daughter with me at the time of our breakup. As long as I am not with another man, I can see my daughter. Is this a control tactic? He says he will dub me unfit if I push him for custody or for visitation while the boyfriend is around. He says he will bring up my depression medicine, Zoloft. I went to an outpatient hospital for 3 months for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder 2 yrs. ago. He took me there after I asked for help. I had started drinking secretly and crying alot and taking sleeping pills at night. But I got help and straightened up.....this was 2 yrs. out of our 23 yr. marriage. So am I unfit in a judges eyes? And he is not perfect, he had to go to anger management therapy--compliments of his job/boss. He also found a viagra bottle in my purse and kept it.

2006-09-26 03:32:36 · 18 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A while ago my best friend and my boyfriend had a conflict. What do I do? My best friend is always there for me...even when my boyfriend has been a jerk to me and I just need someone to talk to. She always gives me advice, she never bashes him. We just have a great time together. My boyfriend is my world and I love him to death. He's also my best friend, but just as a man, there are some small things I can't talk to him about. I have not told my boyfriend that I still talk to my best friend on a daily basis. Now he knows and he's mad at me, but I know that they do not like each other nor get along...but they have both been very good to me.

How do I solve this conflict? Am I supposed to dump my best friend all together?

2006-09-26 03:32:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

have you told someone you loved them before you actually did just because they said it first

2006-09-26 03:31:17 · 26 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

My partner is quite above average. He is about 8 1/2 inches and probably 2 inches thinner than a coke can.(Sorry for the TMI) My question is, when we first started having sex everything was good. We had it frequently about every other day and now 9 months later Ive been tearing down there, and i'll be sore for a week. We have sex about once a week, and in that time its my healing time.Well two weeks ago we were having our weekly activity when he tried to get in from behind. My vagina ended up being tight as the anus ,and caused horrendous pain.I was bleeding for 2 days and sore for a whole week. Now i am traumatized, and when we had sex again yesturday he ended up tearing me again. Ive given myself enough time to heal plenty of times but this is not the first time its happened. Why was i tight so much the last time, and now i tear everytime. Is that normal?and Not to mention everynow and then it hurts like his penis is jabbing me. Why is this barely happening?

2006-09-26 03:30:51 · 13 answers · asked by Schism 1 in Singles & Dating

HE has everthing he has ever needed

2006-09-26 03:30:38 · 38 answers · asked by darlene fORTIER 1 in Family

My boyfirend uses my computer often even when I'm at work I checked the history & saw that he had a myspace page ( prior to this I asked him if he had one & he said no) when I called him and asked him again he said no again that he doesn't know what I'm talking about. 2 mins later he's like please don't be mad at me I love you! I'm like what the F*&k? I've been irnoring his calls since last night. Am I overecating? or should I let this go?

2006-09-26 03:30:26 · 15 answers · asked by SoooMad07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a bf but i'm kinda bored with him i'm 15 nad he's 13 i hurt him once before so i want him to break up with me!!?

2006-09-26 03:30:11 · 16 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Singles & Dating

i actually a quiet guy but i have no problems communicating if there is a big group. but in one-on-one situations with girls (my friends) i tend to get very nervous and can't think of anything to talk about. what can i do? any tips?

2006-09-26 03:29:42 · 10 answers · asked by Duh! 1 in Singles & Dating

besides the obvious...................

how do you get your partner fired up?

2006-09-26 03:29:25 · 16 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay ladies be completely honest we as women have all done this weather it was by mistake or on purpose slept with or been involved with a man that was already involved in a long term relationship. If you where aware of his relationship and continued to see him what was you reason? If you didn't know in the beginning after you found out did you still see this guy or did you dump him? I also want to know if any of you ever felt as if you could take this man from his wife or long term girlfriend if so WHY?

2006-09-26 03:28:43 · 18 answers · asked by cwallflower32 3 in Marriage & Divorce

any one on here with last name wise or know or related to any wises please reply would like to know trying to make a family tree

2006-09-26 03:27:57 · 2 answers · asked by ann p 3 in Family

We met before Christmas 2005 at Riverside Studios. We instantly took a liking to each other. We talked all evening. In fact we hardly talked to anyone else (we had some others there as well). We even went to the tube and talked. Unfortunately, before I could gather the courage to ask for her phone number, her stop came up, so she left.

Her name starts with E (four letters). She’s from Ireland, about 5”5’, in her mid twenties. Has the loveliest of blue eyes. She lives in Finchley, London. She works as an accountant in the City. Travels by the Northern Line. She told me she was going to spend Christmas 2005 with her mother in Ireland. She loves watching “Only Fools and Horses”.

If anyone can help me find this girl, I will me most grateful. We do have a mutual friend, but she has other plans (regarding me), and won’t help.

2006-09-26 03:27:06 · 20 answers · asked by netwalker01 3 in Singles & Dating

on here today? if so where are you, I'm in yorkshire,

2006-09-26 03:27:01 · 39 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

has a gf.. but they tell u they r getting sick of her. and that she gets on his nerves.. and tells you they really* like you and want to go out with you. and that they want to brake up with his gf.. but he still like calls me on weekends and wants to do things with me. but hes told me alot that he was going to brake up with her. he did once, but they went backout cuz he was jellus of her... goshhh what should i DO?

2006-09-26 03:26:14 · 23 answers · asked by sugar_123000 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you feel like you could be doing something better with your time? Are you just bored or what? Why are we on the computer asking and answering stupid questions? :-)

2006-09-26 03:26:06 · 5 answers · asked by mstngsally26 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband left the state(MI) fro work in nevada in june, we have a home that we are still paying for in MI and we have children that are in school at this time. we have not had any luck as of yet in selling our home, so i am i have rented the home for $200 less than what our mort pmt is, from the pressure he has put on me to ove RIGHT NOW!!
i am pregnant and i am due in jan, i would like to stay here and save some extra $$ just in case something happens w/ the tenant, so i was looking to move in feb.
since i have told him that he has told me that he'd rather not talk or hear from me until i am ready to move, that he is tired of this phone relationship, he feels like he's single cuz he's there alone!
he thinks that i just dont want to leave!!
im so confused and torn, i dont know what to think!
what do u think is going on w/ him????
please help me!!!

2006-09-26 03:25:53 · 14 answers · asked by andrea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ink is not dry on dviorce papers and X has moved in with a new Hooch. We have 17 month old son that he gets on weekends and he refuses to tell me where they live now or updated phone number. Will I go to jail if i refuse visitation for the safety of my child. She could be a psycho. or her kids could be jealous of the baby and do harm to him. help

2006-09-26 03:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Stacy W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am at a vocational school in florida right now at my computer while I'm supposed to be studying. What are you doing and where are you?

2006-09-26 03:24:38 · 18 answers · asked by mstngsally26 1 in Family

Prior to us getting married he was very promisicous, I have never had such horrible experience with this infection which has taken weeks to clear, finally I'm starting to feel better. I don;t the cause of this horrible infection and I was taking birth control pills. However, I'm so freaked out that I am fearing having sex with him, and just had an argument with him and he told me he won;t have sex with me anymore due to how I'm feeling. I feel I got this cause of him.

I'm feel I won't be able to have sex with hima nymore I;m just afraid of getting sick again. What should I do?

2006-09-26 03:23:54 · 26 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I decided since I can afford it now. I would get my teeth straightened. The secretary at work dedided she would get some too. She gets hers done before I even have a chance, now I look like the copy cat. She is even looking to buy the same car that I'm getting.

My brother and his wife do the same thing. They, copy my vacations and talk about how much better it was than mine. They even tried to buy my car too, but they couldn't afford it.

Why can't people be original? Am i wrong to not want all of these wanna bees following everything I do?

2006-09-26 03:23:36 · 7 answers · asked by Food Traveler 4 in Friends

We've been going out for 3 months in 3 days and i love her alot.. we have a different relationship than most people have.. we are with each other every single day and when we leave each other we get on the phone with each other.. i've had a little crush on her for about 3 years, but i never really liked her until last year.. and I want to do something for her that would show her that i really love her.. What should i do?

2006-09-26 03:22:37 · 24 answers · asked by Taylor 1 in Singles & Dating

Its a dirty filthy habit i know but ever since pre-teens i have always been turned by women smoking. I know i'm not alone in this fetish but what i don't know is, are there any women out there who have this fetish? I adore women smoking during sex, but i usually dont last very long when they do.Only sensible answers please XXX

2006-09-26 03:22:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And you just found out would you stay married to her ?And if so what would you do to prevent it from happen again?

2006-09-26 03:21:32 · 26 answers · asked by none 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you find your husband's profile online, and there's a picture of what looks like a 20 yr. old girl (with her clothes still on) posing, does this mean he's possibly cheating? posing in a sexy way.

2006-09-26 03:21:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

gourmet lunch shop and she is working there. At this shop things are so busy and noisy, there is no time to strike up ANY conversation. I just smile and place my order..... at the church where I have been seeing her for the past 5 wks, I see her sitting in the sanctuary, but there is NO opportunity to sit close to her, nor to make any eye contact nor any conversation. When church is over I can't get to her before she leaves. I DO know, from asking around at the church that she is divorced, and very, very unlikely dating anyone.....and that she is a very sweet person who has a 5 year old son.Question: The lunch place has a slow time around 3:00 in the afternoon and maybe I can talk to her then......... Is it ok to ask her out on a date the first time I talk with her, because who knows I never get another opportunity to ask her out again... I have not even said a word to her yet.....because of the lack of opportunity. Help !!!!!

2006-09-26 03:20:51 · 7 answers · asked by JustPeachy !!! 5 in Singles & Dating

My best friend of 9 years has never been "perfect" neither have I by any means but since I had started planning my wedding she became very competitive with getting married and having more kids. Now that my wedding is done every time we talk shes mentioning things shes planning for her wedding and having another baby like shes trying to "one up" me. I try to make it clear that I want her wedding to be everything she wants it to be and just leave it at that but the constant "look at how much better I am" sh*t it getting monotonous.
How do i talk to her about this with out accusing her?

2006-09-26 03:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by Gidgy 2 in Friends

2006-09-26 03:20:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating