My partner is quite above average. He is about 8 1/2 inches and probably 2 inches thinner than a coke can.(Sorry for the TMI) My question is, when we first started having sex everything was good. We had it frequently about every other day and now 9 months later Ive been tearing down there, and i'll be sore for a week. We have sex about once a week, and in that time its my healing time.Well two weeks ago we were having our weekly activity when he tried to get in from behind. My vagina ended up being tight as the anus ,and caused horrendous pain.I was bleeding for 2 days and sore for a whole week. Now i am traumatized, and when we had sex again yesturday he ended up tearing me again. Ive given myself enough time to heal plenty of times but this is not the first time its happened. Why was i tight so much the last time, and now i tear everytime. Is that normal?and Not to mention everynow and then it hurts like his penis is jabbing me. Why is this barely happening?
2006-09-26 03:30:51 · 13 answers · asked by Schism 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's my only sex partner and we were both tested a month ago.So we are std free.
2006-09-26 03:31:20 · update #1
No actually I dont have a small frame. I also gave birth to an 8 ib baby 2 years ago, so like i said, This just started happening recently like 2months ago. And when i ride him, it feels like he keeps jamming my insides. When he hits it from behind i arch my body to the side cause it feels like he is jamming my cervix or something. Ive talked ot him about it, and like i said we are std free, i just dontknow why this is barely happening. And yes we use plenty of lube. Not that last time though that i tore really bad.
2006-09-26 03:57:06 · update #2
Use a lot of lube, maybe it is not wet enough. And have it only once week, you are getting tight. Try more often even if it still hurts to lossen you up a little.
2006-09-26 03:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How Mercy, what state are you in? He's exactly what I've been looking for. A BIG DADDY!! Maybe you should be on top. You can control how much you take in. He would still have to be gentle and use alot of lubrication. Some women vagina's can't be made to accept a big penis. Your body frame must be small, which is nothing to be ashamed about. You should learn to relax more also and talk to him during the act and tell him what feels good and what is just causing you pain.
2006-09-26 03:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by juceelipz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax, enjoy it, that is the difference between today and before.
You need some time to heal before start again.
Remeber it doesn't have to have a schedule, once a week, twice a week, if you are relaxed and healed and expecting to enjoy the ride it can happen whenever you two want.
When you go the back door, it also needs foreplay and lubrication, there is a round muscle in there that needs to be relaxed and lubricated before penetration. Lubrication has to go on during penetration at all times.
2006-09-26 03:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, um.....??Well, I-I-...Um....I'm thinking...Hold on....Okay, Okay, I think I've got it. Maybe he is being too rough with you. He should try being more gentle and a little extra lubrication couldn't hurt either. A woman's body is made to stretch so the only reason for all of your problems is that he needs to be more gentle and constantly lubricated. Hope this helps and may I say you are the first question to totally have me speechless. LOL.
2006-09-26 03:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
counting on the timing in Andre's existence. Andre could dominate the two adult males at his height yet huge Daddy V may well be a anchor that could way him down. Out of all 4 of those Viscera is the least athletic so if he bypass caught interior the hoop the two tutor or Yokozuna could pin him.
2016-10-01 09:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by elidia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you getting stimulated before sex to get lubricated (wet)? You may have to try some lubrication (KY Jelly) to help the penis slide in more easily or try different position. I would also recommend that you see your doctor to make sure there no problems. Depending on what you sexual rhythm is, try to take it slow and not have rough sex.
2006-09-26 03:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that for a long time (or should I say for many times) there was nothing wrong, indicates another problem. Best is to see a doctor about it. It could lead to all kinds of problems later.
2006-09-26 03:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jorge E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better go see a doctor. Babies are a lot bigger than an 8 1/2 inch penis, and women have been having them for years.
2006-09-26 03:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny Platinum 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should try some kind of other activity!
Use lube and toys get yourself ready and able for him.
there are ladies out there who can take an entire fist in there so take your time and enjoy!
2006-09-26 04:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by advent m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I woudn't have sex with him any more. Let him pleasure you with his fingers.
2006-09-26 03:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋