If you find your husband's profile online, and there's a picture of what looks like a 20 yr. old girl (with her clothes still on) posing, does this mean he's possibly cheating? posing in a sexy way.
2006-09-26 03:21:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
btw I'm in my 20's too.
2006-09-26 03:33:28 · update #1
The question should be why is he online communicating with other women. Talk to your husband and get him to tell you the truth. Why is he looking? Does he spend a lot of time on the computer when he could be spending it with you? If so, tell him how it makes you feel to see things like that and more than likely he will honor your wishes, and if he doesn't then he may be looking for something other than what he has at home. Check it out.
2006-09-26 03:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are two answers to your question. Either he likes to look at younger girls, which i do not believe is right whether you are married or not. The person does not have to be naked to be considered porn. I would not jump to conclusions just yet! Do some research first. It could be something the two of you could talk about calmly because he may have a problem and let him know how you feel about it. I feel it is very degrading to woman! Personally it would make me feel like I was not good enough! But, if you do your research and he is cheating then you are going to have alot to think about!!!! GOOD LUCK
2006-09-26 11:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... is hard to say that he is actually cheating but what you can really determine from that is that he is not loyal and that he is being disrespectful of you and the relationship. All they guys here are going to tell you, no big deal, everybody does that, but that doesn't mean that what am telling you is not true or old fashion. So if you feel this way the best thing to do is talk to him and let him know the way this makes you feel, if he rally loves you and cares about you, he'll stop.
2006-09-26 10:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ecco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be, or he could be "trying" to cheat. Im sure if you confronted him he would have a quick but lame excuse of why that pick is there. He will probably say it is his second cousin that lives in another state and she sent it to him. They havent seen each other since she was a toddler and she wanted him to see just how "all grown up she is"
I would be angry and confront him on it, but dont fall for any stories, I bet you are smarter than you think and stay with your instincts!!!! Good luck
2006-09-26 11:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by nnett64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that a married man has no business "chatting" with anyone of the opposite sex, online. Unless he was looking for information on computers or other general stuff.
Just give it some time. If he's still out there snoopin', then let him know how you feel.
2006-09-26 10:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't mean he is cheating. But it might mean that he is hurt in the relationship and might need to talk about it.. Can you think of something that might have hurt his feelings. It might mean that he has a fantasy and doen't know how to tell you. why not try sudecing him and when you are both horny ask him his fantasy and try to fullfill it. Good Luck
2006-09-26 10:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by weldergooroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt like it one bit. it doesnt mean he is cheating on you physically but it could be mentally. your best bet is to ask him about it. sometimes men like to get attention from other women it makes them feel good about themselves..dont you feel good when a man when you are out tries to pick you up or compliments you...i am sure it makes you feel good. same deal here. prolly a 20 year old wanted to chat with him and he saved her pic cuz he thot wow i still got it!
2006-09-26 10:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. A lot goes on online that has little to do with real life.
2006-09-26 10:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a perfectly reasonable reason as to why you are snooping around in his account, I suggest you ask him this question. Snooping is ok as long as you have reason to do so besides insecurity.
2006-09-26 10:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Georgina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ought to flat out ask him about it. See what he says and if he denies it, show him what you saw. Tell him the truth that it bothers you.
2006-09-26 11:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋