has a gf.. but they tell u they r getting sick of her. and that she gets on his nerves.. and tells you they really* like you and want to go out with you. and that they want to brake up with his gf.. but he still like calls me on weekends and wants to do things with me. but hes told me alot that he was going to brake up with her. he did once, but they went backout cuz he was jellus of her... goshhh what should i DO?
2006-09-26 03:26:14 · 23 answers · asked by sugar_123000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have sex with him and see which one he wants. It may take a few times, but maybe he'll finally decide which of you is a better lay.
2006-09-26 03:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by New Rider of the purple sage 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's acting this way about his current girlfriend, chances are he'll do the same thing if you two wind up together. Do you really want to be in that kind of situation, where you can't be sure if your boyfriend is going around behind your back, telling other girls he's sick of you? I'd ditch him and find someone who knows how to respect and treat his girlfriend, even if he's ready to move on in the relationship.
2006-09-26 10:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set clear boundaries and stick to them. This is the only way he will respect you. For example, make it clear that you won't have anything to do with him until he's been broken up with his gf for a while (longer than last time). And, that in the meantime, you will be keeping your options open because you're young, beautiful and interesting and have too much self-respect to sit around waiting on some immature guy who can't make up his mind. To help you keep up those boundaries, shop around! You may very well find someong you really like better! See, it should be about you, not him, in this situation!
2006-09-26 10:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communicate to him that he can call and see you again only after he has broken up with this other woman. He has to make a choice and stick to it otherwise you will be the one in the future that will be getting on his nerves and that he will be sick of when he's calling someone else. A tiger doesn't change his stripes. Be careful not to be the next fool in his line of conquests. Fare Thee Well.
2006-09-26 10:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be fair sweetie it sounds to me like you are being played. He clearly wants to dangle his carrot infront of both your noses (pardon the expression). He cannot be serious about you if he can't split up with his girlfriend through jealousy. It seems like he wants you but also wants her. Leave well alone my dear - there are plenty more fish in the sea and this fish has just swam.
2006-09-26 10:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, don't believe this dude. If any guy wants to date another girl nothing will stand in their way, he would have broken up with her by now. From my perspective it seems that he just wants to be messing around with two girls at the same time. Don't trust him! You deserve a guy who's going to want just you!!!!
If he was going to break up with her for you, he would have done it by now. I'd find youself a single guy.
2006-09-26 10:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by CR2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else. Anyone who can do that to their girlfriend will be equally able to do that to you. Why would you want to be with a person whom you can never completely trust? Don't you deserve better?
2006-09-26 10:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop him like a stinky sack of poo. Reminds me of a man that wants to leave his wife but wont.
2006-09-26 10:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know someone who always does the same. He loves girls two by two. i'm trying to protect myself from being one of his victims!
2006-09-26 10:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by adorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on the town, drink some beers, and forget about it.
2006-09-26 10:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋