My boyfirend uses my computer often even when I'm at work I checked the history & saw that he had a myspace page ( prior to this I asked him if he had one & he said no) when I called him and asked him again he said no again that he doesn't know what I'm talking about. 2 mins later he's like please don't be mad at me I love you! I'm like what the F*&k? I've been irnoring his calls since last night. Am I overecating? or should I let this go?
2006-09-26 03:30:26 · 15 answers · asked by SoooMad07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He lied. What else is he not telling you?
Find someone who respects you.............
2006-09-26 03:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you overreacting? I don't think so, because he lied so you have a right to be mad. When you finally decide to talk to him, tell him you don't appreciate him lying to you. Ask him why he lied and why the hell does he have a myspace page? I have seen that alot of people use myspace to meet other people. Is this the case with him? So ask him! Try to get to the bottom line of this myspace.com thing and then decide if you're willing to forgive him or not. I would have to hear the story behind him having a myspace page first before deciding if I should forgive and forget.
2006-09-26 03:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes what's the big deal. Why did he lie? Did you question him why he had to cover that? I would be mad too not that he has a myspace but lying about it. That's a problem. Just try to talk it out. If you can't resolve it then I would say move on. I would be wondering what else is he lying about. And I wouldn't want to be in a relationship always wondering if he's lying. My theory is when in doubt I kick him to the curb. Don't waste your time on a liar. Life's to short to settle. Good luck.
2006-09-26 03:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not over reacting. A relationship is built upon mutual respect and trust, and he has broken that trust by concealing, and broken the respect by lying.
However the greater question might be, why did he feel he needed to lie and conceal it from you in the first place? I mean, what are you like that might be causing him to feel that way? This doesn't mean that you are the one at fault, but rather, that he is afraid of you in some way to have done that. And fear is love's opposite, so you may wish to ask yourself what you might also be doing to make him fearful.
2006-09-26 03:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lied about something stupid, did you go look at the page? Is he cheating on you? Why would he lie about a Myspace page unless he has something to hide, so no you are not overreacting.
2006-09-26 03:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have just one computer I don¸t see the problem, but if you are talking about him,checking things you store on your computer without your permission,than I would say you have a problem...and no you are not overreacting!
2006-09-26 03:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have been you, i might quit her from staring at my baby, she's too lazy to even feed the toddler, the toddler is cranky with the aid of fact he's not getting fed, she has ruined the undeniable fact that he become on a sippy cup, and have been given him back on a bottle, his schedule is all screwed up now, he could get a diaper rash, he's caught in his swing all day. the girl is showing signs and indications of overlook on your toddler! in the journey that your husband desires to be a douche bag, and overlook approximately this, i might tell him, considering which you want to blow all this off, that is time for me to take action. that is OUR baby, we are speaking approximately, no longer the family participants canines! The habit in all probability does not faze him with the aid of fact she in all probability did it to him, and so he's use to it, yet i does no longer get use to it. quit her lifeless in her tracks, confront her with the video, and tell her she's have been given to get to stepping, and placed your baby in a qualified daycare, and confirm you have performed you're homework, so which you would be able to repair what's been broken. That damaging toddler is in all probability perplexed! sturdy success!
2016-10-18 00:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by turrill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go, for all you know he was invited to sign up by a friend so he just looked at it and decided to sign up as well. everyone has a my space page.. and not everyone signs up to hook up. Trust your man.
2006-09-26 03:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by MISSTERY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you get one yourself and then see how he feels, or tell him how you feel about it an see what he says as there is no point in ignoring him, but i think your partner is bang out of order for lieing, as my partner used to lie to me but i usedto catch him out and id lose my temper an in the end he knew not to lie and now he tells me and asks me what i think
2006-09-26 03:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by randylady321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not over reacting cause if you look at it he has lied straight to your face twice, maybe more, what else does he lie about, ask him to tell you three more secrets that he has lied about or its over, and if he tells you still dump him, that is funny ISH... oh yeah sorry to hear that
2006-09-26 03:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Yea Baby!
2006-09-26 03:34:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋