It is your special day..... wouldn't you like to see your wedding party getting the best use out of those dresses and tuxes?
2006-09-26 04:20:50 · 7 answers · asked by exotic69n 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's your wedding and you should have what ever will make that day memorable for you and your mate. By agreeing to be in the wedding party they are also agreeing to do what will please the Bride & Groom who ultimately have the last word.
2006-09-26 04:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can certainly ask them if they are interested in learning when you ask them to be in the wedding party. But be sure to give them plenty of time to learn. By that I mean at a bare minimum of 3 months, and more is better. If they don't feel comfortable learning to do a waltz, they should be allowed to gracefully decline the invitation to be part of the wedding party.
Please don't spring this on your wedding party a few weeks before hand. Yes, it's your big day, but do you want that day to include forcing the wedding party to do something they don't feel comfortable doing?
2006-09-26 04:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going to pay then sure. People in your wedding are already paying enough for the dress tux etc..... and this is all for you, why would you make them spend more money and more time on something for your day?
if you are going to have them spend their time then you foot the bill!!
2006-09-26 04:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They already have to fork out $$$ for dresses and tux's, now dance class ???? If YOU are going to pay for it then sure, bring it up. If not, only you and your new husband should take them.
2006-09-26 04:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think they are doing enough?
Be happy they have agreed to be in your wedding -you are clearly one self centered person
2006-09-26 04:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't turn into a bridezilla.
2006-09-26 05:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nutz?
2006-09-26 04:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋