Okay guy's this is more of a statement - and maybe some of you will THINK before acting. ... why the questions.... I'm cheating on my husband/wife should I tell her/him.
What do you guy's think? Are you 10 years old? Does your spouse mean that little you that you think nothing of giving to everyone. Does your spouse not deserve the same respect and consideration that you expect from them.
Next time any of you want to "jump into bed" with someone - why don't you think about your spouse BEFORE it happens. Not moan and cry about it after.
And if you've already shared with someone other than your spouse then you should give them the respect they deserve and leave them.
Children are SNEAKY that's why they are children - to grow and LEARN
We are SUPPOSED TO BE ADULTS.
Some of you really need to GROW UP.
2006-09-26 04:21:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay everyone. I've probably been dumped at some time in my life. Can't remember probably high school or something. I wrote this hoping that someone out there might think twice before cheating.
On the other hand....
I think my statements are constructive and do not convey hostility. And what sort of compassion whould you (GrnApl) want your spouse to show you. Would you want your spouse to cheat? Would you find that acceptable.
I can throw stones in MY glass house, for I have nothing to fear. I have not disrespected any man I have been out with.
I can hold my head up..... CAN YOU?
and YES everyone CAN behave the way they are supposed to THEY CHOOSE NOT TO... there is a difference.
2006-09-26 05:37:22 · update #1
At your age you should have learned some self-control and courtesy when attempting to communicate your position with others who may or may not have had the benefit of a well-rounded upbringing. Dysfunction breeds dysfunction as evidenced by the questions contained within this venue. Your statements are not constructive and convey a judgemental attitude and hostility. A mature adult while disagreeing with behaviors knows how to show compassion without condoning the said behavior. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
2006-09-26 04:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that was rather enlightening !
I'm not sure what you were asking but I am 46 years old and never cheated on my wife and never cheated on a girlfriend before I was marrried or engaged.
I'm sorry you got dumped on and assume that you needed to get that off your chest.
Maybe I missed something (possibly a past posting) ? If so, please forgive the misunderstanding.
2006-09-26 11:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit cheating and be honest to your mate. Cheating is the same as lying. You need to be honest with yourself. How dare you. Shame. You should go on the Dr. Phil show.
2006-09-26 11:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whaooo....take it easy ! What's your main problem??
Not everyone can behave they way they are supposed to be behaving. By getting on your nerves with these people is just wasting YOUR precious time too.
2006-09-26 11:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also spracht Zarathustra
2006-09-26 14:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell em. Why get married if you have no intentions of being faithful. I think everyone should have to take a course and PASS it before they can get married.
2006-09-26 11:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeh!!!!! just sharing a bed doenst make you a cheat.
2006-09-26 11:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you smoking?
2006-09-26 11:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by rufnready 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
respect then
2006-09-26 11:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THANK YOU................
I AM SICK OF THESE STUPID KIDS GETTING MARRIED AND THAN ASKING "WHAT SHOULD I DO"?
2006-09-26 11:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋