Guys -
Okay, can us girls just assume that if you are being nice to a girl, touch her in any way, or joke with her, you find her attractive?
2006-09-26 04:21:32 · 27 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way...some people get along like that...but yet some dont. It also depends how the person feels. I joke around a lot with my friends yet I dont like em'. It is just something natural
2006-09-26 04:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy BAbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is to believe, some people are nice just for the sake of being nice.
Just look at servers in restaurants for example, they can be nice, touch you on the shoulder/arm/etc and all they are doing is trying to make a connection of some kind or get a better tip.
Also depends alot on the person. Some people are just "touchy" and like to hug, touch, peck on the cheek, with many people. I have a few friends like that. One used to even sit on my lap and give me lots of hugs, but it was just a friendship thing. SHe does that with alot of people (male or female). She is just one of the touchy people.
Basically, assume nothing. If you really want to know just ask.
2006-09-26 11:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...90% of the time a guy would not even be able to make eye contact with a girl he really likes let alone touch her, but if he's a dating expert he will do things like make eye contact and let YOU touch him first....A girl must always test these guys to the limit by playing hard to get to know if he's the real deal...if the girl starts acting CLINGY or STALKYLIKE...she's toast...cause real men know psychos suck.
Girls must be calm and subtle and let the guy do the chasing.
2006-09-26 12:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jr Thompson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much...If I chose to spend time with a girl, that means that I like her. I cannot imagine myself in a platonic relationship with a member of the opposite gender. If I spend time with a girl, I might be liking what I'm seeing and want to get more information, if I truly like her or not. If I am assured I like her character, and all, then I start to get more intimate with topics, jokes, and being nicer than normal...
2006-09-26 11:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Hesse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am nice to alot of girls without meaning anything by it. I mean some people act differently though. Just ask the guy if he likes you. Or get naked and have wild sex. J/K.
2006-09-26 11:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no- that is a false assumption. Hopefully we as good guys will be nice to all girls, even those we don't find attractive.
2006-09-26 11:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am more direct - say it like it is - no room for guessing or playing games. if i find someone attractive I tell them by the way if that is your true picture I find you attractive.
2006-09-26 15:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a long stretch for a guy. He may just be horny or is friendly with EVERYONE. I wouldnt assume it, it could lead to major frustrations.
2006-09-26 11:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st golden rule of guyhood...
We pretty much try to nail as many girls as we can especially the ones we are being nice to.
2nd rule of guyhood...
After the nailing see if she has a cute friend to try the same.
2006-09-26 11:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-26 11:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋