My boyfriend of nearly a year cheated on me several times with another girl. Eventually I saw pictures of them together at various events while I was out of town. Now he wants to continue to hang out with his guy friends who helped him engage in these trysts? Should I be fine with this? I simply don't feel good about it.
2006-09-26 04:20:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make him ditch his cohorts in crime..... DITCH HIM!!! If he has cheated on you SEVERAL times....WTF???...What would you want to keep him for? A venereal disease?
2006-09-26 04:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality it was not his friends that did the deed. I'm sure they didn't force him to cheat on you with the other girl. He was the one who did the deed. I can see where you wouldn't like his friends but he did it, not them.
If he cheated several times before, he will more than likely cheat again. You and your boyfriend haven't even been together and year and he cheated on you. Think about that! Find another boyfriend, one that you can trust. It isn't worth all the anguish and aggravation to be with someone that you always will wonder what he is doing and who he is doing it with. Good Luck
2006-09-26 04:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant really hate on his friends too much because they just did what any real friend would do. I'm sure you have a couple of friends that would do the same for you if the roles were reversed.
Your issue should be more with him...... being that you decided to forgive him after cheating multiple times there are going to be numerous situations that are going to make you "not feel good", that comes with being with a cheater.
2006-09-26 04:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to save your mouth close and stay out of it. that is humorous you reported you've been fearful about undesirable karma or it being a sin in case you do the completed pretend facebook project and yet you do not imagine you receives undesirable karma or that it turned right into a sin so that you could cheat with this boy who you comprehend had a female friend, you've been married you'd be considered a house wrecker yet because you're a baby and with regard to this example i wager you'd be a courting breaker. look, you comprehend he had a female friend so so that you could be merely as mad at your self, you knew what you've been getting in contact with and what may ensue. you want to drop the completed situation and chalk it as a lot as a lesson realized. you should also decrease off all contact with this boy, block and delete this boy from all of your debts and telephone. that is undesirable sufficient what you probably did, yet how are you going to wish and or appreciate a boy who may do this to his female friend?!
2016-12-02 02:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a few choices you can make. Let me run through them.
1. Force him to kick his friends to the curb
PRO: They obviously support his cheating ways
CON: He will resent you for separating you from his friends
2. Leave everything status qua
PRO: You don't piss him off
CON: Well you got the same mess!
3. Dump your boyfriend
PRO: He already proved he can't be trusted, you don't have to worry about his cheating ways anymore
CON: You will be on your own for the short term. But at least you don't have to stress about him cheating on you!
Good luck!
2006-09-26 04:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are his friends and you can't really control that but whatyou can control is if you allow him to stay in your life. I don't agree with cheaters and I actually despise them. I hope you make a good choice that makes you feel good about you. If he cheated on you then he didn't care about you at the time, or at least you weren't the first person on his mind. He may love or care about you but he must prove himself to you again. That is a must and you have to demand that he prove to you and if heis unwillingly to go along with your request then he isn't interested enough in keeping you happy, hence, why he cheated on you in the first place. Sorry, not trying to be mean.
2006-09-26 04:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the guy friends helped the act happen or supported his efforts, but ultimately he is the one that cheated, not them. I'd say kick him and his friends outta ur life. Not all guys cheat!
2006-09-26 04:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd give him all the time he wants with his friends and get rid of him you can do better than having a cheater for a boyfriend.
2006-09-26 04:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like a gun and bullets. If you get rid of the bullets and keep the gun, you're still in danger. But if you get rid of the gun and the bullets you'll be better of.
BF= gun
BFF = bullets.
You have to do something. Don't wait to get shot in the heart again.
2006-09-26 05:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the friend you need to worry about, it is your boyfriend that you need to concern yourself with. Do you think he has changed, do you believe that he will not do it again? If he has made a real change, the friends will not matter, but if he has not, then regardless of who he hangs out with, he will do it again...
2006-09-26 04:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you're still with this guy I assume??? you really need to look in the mirror and ask yourself why - is this what you deserve??? If the answer is yes - then you both have some tough choices to make
2006-09-26 04:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by leos1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋