I've been doing affair w someone who's much older, then fcourse,, he's married. He has help me financially, and change my life into a better condition.He's very jealousy, and he juz wants me to be his, i cannot make friends with other man, even only become friends. Lately i juz found out by unproven proove that he has also another relationship with another woman. And i'm really hurt right now. I don't know what to do. I'm not ready to separate with him. But, i can't except if he has someone else. I want him to comeback to me. But, I also realized, that someday it'll be over, coz he'll never get divorced, and somehow, i also don't want that to ever happen. I know, i'm in a wrong position however i explain, and whatever my reason is. Actually, i've avoid him, but he kept chasing me. And now, this thing happen. I feel silly, hurt and juz don't know what to do. Should i juz proove infront of him that he's having another one, then juz left him. Or, should i act like i know nothing. Thanks
2006-09-26 05:00:53 · 9 answers · asked by Happy_hours 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hi! i just went throu' ur case and one thing what i felt was that u are a woman with high head and esteem, which is really appreciated and every women should have this attitude. U love him and want to have a married life but remember what will happen post marriage? U cannot ignore him nor tolerate the pain. Our society will not accept any deviation from culture. Its a passing cloud. everything will be allright. Just hang on! Continue with ur work and slowly u will forget him also u will think what a bad decision u could have taken! I respect u for your courage and self esteem! u are no way inferior to him. Heart felt wishes. take care
2006-09-26 05:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by gan_sundar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you should never mess around with a married man...the wife will always end up finding out. dont be with someone who has other woman on the side too. oviously u are not his number one if hes seeing other people. he seems to be a player. if ur desperate then stay...move on...find someone that is only with u and only you..not 3 woman at the same time.
2006-09-26 12:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the other woman, the woman he with whom he cheats on his wife, right? So, why are you surprised that he is cheating on you? He is a cheater.
What you should do is to stop having affairs with married men. How would you like to be the poor cheated-upon wife? Hmmmm?
2006-09-26 12:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his wife and the other woman , the three of you greet him at the door when he walks in bust him out about everything
2006-09-26 12:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand on your own two feet and leave this cheater and find a single man that weill love you for who you are.
2006-09-26 12:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in the same situation exept he wasnt married i think this guy is way to controling and you should leave hm because you deserve some one who will devote themselves to you and only you
2006-09-26 12:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from married men..... you WILL get hurt in the long run..PLEASE trust me on this!!
2006-09-26 12:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is!!!!!!!!!!
Are you mad or something?
i will never understand why pepole do this to themselves. It should be so obvious.
2006-09-26 12:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll get a divorce.
call his wife.
2006-09-26 12:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by craina c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋