Needless to say we are no longer friends. My problem is our mutal friends. They are stuck in the middle. One of my friends daughter is getting married and my friend wants us both to attend????? I told her I would attend if invited. What a mess anyone have any advice or experience in this area?
2006-09-26 05:07:31 · 13 answers · asked by rollerbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It may be hard but why give up on your other friends because of this ex friend. The others had nothing to do with this matter. You have just as much right to hang around with them as your ex friend does so go have fun and just stay your distance from the ex friend so there's no arguing among you. Don't want to ruin someones wedding day.
2006-09-26 08:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the wedding. It will be a big event. There is no reason why the two of you have to communicate with each other. I am not sure what the real underlying problem is but either way don't let her wreck any more of your life then she already has. If you keep doing or not doing things because of this then she has total control of your life. If it were me I would do the things I would have done before this happened. The only exception would be events she is hosting. I would go and have a good time. Act as if she isn't even there or as if she is a stranger who is somewhat snobbish and just try to avoid contact with her. Don't make the wedding reception all about her and where she is so you can be on the other side of the room. Let her worry about that. All you have to do is show up and have fun. I seriously doubt she would make a seen at a wedding but let it be HER who wrecks the event not you.
2006-09-26 12:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still attend your friend's daughter's wedding regardless if your other friend is going to be there...even though you and your other friend are not getting along don't take it out on your friend that has a daughter that's getting married...You should show up in respect for her and her daughter because it's a special moment in her life...Just don't speak to the friend that you're not getting along with at the wedding and everything will be fine...maybe you two can speak again during the wedding since you will both be there...hopefully you can solve your problem with each other and become friends again
2006-09-26 12:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by lilsweetone619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to learn the boundaries of friendship and keep the past problems with the ex-friend seperate from the events you attend with other friends. Shut down the gossip mill and don't take part in it. Not hard to figure out... Be the bigger person, accept responsibility for your actions, and move on with your life.
2006-09-26 12:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the wedding. You shouldn't have to not go somewhere b/c you might see her. Just because you two aren't friends it doesn't mean that you have to act like enemies. Act civil. Ignore her. Don't insult each other. If you or her are going to act like animals, then save your friends daughter the extra drama, and stay home. If you can't be civil, then the wedding is not the place for either of you.
2006-09-26 12:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is about the brides day and not yours or your so called friend. you have as much right to be there as them , behave with dignity and respect and let this day be about the bride. put all past fights aside for that day. go , hold your head up high and smile Hun
2006-09-26 12:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show up (an look your best of course!) Either you could totally ignore her or not even acknowledge her presence or you could kill her with kindness.
2006-09-26 12:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KINDNESS KILLS THE HEART!!!!!!!!!!JUST SMILE AND GO ON, YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG, IF YOU DON'T SHOW UP~THATS WHAT YOUR X FRIEND WANTS, TO RULE YOUR LIFE~DONT LET THAT BE...YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT, ITS YOUR LIFE , TAKE CONTROL OF IT AND GO AND JUST SMILE, YOUR THE BETTER PERSON HERE.
2006-09-26 12:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by love420flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney and counter-sue.
2006-09-26 12:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there just after you chips, attend it and smile at them
2006-09-26 12:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋