my mother hate him so much.he want to meet her to ask for apologize but she refused.i feel so sad.i love him so much.and i know that he loves me too.i dont know how to proof to my mom that he's really sincered in our relationship.
2006-09-26 05:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What would he apologize for? Your ethnic background has a lot to do with how your mother feels about you having relationships and how you should be treated as a woman and as her child. You know your mother best, you need to ask yourself as well as ask your mom, what is her perception of men and relationships. There could be a number of reasons why she doesn't like him. Also, don't ask your mom if it's okay that he apologize to your mom. He needs to step up and take the initiative, not allow you to hand hold him. By first glance your mom probably thinks your boyfriend is not 'man' enough to take responsbility and stand up for himself as well as take care of you.
2006-09-26 05:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by altruisticind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dear
thats really a difficult situation you are passing through. Better you should talk to your mom when she is cool. tell her everything and dont be afraid coz you are gone feel guilty later on for not givin ur 100%. Ask the boy to meet ur mom as soon as possible and this will break the ice or maybe you can make the boy talk to your mom on phone. tell ur mom that wot she means to you and wot you have planned. And last thing ur fate lies in only ur hand. So keep trying as if its the last thing in world you ever wanted and pray to god every thing is fine.
take care !!!
2006-09-26 12:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Victor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he did that he feels the need to ask for an apology. If he did absolutely nothing, he owes her no apology and shouldn't apologize. But, usually parents want what's best for their children, so there may be a legitimate reason for her dislike that you don't want to open your eyes to. Not always the case though.
2006-09-26 12:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let her decide that on her own, don't force her to talk to him or see him or whatever because it will just make her hate him more.
by the way is some guy more important than your mother? she knows what is best for you there has to be a reason she don't like him right? think about it!!
2006-09-26 12:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, you don`t have to. he is your BF not your Mothers. We all seem to think we need to seek approval, well you don't, yes it would Be nice , but we do not live in an ideal world. just explain to your Mum that you love him, he loves you and you are going to make a go of it, say you don't want to disrespect her but this is your life and if its a mistake then its not about who was right or wrong its about learning from that mistake.say i understand you don't like him but can we agree to disagree on this one and that whilst she is your Mum and you love her dearly you cant live your life to make her happy
2006-09-26 12:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother has hated everyone that I have dated. You have to be with him not your mom. However when a Mom is that adamant about hating a guy, she's usually right about him trust me.
2006-09-26 12:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot prove it to her because she will not listen to what you have to say about him. You have to choose between recognizing your mother's authority and being with him. I always chose to disregard what my parents had to say in all my relationships and I was the happier for it. But you have to make the choice for yourself.
Good luck.
2006-09-26 12:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points!
2006-09-26 12:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Shnitzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's dating him, you or her?
2006-09-26 12:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not take him to your mom.just talk to him.i am a nice guy you can to to me and i will help you.my email address is princejermaine_91@hotmail.com.i am from jamaica.you can call me at 360 8917
2006-09-26 12:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by dwanye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋