Do u think it's necessary to get married?

Question

Do u think it's necessary to get married?What would u do if u find after marriage that ur partner is not the one u were expecting?

Answer 1

Nope. Only get married if you absolutely love the person and that person feels absolutely the same way about you.

Answer 2

I dont think it is necessary to get married. So many people get married for the wrong reasons and end up divorcing anyway. Make certain you have known the person for a while and it may be best for you to live together first. People are different when you see them everyday, morning and evening. Their "real" habits come out. But remember that you have to accept the person as they are. Marriage does not change anyone and things will not change just because you get married. Good Luck.

Answer 3

I don't believe that it is necessary to get married at all. If you are in love with someone,for whatever that means to you both,why does it have to be put on "paper"? Marriage is a formallity and tradition but not necessary. If you were to get married and find out after that they were not the one you were expecting, there are alternatives, separation, divorce, counselling. It has to be something that you both want and are willing to make work. Too many people jump into it and many of those people jump out of it. Necessary, no.

Answer 4

I feel modern society is generally moving in the direction that marriage is not necessary. It's not frowned upon as much that you're living together and have kids before getting married. Though you'll never get rid of it. In some views it's a biding contract, and certificate showing that they are together. I see it as an act of commitment towards your partner, in showing that I want to be with them for the rest of their lives.

If things change or do not work out as it intended, then I'd try a marraige couseller as they may be able to build up something you once had. If not then a seperation maybe needed, and divorce at the last resort.

Answer 5

Marriage is not necessary. Its is a personal choice. I did find out that the man I married wasn't the one I was expecting, so i divorced him. This time I'm getting married for all thr right reasons, I love this man, we're financialy stable, and want a life together, we would like to buy a house, I have health insurance, he doesn't and I can put him under mine if we are married, we both have children from previous marriages who are thrilled with the idea.our families couldn't be happier. Necessary no, a choice thats right for me....absoloutley

Answer 6

I think a little bit of everyone wants that stability. Do you necessarily have to get married no. But here a little bit of fact... Your marriage is never going to be perfect. Before i got married I was so nervous that he wasn't the one I'm supposed to be with. But i talked to different couples, one that has been married for over 40 years, one that been married about 20 years, and one that has been together for 10 years. And they all said the same thing. Don't go into your marriage thinking that everything is going to be perfect now. It takes years to for both of you to really get on the same page. During that time, your going to be stressed beyond imagination. But if you love him/her really love them then you can endure those hard times and see the light at the end of a very dark and long tunnel.

Answer 7

It's not necessary unless you want to have children. It's not fair to deprive or to strip them of a mommy and a daddy. But if children aren't in the future, it's not necessary. It's a choice and a lifetime committment. Just be sure to date long enough that you know exactly who you are getting. I think 2 years is about right. After that time, if you're still together and still happy even though you know all of the annoying habits and character flaws, then you can make it. If not, that's not the right person to marry.

Answer 8

Don't get married if they're not the one you want. It's not necessary to get married, but I think it's a good thing to do if you're sure. It may turn out that you were wrong, but then you divorce and look for new love. Life isn't easy, and love is possibly one of the hardest parts.

Good luck.

Answer 9

It's not necessary to get married, unless you need a piece of paper to make you feel better about living with someone. Everyone changes, so we are never the same people you start out with. If you really can't be with that person anymore, then break it off.

Answer 10

First of all, no one has to get married. It is quite possible to live a single life all your years. Paul, one of the foremost writers in the Bible, as far as we know never married, yet led millions to Christ.

Secondly, if you seek the Lord's wisdom and direction on finding a mate, you won't wake up some day and find that the person isn't right for you. I prayed many years and asked 3 other women to marry me before I found the right one. Fortunately, those first 3 told me no. Looking back, I now know that they wouldn't have been right for me and the Lord had told them not to marry me. The one I did marry, has been my wife for over 28 years and I don't regret it one bit. Matthew 6:33 says, "Seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you." True this verse refers to worldly possessions, but it also applies to finding a mate. Jesus will never lead you astray if you earnestly seek Him.

Answer 11

You should of thought about that before you said...."I DO"......maybe if you had given it more time and got to know this person better....you wouldn't be asking this question. It's obvious you have NO concept of what marriage even means. Marriage is not something necessary...