Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

Here is the whole situation, first off i have a girlfriend right now, love her to death....I had a girlfriend before loved with all my heart, she moved though to texas with her dad, she did alot of drugs, drank alot, and me and her have gone threw the same experineces and share alot of the same intrest, a match made in heaven....We broke up when she moved and like we just dropped off eachothers radar.....8 months later she calls me telling me she cleaned up, she is clean, not a single beer, we talked and caught up on so much stuff, the more we talk the more the spark grows.....Me and the girl i am with now i have been with for 6 months, even though i am with her i still think about the girl i had, me an the girl im with now have alot of the same intrest, share alot of fun times, and just all around have so much fun and everything like that its almost a picture perfect realationship.....I want both, i want what i had, and i want what i have....someone tell me what you would do? and why?

2006-09-24 04:26:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 04:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by Curious guy 1 in Friends

Ok, get a load of this. (no names are real)

There is this rumour that I am going out with a guy named Jack.

Jack has just been dumped by my best friend Izzy.

I have like Jack since forever. My best friend Izzy knows this.

Izzy and my other friend Gwen have been working together to find out if Jack likes me. I only found this out yesterday.

Jack says he likes me 40% friend and 60% love.

Izzy and Gwen are going on exchange for four weeks. They both reckon me and Jack will be dating by the time they come back.

I really want the rumours to stop and for me and Jack to actually go out. I know there is no way of forcing love but how do i get:

A) The rumours to stop.
B) Me to go out with Jack?!?
C) Me and and Jack are alread really close friends. I know him and he knows me.
D) Is there any solution possible?!?!?

Thanks for your help guys, much appreciated.
xXx

2006-09-24 04:25:48 · 10 answers · asked by x_Super_Social_Superstar_x 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a "brother" i have been trying to help. I am now in UK and he also now wants to come, but his family is assholes and couldnt care bout him. I said it would take me a while, and now he not interested in even talking to me and does not have the decency to answer calls or anything, and it actually hurts because been looking after him back home for the last 4 years - now I here and he cuts me cold. Only time he calls is when he needs something to be sent to him - he 18 !

2006-09-24 04:24:32 · 5 answers · asked by skorrorocks 1 in Friends

I got in a fight with my boyfriend last night. I was already upset at my mom when he called and i tried to talk to him about it and let's just say he was distracted... he kept talking to someone else in the room, so i hung up on him. Then i called his friend because i really needed to talk to someone and he was like "tell her i'm mad at her" and i was "whatever i don't care" and then i talked to his friend for a long time (his friend is my best friend for over 10 yrs.) Well after we talked my friend asked if i wanted to talk him and i was like ya if he wants to talk. Well my boyfriend said he'd call me back after the movie he was watching and then asked for the phone and just hung up on me. He never called. I was mad because i really needed to talk and he wasn't listening, but he's making me feel like i should apologize... Then he never called. I mean this shouldn't be THAT big of a deal right? i need advice on what to do? should i call? or wait for him to call?

2006-09-24 04:24:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what kind of signs should i look for?

2006-09-24 04:23:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 04:21:36 · 19 answers · asked by max_kasey_boubou1 1 in Friends

According to Webster essence is-the most significant element, quality, or aspect of a thing. So what is most important in your love for your partner or lover?

For me it is her desire to be kind in All things, She is the most loving person I know. She radiates love and kindness. It oozes from her. There is not a mean bone in her body. She is the epitomy of Kindness, a true Joy to me.

2006-09-24 04:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Although you know you are already truly madly and deeply in love? And every time he makes contact with you, it's like time stood still for this moment and you both pick up from where you left off???

You want to fall out of love because he lives too far away from you (country apart that is)? If this is possible, how do you do it? I've been trying for the past year but to no avail... Serious answerers please

2006-09-24 04:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Singles & Dating

Met a girl a month ago, we hung out for a bit, she said she wanted to do something with me, then i really started liking her, and she told me that she's involved with some other guy.i said i didn't know, so we just stayed as friends.Later we plan on going to different places but everytime she bails on me with bad reasons. Then she tells me she's being distant because she doesn't wana give me the wrong message.

Then she said that her and her relationship are over, but she's not ready to move on.then she says she really really likes me, she wants to stay friends and see where it goes.Then again she says i feel guilty because you're such an awesome guy, and i have no reason not to like you like that.Problem is that most of her friends are guys, and they are all very different from me, in style, looks, personality.
What annoys me is that she contradicts herself in everything, saying she likes me, then saying she doesn't know what she wants.should i talk 2 her n wat should i say?

2006-09-24 04:20:39 · 13 answers · asked by Uber-numb 1 in Singles & Dating

ive already askied this but now you guys know what it is. Its a blowup doll and i have a gf and dont need it.
is it rude?

2006-09-24 04:20:27 · 16 answers · asked by hello 2 in Friends

Self-explanatory. Please give me answers nothing mean or immature thanks.

2006-09-24 04:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.statesman.com/news/content/news/stories/local/09/22/22craigslist.html

2006-09-24 04:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 04:19:24 · 12 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Singles & Dating

Hi guys,
My girlfriend and I have known each other for 6 years. We started dating in the last 3 months. We see each other nearly every day.
She's angry at me because I lied to her about borrowing a jacket from a friend. Which led her to more supsicions. I cleared up the other things she was suspisious about and admited to her that I lied. I apologised and tried calling her for hours that night (2 nights ago) and she wouldn't pick up and messaged me to stop calling her.
I stopped calling her and I haven't called her ever since we last spoke (24 hours ago)
Should I call her back? Or give her space to cool off and wait for her to contact me. She's put me through a lot for the last 3 months and i've coped with her lies. I'm truly sorry and I told her that via sms because she wouldn't pick up my calls.

Please help, any advice would be really appreciated.
Cheers!

2006-09-24 04:19:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He moans about work, he doesnt dress up.
Still makes me laugh and i would still go to bed with him.
The sparks gone, though.
I dont want to be making all the effort... i want to be looked after sometimes.

2006-09-24 04:18:44 · 34 answers · asked by PICKLES 1 in Singles & Dating

we live together and the sex is excellent! However i have some doubts involving the age difference...legal age of course.

2006-09-24 04:17:40 · 13 answers · asked by lea_YZ 1 in Singles & Dating

i think my boyfriend is cheating on me with my best friend he's been acting wierd lately and she normally comes over to get me but now she comes over everyday for him and whenever i call our house (cause he lives with me) i hear her in the background and he says he just got out of the shower and one time when i stayed by my other friends house for a week i called our house and the answering machine said " hi (my best friends name) and (my boyfriends name) can't come to the phone right now cause we're getting busy " and i don't know what to do she's been my best friend since i was five and he's been my boyfriend for 2 years i think i'm gonna have to leave him but i don't think i can handle it i mean theres alot of other guys who wanna date me but i've been on and off with him for 2 years but i don't think i can take a permanent breakup helppp !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-24 04:17:36 · 23 answers · asked by Sexy Cutee Wid a bigggg booty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-24 04:16:55 · 9 answers · asked by g-day mate 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i broke up with my bf cause he lied to me and checked and deleted all of my emailsand now hes saying he dident do it and makin me feel like crap.im so over him but hes not,i've seen sinking ships go down faster than he can get over this!any know what i should do?

2006-09-24 04:16:54 · 7 answers · asked by shelby f 1 in Singles & Dating

where i can find girl friend for success in my life

2006-09-24 04:16:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We live in Los Angeles. I am working but dont have the money right now. I just seperated from my kids father whom was very abusive in every aspect and need a place desperately. Im living with my mom and she is living in a senior housing in which i can't stay here much longer. My kids father is not going to help us period. I have found a place that is affordable living in which i can make the rent there and qualify to live there. The problem is the deposit and the first months rent in which i havent saved to give them. I have to Oct. 1st to give them the money. Can anyone please help me with this?

2006-09-24 04:16:11 · 8 answers · asked by ms_socali 1 in Family

Hey evryone whos reading thiss!
I want to buy a DIgital Camera that has 5 megapixels or w/e...
but I have a budget of about 100 dollars..adding/subtracting here and there is fine...
Anyone know any sites where i can find them?
I tried searching in many store sites but couldnt find anything..
if you can serach for me and senfd me the link for the search results..thatd be greatt!...

If you have any advice about what kind of digital cameras to buy...go ahead and leave it here..best answer will be the one that helps me out most or tells me things i dont know..yeap...and im just a 9h grader who wants a nice vision digital camera...nothing too professional!

2006-09-24 04:15:33 · 2 answers · asked by Lina 4 in Family

2006-09-24 04:14:25 · 6 answers · asked by lexus 2 in Friends

Ok....so i have this friend and she is really annoying. She is also a spoiled little brat and she has to get what she wants. Or she'll break out in this im telling my mom thing and she makes the whole story up making it seem like she is the responsible one.
So somedays i like her and want to hang out with her.....but other days i dont because she is too....AHH!!! And ive been meaning to tell her that i dont want to be her friend anymore but im afraid that her mom is gonna like call my mom or something........PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2006-09-24 04:14:18 · 22 answers · asked by Krista 2 in Friends

not because it doesnt fit or isnt the right colour. I just plain dont like it. I would rather take the money and get something else.
is it rude or not?

2006-09-24 04:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by hello 2 in Friends

The is always a sort of attraction between them, that in the end might end in a romantic/sex event.... What do you think? I think there is not friendship between a girl and a boy...

2006-09-24 04:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Husband is in Iraq right now and just about every time we talk we start fighting... today was about him saying it wasn't his job to help take care of our 7 month old daughter and the time before that was because i wanted to wait to buy a lawn mower... Please somebody tell me will this get any better when he gets home or is he just being a jerk?

2006-09-24 04:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's what happened. Last night my boyfriend and I were talking, and there's this other guy I like a lil bit more than a friend. Well, when I asked him what he would do if I told him that I liked another guy, not being obvious about telling him and he told me, he would hit things really hard and then find a weapon and kill himself, cuz he loved me too much. Well, then I told him I liked someone else, he didnt talk to me for a minute, then I asked him if he was mad at me and he said "A DUH!!" and then he had me talk to his cousin while he went for a walk, he came back like, 10 minutes later. When he came back I asked him if he was still mad at me he said "i dont know" and we talk for a while then he wouldn't talk to me and he had agreed to call me, but I'm afraid he wont and I really need some advice for this situation.

2006-09-24 04:12:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me people!
I promised her no more porn but she caught me. I do love this girl and when she comes back today I want to leave her some flowers and a special note in her room. I know the note should come straight from my heart but I need some ideas to get it going. I am not good at this type of thing. I have trouble expressing my love. Give me atleast something to start with ... and maybe I can go from there.

Thanks!

2006-09-24 04:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by Jenkins 2 in Singles & Dating