Here is the whole situation, first off i have a girlfriend right now, love her to death....I had a girlfriend before loved with all my heart, she moved though to texas with her dad, she did alot of drugs, drank alot, and me and her have gone threw the same experineces and share alot of the same intrest, a match made in heaven....We broke up when she moved and like we just dropped off eachothers radar.....8 months later she calls me telling me she cleaned up, she is clean, not a single beer, we talked and caught up on so much stuff, the more we talk the more the spark grows.....Me and the girl i am with now i have been with for 6 months, even though i am with her i still think about the girl i had, me an the girl im with now have alot of the same intrest, share alot of fun times, and just all around have so much fun and everything like that its almost a picture perfect realationship.....I want both, i want what i had, and i want what i have....someone tell me what you would do? and why?
2006-09-24 04:26:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with your heart and soul and just see where it blows you...make your choice and take the consequences whatever they are
2006-09-24 04:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you respect the girl you are currently with? Is it fair to her that you want to rekindle some old flame? People move on in life. The key is "move on." Sure, you had some good times, but you can have good times with the girl you have now. Your choice. All I can add is from an outsider point of view. Only you know how you really feel.
2006-09-24 04:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you love more? The girl you are with, or your ex. If you love your ex more, please take the time to make sure she is clean and will stay clean. If you love the one you are with now then give it time to see if it will grow even farther. Have you heard the saying, dont leave the one you love for the one you want, because the one you want will leave you for the one they love. Its very true. Your ex lives in texas, i'm not sure where you live, but i gather its in a different state. Make sure all she is saying is true before you go and make a mistake you will regret later in life. Best of luck!
2006-09-24 04:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey showdy look you want your cake and to eat it too you cant showdy just stick with what you got and or dont you have to deciede before you get caught up i've seen it happen to too many of my friends they hurt themselfs and the girls they tryin to play cause thats essaintly what your doing is just playin them and it is not cool showdy gotta be real, just get rid of one you say the first is your match made in heaven go back then, you have to pick though it aint a game man. late
2006-09-24 04:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by tip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never have what you had with the other girl ... and with your new girl if you love her as much as you say you wouldn't be thinking of the other girl. maybe you need to take a break from both and see who your heart misses the most.
2006-09-24 04:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO one can tell you what to do, you really have to figure it out for yourself, take a week away from both and think about it.
2006-09-24 04:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by cinderjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋