Ok....so i have this friend and she is really annoying. She is also a spoiled little brat and she has to get what she wants. Or she'll break out in this im telling my mom thing and she makes the whole story up making it seem like she is the responsible one.
So somedays i like her and want to hang out with her.....but other days i dont because she is too....AHH!!! And ive been meaning to tell her that i dont want to be her friend anymore but im afraid that her mom is gonna like call my mom or something........PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
2006-09-24 04:14:18 · 22 answers · asked by Krista 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
best way to end a friendship ... stop hanging out with them, stop talking to them ... just start fading yourself out of their life ... no mean words, no mean gestures ... just phase out and say you grew apart ... nothing personal.
2006-09-24 04:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can tell you to do is to just try and sit her down and let her know how you feel. She might be the type that don't really see that the way she acts is so no cool. Maybe she has been that way so long she really doesn't know it. If you were to just up and not want to be her friend anymore without her even knowing why it would probably hurt her feelings, and even though she acts like a brat doesn't mean she should be hurt. Try to sit her down and explain to her how you feel and let her know that she doesn't have to act the way she does because there are other people around the world who only wished they had only SOME of the things they really want. So tell her she should be greatful for what she has and not over do it. Remember: What goes around, comes right back around.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 04:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! You need to get yourself together and calm down. Think logically how to proceed. Maybe she isn't a girl you want to be around. Listen to this-
One of my friends, a woman, has resided yourself to be miserable, and wants me, also to be more like her. Granted, she does have aches and pains, but many people work with all sorts of aches and pains. She sits at home, doesn't work- and doesn't want to BOTHER to make the effort to do anything. She was given a computer- and it was too complicated for her. She has nothing to do all day. She could have been learning, maybe creating a little business for herself on the computer. OK - try to keep things in perpective. YOU Don't Have to Marry this person!
2006-09-24 04:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who used to be the same way. I just told her straight up that she was driving everyone crazy with her spoiled brat attitude. She didn't talk to me and our other friends for about a week but when she realized we were right she changed her attitude and now we are all friends again.
2006-09-24 04:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by curious girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't hang around with her. Don't tell her you don't want to be her friend - just be unavailable when she wants to see you. Disappear when she comes near. She'll soon get the message but you'll have said nothing and she or her mother won't have anything to complain about. Marlene above has said it well.
2006-09-24 04:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be busy when she calls or wants to do anything...and i would have a talk with my mom and tell her myself...i would not hang around with her if she annoys you so much....and she does not sound like much of a friend in the first place...well you can not imagine how busy i can get so fast if it was me....no one needs a trouble maker as a so called friend..you need real friends...........
2006-09-24 04:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just slowly stop talking to her and weed her out of your life. Dont be rude or it sounds like she will run to her mom. Just try to not find time for her anymore
2006-09-24 04:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother can't force you to be friends with this girl...if she annoys you tell her. The problem is she is used to always getting what she wants and nobody probably has told her to get lost so she thinks that she will always have things her way. Knock that idiot girl off her high horse and march on....
Billy
2006-09-24 04:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by billyboysblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry if her mom calls your mom because I think her mom would understand. If she has more negative traits then positive traits then you should definitely tell her straight up that you don't want to be her friend until she changes her attitude!
2006-09-24 04:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by xxxspongebobxxxk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has that chip on their shoulders, yours is just living. lol. But i say that you be honest with ther and tell her that if she wants to continue to be friends with you that she has to learn that she is your friend not your moms. And a part of being friends is keeping secrets and having trust in one another. It should work, if it doesnt then she is immature and not worth your time.
2006-09-24 04:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL!!Been there done that(way to many times!!)!just tell her that she's been hurting your feelings a little bit too much.if she calls your mom just tell her the whole story(but be sure to STAY CALM!!!!).your "friend'' isnt a real friend if she's treating you like that.
2006-09-24 04:26:36 · answer #11 · answered by firemansdaughter11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋