i think my boyfriend is cheating on me with my best friend he's been acting wierd lately and she normally comes over to get me but now she comes over everyday for him and whenever i call our house (cause he lives with me) i hear her in the background and he says he just got out of the shower and one time when i stayed by my other friends house for a week i called our house and the answering machine said " hi (my best friends name) and (my boyfriends name) can't come to the phone right now cause we're getting busy " and i don't know what to do she's been my best friend since i was five and he's been my boyfriend for 2 years i think i'm gonna have to leave him but i don't think i can handle it i mean theres alot of other guys who wanna date me but i've been on and off with him for 2 years but i don't think i can take a permanent breakup helppp !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 04:17:36 · 23 answers · asked by Sexy Cutee Wid a bigggg booty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl break up with him he ain't worth it
2006-09-24 04:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by suga mama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two years is quite a time. It's not easy for anyone in your situation. Anger is there. All sorts of mixed emotions are there. But, the fact is, it has already happened.
The wisest choice is to leave this relationship. Don't see each other again, not even your friend.
Don't worry, time will certainly heal. Nobody dies of a heartbreak. But many couples out there have exactly the same predicament as you're in. All will survive, and have new and happier relationships later on.
Cry and yell if you please. Punch the pillow if you dare.
When the release is over, look in the mirror and smile, because from then on, you're freeeeeeeeee!
Good luck for a better tomorrow.
Yesterday just died.
2006-09-24 04:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your best friend and see what is happening. If she is stabbing you in the back by doing your boyfriend then she is not your best freind. And if that is so then leaving him should be easy and you should have to move on. The only reason why you are having a hard time with this is that you two have been though a lot and it hard to cut the ties between you two, so if you find out the truth cut your self lose fast, that way you can get on with your life and they will be the one to ask for your forgiveness. So be strong and move on with or with out them.....
2006-09-24 04:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by is420legal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you "think" he's cheating on you. I'm sure you know the answer. It's just hard for you to accept. If the house is yours, kick him out. If it's his, you need to leave. They are making a fool out of you!
You CAN take a permanent breakup, you do not deserve to be in a relationship where the guy has no respect for you or your relationship.
2006-09-24 04:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is ****** up that how she is ******* him girl you don't need no more proof I would not break up though i would pretend to have met someone else and tell that hoe that you like this guy and all this other **** I bet she will got tell your nasty boyfriend the scoop and he will confront you about it then you got them I would get my cousin or brother somebody to whipp that *** and then I would beat you nasty girlfriend down to the ground, that is so messed up I hate when women betray each other you have so many nasty hoes in the world girl you can't trust no hoe just live and learn and stop having these hoes aroung your man so much, fool me once fool me two you know how it goes. Good luck I know your will be hurt but you can find someone else! trust me you can! I wish I knew you I would beat that ***** for you just because! Girl you got me heated let me go!
2006-09-24 04:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by ttbird117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy moly he's not just cheating on you he is WITH this girl!! like in have a relationship!!! I would leave them both alone! If she were your best friend she would never have done any of that! Use those two years you been with him as a learning experience. the lesson topic should be never ever let your man and your girlfriend hang out!!!
2006-09-24 04:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to face it. Rather a break up than a constant cheating boyfriend. Once a dog always a dog. Their are agencies that does this type of investigation if you should require. Do it now
2006-09-24 04:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have to face the facts of the situation as hard as it may be. He made it clear who he want to be with. Don't continue to put yourself in position to be hurt over and over again. Don't feed into it. Be strong and move on. Find another man who will treat you like a queen.
2006-09-24 04:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh its sounds obvious hes doing the deed. If you need further proof, plant a voice recorder in her car that can record for a couple hours and when they get ready togo someplace put it in their till you get the proof you need. But if i was you i would just play the voice machine message right in front of him, and be point blank about it, like...." and what do you have to say about that?!" dump him and move on, hes not worth your time, hes trying to have his cake and eat it to. 2 years or not, cheating is wrong, if i caught my guy of 4 years cheating i would dump him in a heartbeat, cause if you love someone you just dont do that.
2006-09-24 04:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them both down and confront them but of course they will deny any is going on I'm sure. Neither one of them are worth your time. Drop both of them and move on. Surround yourself with people that won't treat you like ****. Have a good life without the loosers. be happy Good Luck
2006-09-24 04:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the best friend (she sounds like a ***** regardless of history) and get a boyfriend who isn't a sleazebag.
2006-09-24 04:19:22 · answer #11 · answered by Patience 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋