my husband and i started out as partners. we equally shared all finance obligations he'd be in-charge of the rent and electricity and I'd be in-charge of phones, cable and groceries, not to mention my own gym membership, hair and nail appointments. our situation changed when my husband slacked off on his part of the responsibilities around 8 months now, spent all his money on alcohol and became an addict, put us 2 months in-debit along with 3 different rehab-hospital bills to pay off. now i am in-charge of all the our finance obligations he works and has to give me the money he earns, so that i can distribute it proprely. it can be very nerve racking, and having to ask for the check from him is no picnic, he doesn't make it any easier, he doesn't just willingly hand it over it can get pretty ugly and i always end up the bad guy. the one always on patroll around here, or should i say the bill collector or his parent. any advise on how to make this a smoother ride for everyone
2006-09-24
04:31:36
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Marriage & Divorce