me like almost 6 times in the last 3 weeks and i always take him back i mean last night he called me a bitxh and every time i told him i love him he told me to shut the F***k up. i mean i love him but when he is around his friends he treats me horrible and he told me that when me and him were 1st together he didnt really like me and made out with my bestfriend. but that he said it was okay because he really likes me now! he really makes me mad some times but i dont know what to do. and we only get to see each other on fridays so like i dont know if he is seeing some one else or not. he calls me everynite and some times he acts like its all up to him about our relationship like he'll be all tell me or ill brake up with you. and when i tell him how i feel he laughs in my effin face. HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 04:31:25 · 19 answers · asked by Amanda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Amanda W.. this boy is immature and selfish.. I know you will read what I have to say to your question and disregard this anyway, I had that happen to me when I was a teenager and my self esteem suffered. You deserve better. He is treating you like a dog, get him out of your life and find someone who will really love you. They are out there. Don't put up with this humiliation any longer. Don't go on what someone says to you, it is how they act that counts. I learnt the hard way, save yourself a lot of wasted tears. Love yourself first and then you do not have to search for anyone, they will find you.. best wishes..
2006-09-24 04:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. First of all, I don't understand why you're still with this guy when he's been treating you like crap.. and you realize it. A way to solve your problem, think about this : Has he made you more angry than happy? If so, then it is time to leave him. He doesn't sound like he cares about you, because if a he does, he would NEVER make you cry. If you told him you loved him and he told you to shut up, he doesn't love you. It sounds like he's just pushing you away to make you beg for him more. He probably likes the attention. You can leave an email at kiisfm.com. Ryan seacrest does "Ryan's roses" in the morning all the time.. If you don't know what it is, basically when a girl thinks a guy is cheating on him, someone will call and offer your boyfriend flowers to see who he sends them to. If he sends them to someone else, then he doesn't love you. I know it sounds stupid to email a radio show but he really does read all his emails and your situation is really bad. If you really want to solve this then do it or just leave him. Good luck!
2006-09-24 11:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kaitlyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wha... what a similar story of my sister in law. Today only I advised her few points, I will tell you too..
1. Boy is having sadistic pleasure in making you vulnerable.
2. Every time you express your love for him, he gets sadistic pleasure and enjoy.
3. He is using you for his ego.
4. Boy need consistency in his approach towards other friend forget about the friend from opposite sex.
5. If a person does not behave for sometime on regular basis, it becomes difficult for him or her to become normal. Any time, person can go berserk.
6. It is always to leave and live rather than live but die.
7. Life is very short to experiment with poor companion for long time.
8. Leave him, do not talk to him, do not allow him to make you vulnerable, and finally take control of your life.
Life is beautiful, do not cry for want of boys. Boys are more on this earth. Girls are scar and precious. Boys should not take girls for a ride. They must face the music of a deprived life.
You are power of 21st century, take control of your beautiful life!
2006-09-24 11:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by kamekish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb and never look back! He's just using you and you are ALLOWING him to do it. You are worth more than that and you deserve better. There is someone out there who will love you and make you feel like a princess. The longer you stay with that jerk the longer you will be miserable and hurt.
2006-09-24 11:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This my dear friend is called, emotional abuse. Its the same as physical, but its the beginning of the rollercoaster! My advice is to get rid of him as soon as possible. If you stay together he will get meaner to you, and I am sure he will start getting mad to the point where he hits you. Think of it this way, if you decided to stay with him, you two decide to get married and have children, do you want your children to grow up seeing something like this, or worse experiencing it themselves!! Get out while you can please. If you dont, then you dont love yourself. This guy doesnt love you, he is using you like a puppet and you are letting him. Stand up for yourself and make woman proud for you doing it! Best of luck dear.
2006-09-24 11:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend should be someone who constantly makes you smile, who makes you happy, and who makes you feel good about yourself. He should feel lucky to be with you.
This guy sounds like a total bum. Leave him. Walk away and never look back. One day you will find someone who treats you right. That's what you deserve!!
2006-09-24 11:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by theallrockhour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once again is that Folgers I smell???Wake up and smell the coffee. Duh!!!!If he talks 2 u this way won't be long before he starts 2 beat U. Get the hell out.
2006-09-24 11:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose him or lose your self-esteem. You deserve a guy who treats you good. What he is doing to you now is known as 'emotional abuse' and may lead to you having a mental breakdown if it goes on.
Be strong. Do the right thing now.
2006-09-24 11:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't you see??? you have no dignity, the day you loose your dignity is the day you start to die, grow some back bone and be a person, if you don't your future looks bleak on all aspects on your life, good luck you'll need it
2006-09-24 11:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by class4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And this is the guy you love? Lose this guy and take control of your life. He's playing you like a yo-yo. That not love.
2006-09-24 11:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋