i hate him so much!
2006-09-24 04:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You must hurt a lot right now. And, the two people you would normally talk to about being hurt are the people who hurt you.
As sad as this is, you have learned two valuable lessons. Your boyfriend is a cheater. And, you best friend isn't really your best friend. You should dump them both and move on.
Good luck.
2006-09-24 04:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well.....my fiance (at the time) didn't sleep with my best friend, but they did have oral sex!! I think that's more intimate!
I was absolutely devastated! I lost 2 best friends that day. I don't talk to her anymore (we were best friends for 33 years!!) because I felt so betrayed by her because we'd known each other so long. I went balistic on him for just the one day. I then decided to not be "ugly" after that. Meaning I didn't want to cry, yell, or smash his head in. There was a lot invested in this relationship, and to make a very long story short, I stayed with him. My 12 yr old daughter lives with us and she absolutely loves him! We had broken up once before and it devastated her. I just couldn't do that to her again. So....she knows nothing of it, I stayed with him, married him a month after finding out, (ya I know....I was in a daze for quite a while after that), but I still have my days when I have that wave of disgust and utter hatred towards the two of them. I let him know whenever I am having to deal with those emotions creeping up and how I still feel about the situation. I'm slowly learning to trust him again, but this time it's taking a lot longer.
I can't tell you to do what I did. I don't know how long you've been together or how much of yourself is invested into this relationship. It's really an individual decision. You have to ask yourself if you love him enough to continue. Good Luck and I'm so sorry for your pain. It will get better tho.
2006-09-24 04:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by yokrem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with his :) just kidding. Confront your best friend and then both of you set him up. If she doesn't help, she is no friend. Or if you want to get back at your best friend, tell her a secret about your boy friends herpes condition :)
2006-09-24 04:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by h W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take all his jeans and super glue the zippers shut, take bengay to his underwear,send him a piece of cardboard with nothing but address and this note" Im sending this because I don't care to send the very best!",Fill out playgirl subscription to his name,send him a email and trash his pc. Good luck!
2006-09-24 04:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by sookie1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i would show that best friend a lesson,then i would dump him,and no matter what i would never forgive him!!!!NEVER................and i would move on with my life.a boyfriend that sleeps with ur best friend cant be someone serious,u shouldnt even spent time loving guys like that...
2006-09-24 04:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by nYa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that's completely positive as long as you do not spring it on him. Ask him before hand if that's a situation. Or supply him the alternative to finish that himself (i.e. "hey, dude...sleep even with the indisputable fact that you do at domicile...bare, on your shorts, in spite of. it truly is cool with me." in spite of you do, merely make it very non-threatening on your targeted visitor. enable him decide on, yet don't sense obligated to sacrifice your human being convenience till he asks you no longer to. Then, out of appreciate on your friendship, supply up one nighttime of convenience. yet, truly, its as a lot as you what you do. It would not advise you're gay, because being bare has no longer some thing to do with sex or personal orientation.
2016-11-23 19:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is to say "buh-bye" to both of them, your boyfriend AND your "best" friend. Really, do you need or want people like that in your life? They're not worth the aggrivation.
2006-09-24 04:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gemma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well again i feel the need to share this with you girls!!!!!
Life is to short to spend all this time wasting on boys who do not care.
KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!!!!
Move on!!!!
2006-09-24 04:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both and get an STD test.
2006-09-24 04:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SURE YOU DO !! Don't know what your arrangement is with bf, but I say leave him or kick him out.
2006-09-24 04:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋