hey!! uhhmm i have a little problem right here.. I just want to ask for some advice.
Ok Last Monday, while me and my friends were walking to the bus station, 2 guys from my school walked with us but I didnt have any clue why. I just thought the other guy liked my friend. But then when we stopped to take some rest, the guy named Omid asked my name and he said that his friend (the shy-type) likes me. And I was like so surprised and flattered ( hehe) then he wanted to talk to me but I didnt talk to him cuz I was shy. He looks nice and I guess he looks cute (I couldnt see his face because I wasnt wearing my glasses that time) . But then he told me that he thinks Im cute and i told him thank u then he said your welcome. And then yeah.. That's about it!!
I kind of like him but I havent seen him since then cuz we have a pretty big school. I don't know if I should ask his friend to tell him that I'm already willing to talk to him. But what if he asks me out. I dont know what to say cuz my parents are pretty strict about these stuffs. Haaaay!!!
I'm so confused.. What do I do now?? Please help me please!!
2006-09-24 04:45:50 · 12 answers · asked by Mrz.Fabz21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be your self and talk to him. your pantents shouldn't get mad a you for talking. so get a hold of him and start as friends and work from there.....
2006-09-24 04:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to him shouldn't cause problems with your parents. Go ahead and use Omid's friend as a go-between- at least till you get back in touch with Omid.
If you two have the same lunch schedule, eat lunch with him... get to know him....
If you live kinda near each other, you could walk home together, maybe sit together on the bus....
Talking and getting to know someone is VITAL to a good relationship of any kind.
2006-09-24 11:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his friend that you would like to talk with the boy and would he have him call you, if he asks you out and parents want let you go , then see if they will let him come over and watch a movie. Sounds like yall both have something in common (shyness) That's a good start.
2006-09-24 11:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound pretty young ,but when i was a kid in high school ,i was probably the shy'st kid in class .but anyway the thing is if you think you like the guy (you probably do ) ask for him but don't make it sound like your all desperate to have a date with him youknow! just ask someone at the attendnce office and leave him a message to meet you after school or somthing ,ask your friends also to locate him they won't mind the busy-bodies -i'm glad for you !!! i-love to hear first love thing's !!!! good luck kiddo
2006-09-24 12:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by luke m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are the same way. If you really like this kid you should tell him that your feeling him, and if you can't find him tell his friend that you've been looking for him and that you like him. Or you can give his friend you're number to pass to the boy. And the whole parents thing just remember this "SILENCE IS GOLDEN"
2006-09-24 11:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by LeA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a parent myself, I would tell my girls that you should just give his friend your phone number, and if he calls you, then you could go from there. That's all though. Don't pursue him. Guys are kinda weird. Let them do the chasing, they like are girl that isn't easy to get to. If you do this i'm sure that if he likes you, he'll call. Just wait and see.
2006-09-24 11:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who knows him and ask what classes he takes and then wait for him.Or get his friend to pass on a message for you.Even if your folks are strict,don't hide things or it will definitely come back with trouble.No kind of relationship will exist on lies and deceit.
2006-09-24 11:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by rokkyroller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to talk to him, tell his friend and start talking. You don't have to have a date right away, just get to know him first.
2006-09-24 11:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y disappoint ur parents forget that romantic friend...make him just a friend..that will be good..u said he looks cute..ur school is big...so there can be many cute or cuter boys..so what will u do if u see them then..will u go behind them too...love is not about beauty...its about mutual understanding and care..u do not know anything about him...then y make a chance to regret,,,,...
2006-09-24 12:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by me_who2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop over thinking this ... if he want's to talk to you he will ... but don't over think the situation ... just relax ... nothing may happen and when and if it does you'll know what to say.
2006-09-24 11:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋