Help me people!
I promised her no more porn but she caught me. I do love this girl and when she comes back today I want to leave her some flowers and a special note in her room. I know the note should come straight from my heart but I need some ideas to get it going. I am not good at this type of thing. I have trouble expressing my love. Give me atleast something to start with ... and maybe I can go from there.
Thanks!
2006-09-24 04:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by Jenkins 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh come on people. Is it that bad? All guys look at porn. Masturbation is healthy and normal. I understand I hurt her by lying, but the only reason I lied is so she wouldn't freak out. I and I'm sure others don't like to go around flaunting that they masturbate.
2006-09-24 05:03:14 · update #1
sorry for lying. i love you.............i'm sorry.............forgive me?
2006-09-24 04:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly sorry and you love her with everything in side of you you should not have a problem at all writing her a little note that is coming from your heart & soul! Buying her flowers and asking others to help you, and give you ideas is not coming from your heart! If you know that what you did by lieing to her was wrong then you should not have any problems in explaining yourself to her, but if you truly believe that you did not do anything wrong, and you decide to write her a note telling her that you did. You will not only be lieing to her again, you will also be lieing to yourself as well!
Good Luck!
2006-09-24 05:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u can maybe start off with telling her how sorry u are for wacthing them even though u promised then u can explain how much u love her,but that still won't excuse what u did so basically either way ur in trouble but at least she'll know how much u love her but she won't understand that if u did love her why would u promise to stop when u know ur addicted to it.The only thing I can say is be prepared for whatever is coming ur way hang in there.
2006-09-24 04:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the flowers and note supposed to make her feel better or YOU? You made her a promise and then...you lied to her about it. Now she's going to have a real problem trusting you. Sometimes it's good to have to suffer the consequences of your actions. Hopefully, you will learn from it. If I were her...I wouldn't be so eager to forgive.
Let me ask you this.....was it worth it?
2006-09-24 04:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we help you how does it come from YOUR heart?? I think you should just leave a note w/ the flowers that says I love you & i'm sorry.
2006-09-24 04:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it comes from anywhere besides U it's not from ur heart. Therefore, I will not participate in ur fraudulent attempt to rectify a situation which deserves ur total and genuine expression of sorrow.
2006-09-24 04:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to earn her trust. Cancel your internet subscription and give away your computer. Then she'll know that she's more important than anything you own.
2006-09-24 04:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i ll water her flower for you
2006-09-24 04:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋