Although you know you are already truly madly and deeply in love? And every time he makes contact with you, it's like time stood still for this moment and you both pick up from where you left off???
You want to fall out of love because he lives too far away from you (country apart that is)? If this is possible, how do you do it? I've been trying for the past year but to no avail... Serious answerers please
2006-09-24 04:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think ur on ur way there.
2006-09-24 04:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start keeping busy, take a dance class st a local school, at night take a 30 mins walk, go hang out at the coffee shop and book stores we will met new people and after a month or two if no change then what can I say. It is time for you to move to where he is. On weekend go on trips to old friends and family members (the ones you have not seen in a long time) Go to an elderly home and read to those people. You being this busy how can you think about him. All these things are good for you.
2006-09-24 04:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Errolyn27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to fall out of love like the way you want. Most couples fall out of love when some thing has happened that hurt the relation ship or when the spark dies down but it sounds like you still have a lot of spark for this person. The best thing for you to do is date other people to help take him off your mind and that may take a while. There is no cure for the love disease. Its to bad that you both are so far apart. Best wishes.
2006-09-24 04:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by zianlon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's one way that's 99% successful, time. Time subdues all, love, hate, and pain. And by time, i mean time where there is no contact between you and him. No phone, no AIM, no anything. See your brain responds to stimuli (thoughts of him, his voice, his picture) by accessing your collective memory and emotions of him. Speaking from a purely psychological standpoint, as time passes without any stimuli relating to him, the association between memories and emotional pain/suffering become weak. Thats when you remember things you and him did or things he gave you and you do not end up crying of falling in love again. All the things you and him shared will just be memories.
Now speaking from a normal person standpoint, time will let you heal from the pain of not being with him. I will allow you to meet new people and hang out with friends to forget about him. And sooner or later, you will get sick and tired of thinking of him and move on. Its a sad you know, but its the truth. Good luck.
2006-09-24 04:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fall outta luv huh? well im not really sure cuz if u reallly really luv someone thn u should luv em forever.i tried falling outta luv too but i just couldnt and today hes still my b-friend <3
2006-09-24 04:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by xcutiex534 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a mind over matter type of thing!! It can be done , but only if you want it to!!!!
2006-09-24 04:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll always love him to some degree.
2006-09-24 04:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-24 04:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Red 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋