Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

I'm a bit worried about my girlfriend as she drinks alcohol everyday and still continues after binge drinking with a hangover. I've asked her to try drinking every other day to cut down a little but she just shouts at me a lot when I say anything. I love her a lot but I can't deal with her being drunk every night any more.

2006-09-18 04:51:55 · 17 answers · asked by travis 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 04:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by archie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 04:51:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out my husband has been having an affair. He says he's sorry and wants to stay together. I thnk he only wants to stay together so he won't have to pay child support. I just don't know want to do.

2006-09-18 04:51:04 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want something different, but not cheap looking.... something different than just plain paper. But I also do not want to spend 3 dollars a card either. Any ideas would be soooo great!!

2006-09-18 04:50:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

while me and my partner are having sex, i find it hard to enjoy. don't get me wrong he's very good, but i think about the other women he's been with and wonder if their better than me. he's always telling me that he enjoys have sex with me and how much he loves my body but i find it hard to believe..i compare myself to other women very often..i believe this could be caused because i have low self esteem myself. can someone please help me!

2006-09-18 04:50:19 · 6 answers · asked by Ultimate Diva 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is nothing going on in his life that should make him this way, he thinks he should have everything he asks for and starts when the answer is no. Help please!!

2006-09-18 04:49:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have this best friend, I'm a guy, she's a girl, we are 15 and have known each other for 2 years. When we hang out in a group, we are always standing close to each other. We playfully fight with and mock each other all the time. She calls me Reilly, even tho everyone else calls me by my first name and if they call me Reilly she gets anoyed. We are very comfortable with each other. On a couch we sorta lean into each other, anyway, I am pretty sure now that she likes me, an I know I like her, A Lot, so what should I do next? Should I test the waters by hugging her? An arm round the shoulder or waist? Any advice?

Specifically I want to know what I should do next and how.

2006-09-18 04:49:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I understand why we men are fascinated with breasts. We don't have them ourselves! Also, Freudians will link the high level of breast interest to subconscious fascinations with our own mothers. I get it.

I have been with large breasted women, and while I am not opposed to them in general, I much prefer a smaller breasted woman, like a B cup or so. That is perfect!

I am a big, tall, athletic man and like women to be tall and athletic also. Large breasts seem so cumbersome. And as sexy as they can be, they get in the way sometimes during sex!

My male friends give me such a hard time about this. When a group of women walks by, they all drool over the largest breasted one without fail. I am inevitably attracted to a different, smaller statured, woman in the group. Different men have different tastes. That is fine. Yet, they insist and giving me such a hard time about it. Help me understand.

2006-09-18 04:48:08 · 20 answers · asked by Tulsa Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is in the process of getting over porn because he says he doesnt like it anymore and he knows that I dont like it. He trying not to look up stuff on the internet..etc. But is it still okay for him to start looking up movies that have "great sex scenes" in them??? Or will this just add to his pevious addiction???

2006-09-18 04:47:23 · 40 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My 16 year old daughter is working full time and has a baby she is failing everything in school and I wont to make her stop working or make it where she only works on the weekends so that she will consentrate more on school and get home at a normal hour. I live in texas does anyone know if I can stop her from working or limit her hours legally

2006-09-18 04:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by shannonmon2002 2 in Family

Do women like sweet guys..., as thats what they say about me.........Should I change that image....have tattoos on arms/back, wear rings on fingers and a gold cross, wear shades, and just become a Baddddd! Boyyyyy.........as thats all women want these days..........as sweet guys never get dates

zack 28

2006-09-18 04:46:39 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in a situation where i love this guy but he is not responsible, we got together he wasn't working but led me to believe he was just in between jobs. I finally got mad after 8 months of supporting him and asked him to leave as i have a 16 yr old that i am raising alone his dad gave up rights so he wouldn't have to help pay to raise him. Anyway i still love him but am not in love with him. He found a job and is staying with me currently but i have told him i want him to go when he gets a paycheck. But he don't seem to want to hear that. Any advice on how to handle this without it turning into an ugly situation. I would love to remain friends with him but if he can't handle that then i guess i will deal with that. Alot of people have told me i am to nice to let him stay with me like i have but i do still love him as a friend. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks have a great day :)

2006-09-18 04:45:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wonder how women truly feel about this! my mother or grandmother used this saying!

2006-09-18 04:42:56 · 31 answers · asked by batman9722 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 04:42:36 · 11 answers · asked by Len Rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed that my g/f has been getting text messages from her ex and the other night he im'd her and she closed the im out. She said that they are just friends and enjoys hanging out with his friends... I got pissed and didn't undersand, becasue all she use to talk about was how much of an *** he was... i don't get it. The other day i just couldn't take it anymore and read a couple messages that she had with him, and she i'md him both times, one talking about how she hates fighiting with me and that i ask her to many questions, which might be true, but i think i have the right too when i see these type of things going on. the next one was a very flirty one ending in "hey i'll be at school (college) all day give me a call, talk to you later.. i need some direction about this...

2006-09-18 04:42:19 · 42 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had a friend for over 14 years and he recently seems like he is acting differently. I recenlty got married and just bought a home. He is 35 and I am 32. I went to college with the guy and lately he has been slandering me and making lies about me as if he is still in high school. He has been acting this way more as of late. I am not sure if its because I have moved forward with my life and he hasnt. He is a major alcoholic who spends every night at the bar getting drunk and is involved with a 20 year old crack phene who he cant seem to let go. He also doesnt really work and spends most of his time frequenting dive bars during the week and weekends. I havent hung out with him as much because of his behaviors and I dont like going to bars with him and watching him get wasted. He wont go anywhere with me unless its a bar or a place thats serves alcohol. Should I try and work this out? He is a very defensive person. I want to keep the friendship but is it worth it in your opinion?

2006-09-18 04:42:16 · 12 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Friends

2006-09-18 04:41:53 · 6 answers · asked by osuwasmile 1 in Singles & Dating

so i grabbed my mums phone and rang my nan and then realised she wasnt in wat do u reckon i should do now even tho it was about a month ago do you think i should just let it go and just make sure he stays away or tell the police anyway? x

2006-09-18 04:39:43 · 19 answers · asked by steph 1 in Family

I'm a dork looking for a dork. lol

2006-09-18 04:38:38 · 14 answers · asked by horrorfan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious cos some of my m8s had their first bf when dey were 9, how about u?

2006-09-18 04:38:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my ex boyfriend recently told me hes in love with his current girlfriend who moved in a week after we broke up and its only been a couple months we are trying to remain friends but its kinda hard to hear that stuff you think he is in a relationship now based on lust and he is trying to make me jealous? or maybe just trying to tell himself he is happy?why do guys do this?

2006-09-18 04:37:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend are thinking about advancing our relationship some, tho the problem is, im not really sure if he is or not, tho it was his idea. and i am his second girlfriend, tho im his first on everything else, and well we havent dont anything expept kissing. and i want to go further into our relationship, but i am afraid that it might have a negative effect on both of use, and we both have realized that. and another thing, im not sure if he exactly knows how to do what we have been talking about (fingering), and i think it will be awkward. so im like lost on all of this...some one plz help...

2006-09-18 04:37:29 · 8 answers · asked by thana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

thisis really imp guys matter of life and death..... one of my friend got pregnant... i guess she is only one month pregnant..... she doesnt hav the money to abort and if her mom knows bout this she will kill her.... i just need to know wat r ways in which she can get rid or it.... if dere r some pills just let me know the names.. or ne other procedure that doesnt cost much.... ne help wil be appreciated......

2006-09-18 04:37:12 · 18 answers · asked by harry d 2 in Friends

i'm quite an organised and hard working person and as i can manage my own time etc quite well so i often take on doing things for friends and family as well.

i rarely ask anyone to do anything for me as i've usually done it days in advance anyway, but i have a lot going on in my life right now and the tables are turned. I've asked a couple of people for help but either they are too busy or say yes but then let me down.

4 days ago i asked a friend to do a favour for me which would only take a couple of minutes which they happily agreed to do.
i waited a couple of days and it didn't happen so i mentioned it again (as it needed doing fairly urgently). in one conversation i suggested i could find another way round it if they were too busy but they said no, no they can do it. they never did it.

they called me today and i explained that i am stressed and have too much to do and they said "if there is anything i can do just let me know"! i felt like saying I DID AND YOU DIDN'T!!

2006-09-18 04:36:32 · 20 answers · asked by Rachel F 2 in Friends

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

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And, yes, her mom likes me, she told me that she is encouraging her daughter to date me, she also said that it was really hard for her daughter to sent that email, but in the mean time, she is really flirty with this other guy.

2006-09-18 04:35:35 · 19 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

He was attempting to have sex with me but my feelings for him are gone however i still like him as a person. We talked about getting back together and i told him that i want to get married before being intimate again. After dropping him off at home he calls my cell for me to pick him up again....which i did'nt. Later that night he called me and asked me to never call him or his mother again as he was going to be starting a new relationship!!! he hung up in my face and i havene'nt talked to him since. Why did he do that??? he was just trying to get back with me and saying how much he loved me!!! Please help me....

2006-09-18 04:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for six years, I've watched my husband stay exactly the same. I feel after having 2 kids I've grown in every aspect of my life, mentally, spiritually, and morally. He hasn't changed and acts like he wishes he was still single with no responsabilities. I am not concerned with an affair, it's just a total lack of ambition or motivation when it comes to us his family. I try not to be a bitchy wife, so as a result we rarely speak to each other. If I ask him to do anything he considers it bitching. He pays no attention to me or my two beautiful boys who are the best. I feel like he's missing out and he doesn't even care.

2006-09-18 04:35:06 · 22 answers · asked by green eyed lady 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 04:35:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 04:34:16 · 17 answers · asked by whew! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships