I understand why we men are fascinated with breasts. We don't have them ourselves! Also, Freudians will link the high level of breast interest to subconscious fascinations with our own mothers. I get it.
I have been with large breasted women, and while I am not opposed to them in general, I much prefer a smaller breasted woman, like a B cup or so. That is perfect!
I am a big, tall, athletic man and like women to be tall and athletic also. Large breasts seem so cumbersome. And as sexy as they can be, they get in the way sometimes during sex!
My male friends give me such a hard time about this. When a group of women walks by, they all drool over the largest breasted one without fail. I am inevitably attracted to a different, smaller statured, woman in the group. Different men have different tastes. That is fine. Yet, they insist and giving me such a hard time about it. Help me understand.
2006-09-18 04:48:08 · 20 answers · asked by Tulsa Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm with you Tulsa Boy. Small breasted woman are indeed attractive. You friends are trying to influence your personal taste. Don't let it happen. You should like what you like and that's it.
Small breasted women are just as sexy as their larger sisters. It is simply a matter of taste. Your buds are giving you hell because they feel that you should give in to their peer pressure and change your desires. Instead, stay the course....guys like us don't need mountains of flesh to be happy. A small perky set is fine!
2006-09-18 05:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Besides the fact that it is just the norm for a group of men to drool over a large breasted woman; men are probably more attracted to the larger breasted women because the larger breasts are more obvious. For instance, when you see a group of four girls walking down the street, three of them might have smaller and firmer breasts than the one with the larger ones; however, which pair is going to get most of the attention? The bigger ones.
Kind of like how a bigger, taller guy might get more attention from girls because he is noticably larger than other guys; however, the smaller guy could be more cut and have a better body.
2006-09-18 04:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big breasts are not able to make a woman attractive and small breasts are not unattractive, A women with little hips and big breasts is less attractive than a woman with big hips and small breasts. Well proportioned is the key. Do not get breast implants too big, its better to take female hormones and make your breasts grow rather than put fake implants.
2016-03-27 07:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what you want, and your friends know what they want...what they can't understand, they ostrasize!
It's all good though, little boobies are nice, convenient, and oh so suckable. Your friends just can't appreciate that. Maybe they subconciously associate big boobies with fertility? Men are hardwired to go for the most fertile and healthy looking women out there...
I'm a butt man myself, I lub me a nice thick booty.
2006-09-18 04:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rivrav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell from the way u worded ur question that u'r smarter (for lack of a better word) than ... uh, well, thinking that breast size is the first and most important thing when it comes to women... so what's all the fuss about?they 'r just breasts ... besides, ur entitled to ur own opinion...
2006-09-18 05:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by catharsis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are immature. It's not about "the bigger, the better," it's all about individual tastes. Personally, I agree with you -- more than a handful is a waste (and I have small hands).
2006-09-18 05:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human mind is strange. They want others to follow their own thinking even in thouhgt processes likes and dislikes! Do you care?
2006-09-18 04:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LIKE U SAID EVEYONE IS DIFFERENT AND LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS IN FEMALS, LIKE FOR INSTANCE IM SMALL ON THE TOP BUT WITH JUNK IN DA TRUNK. WHICK SOME GUYS LIKE AND SOME DONT. I DONT CARE. SOME GUYS ARE JUST DOGS AND WANT ONE THING AND SOME RESPECT THE FEMALS AND TRY TO MAKE SOMETHING WORK. I DONT SEE IT A PROBLEM WITH WHAT YOU LIKE THEY PROB JUST HATING CUZ YOUR GOING TO END UP WITH SOME FINE *** GURL AND THEY WILL END UP WITH FAKE **** AND HARD. LOL.
2006-09-18 04:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why are they so childish about your tastes and preferences. They should just let you be, but next time they bother you about it tell them I'd rather have something that fits in my mouth not in my hand, ect. ect. have a wonderful day...
2006-09-18 04:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about them. I agree with you completely and a lot of guys I've known do as well so just ignore those idiots
2006-09-18 04:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋