He was attempting to have sex with me but my feelings for him are gone however i still like him as a person. We talked about getting back together and i told him that i want to get married before being intimate again. After dropping him off at home he calls my cell for me to pick him up again....which i did'nt. Later that night he called me and asked me to never call him or his mother again as he was going to be starting a new relationship!!! he hung up in my face and i havene'nt talked to him since. Why did he do that??? he was just trying to get back with me and saying how much he loved me!!! Please help me....
2006-09-18 04:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well first off he is a loser drop him and go on with your life . I think he was just playing you to see if you really wanted him back in your life. And the guy is an ex for a reason . He is a loser let him go back to his mama . He sounds like a mama's boy to begin with . he is not a man ,he is a boy. Remember this there is a reason he is an ex. He is not starting a new relationship he just said that to hurt your feelings. He is a loser go on with your life and be glad you he dumped you ,you would have been miserable with him. Good Luck you will find someone much better suited to you.
2006-09-18 04:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should be really asking yourself, if you want him back in your life. if you guys broke up there had to be a reason why. your first mistake was going to pick him up. why does he not have transportation. if the answer is not, there are always buses, cars,m friends and walking. why should you go pick his *** up. second: why invited him in your place if you had a notion that he might try getting it on. always meet people even ex-bf;s in public places so the temtation is not there and in case you need to leave his ***, u have witnesses to the situation.
and about the blackmail on i will get back with you if you marry me. why are u going to get married, for blackmail or love. if not i see you divorced in within a year or two.
2006-09-18 11:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he more than likely just wanted a "booty call". most guys when they face rejection get really angry and blow up. which it sounds like this guy did. Either that or he wants to try to let his feelings for you that he still has go, so he told you to stay away so he could let you go without hurting himself further. 7 years is a long time to get over, so this may not be over just yet. good luck to you!
2006-09-18 11:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you sleeping with someone you have no feelings for sexually? certainly, any marriage would be doomed between you both. sounds like he was just trying to get sex from you and has no intention of making any kind of commitment. move on, you have outgrown this childish boy. it is in your best interests to severe the friendship since he has shown he does not respect you.
2006-09-18 11:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it a reminder of why you broke up in the first place. He was probably hoping to get a little. I would leave him as an EX an move on.
2006-09-18 11:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just looking for a bedmate. Good for you for standing your ground. I wouldn'tworry too much if you are not still in love with him.
2006-09-18 11:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Esteici 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds nuts stay a way from him and .go on with your life.leave him where he belongs in the past.
2006-09-18 12:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋