Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

i ave 2 bfs, one is broke bt i luv hm, e other one is loaded n he uses hs money to get me, bt he treats me good n has never even shouted @me. the one i love knws that bt he tels me 2 get money frm hm 4 hm. he treats me badly, women alwys call him nsends hm luv msgs, his fon n camera is full of women n wen i ask he beats me n threatens 2 leave me. wen am wth his son , he says (i wnt 2 go 2 mummy) yet am supposed 2 hs mum. i even dnt knw where he lives, he claims he is living wth family friends yet recently i i got pics of a pregnant woman wth his son in hs digital camera,,am not even there! he rarely calls me or kams 2 c me nowadays. hs elder siz is ard n even stayin @my place coz he said that he wants 2 make her believe that he is stayin alone, i moved into a hotel yet am the one payin all rent bills. wen i complain he says he loves me so much n he is nt cheatin on me. he even doesnt want me 2 ave friends,,,sm1 out there help wth advice. am so confused n hurt, i just want to die.

2006-09-18 23:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by mjinga 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 23:24:24 · 30 answers · asked by shriya 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 23:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by dossin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't get the whole wait until you are married thing. I know that it is Judaism, Christianity, and Islam forbid sex outside of marriage. While it is totally normal in Western cultures world to have sex before we get married, our society and its older members, and religious individuals still look down on it like it is a moral issue or something.
I don't understand the logic in that. Marriage is a lifetime commitment, and everyone always says that it is very important that you know as much as you can about a person BEFORE you get married. Shouldn't that apply to sex as well? Before making a lifetime commitment to someone isn't it extremely important to know if the two of you are sexually compatible?

2006-09-18 23:22:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend and when you visit her she just talks AT you.she never shuts up its very draining,but where is the line between what you should and shouldnt do when you have visitors? are u meant to sit and chat or should they just hang out doing what they want,like i have a visitor at the moment and hes asleep on my couch.is that ok or should i be making an effort to entertain him?

2006-09-18 23:21:29 · 23 answers · asked by dossin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

meaning you and your husband enjoy the company of another lady occasionally?

2006-09-18 23:21:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well to make a long story short i beat up my boyfriend a few times when i drank way to much vodka and he didn't do anything while it was happening except try to restrain me but a few months later he ended up taking a few pills while he was drunk and i ended up with a black eye it was really the only time he hurt me like that and he promissed not to take pills while drinking any more but should i still stay with him?

2006-09-18 23:20:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my son is 16 months old and I am still finding it difficult to resume a close relationship with his father. we have been close but it is little and often. i was totally different before the birth of my son (natural) and I can't find any advice on line, without going to 'relate'. my partner is 100% understanding - but somehow that just makes it more difficult to bear.

2006-09-18 23:20:03 · 10 answers · asked by emmylou 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you meet a girl .. u get to know her for a while ,, then move to her place or w.e then get married .. after 2 years u get a divocred? WHY !?! didnt u get to know her b4 u marry her? didnt u study her perosnallity and see if u and her get along .. didnt u live with her for a while b4 u marry her ? i dont see any ecxuses for people to get fall apart !! unless she/he cheats or got some issues .. !!
im asking people who were married ,what was the biggest porblem made u two got a divorce??!!?
u didnt see the problem when u were dating him/her ?

2006-09-18 23:19:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he could be a sheep in wolves clothing, i put this guy on a pedistal for so long and he has gone mad on me, and i guess i should not have i left no room for disappointed so i am dissapoointed aguess i do dserve that hay!! after my actions but he does not know better anyway i will take your advice and not call at all , what do i say if he does call? help this guy i think he needs a shuv in the right direction!

2006-09-18 23:19:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially Americans.they love our accents.but ireland is very expensive and the weather is unreliable. whats the big attraction?

2006-09-18 23:17:39 · 23 answers · asked by dossin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she should be slim and young I am living in iran but no matter staying any point of the world if i love her

2006-09-18 23:15:00 · 18 answers · asked by abot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 23:14:59 · 26 answers · asked by dossin 2 in Friends

on a man whom which i know,the only problem here is that i'm also the victom,i can not bring myself to hurt this person,,,,yes i know that he hurt me,please advise me so that i may get threw this day and feel good about it at the end,,thank you in advance for your time

2006-09-18 23:12:41 · 11 answers · asked by firecracker 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know they are innocent and mean that this boy is cute or handsome...but i wonder when they speak in front of me should i ask them or make like i didn't hear them. should i start giving advices or it will be puting in their heads ideas...all their friends at school are same. they can tell everygirl which boy she loves...

2006-09-18 23:12:32 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my second question is would you please enumerate some qualities that would really attract or draw you to a woman? physical, attitude, etc..

2006-09-18 23:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I loved her but i found that she is cheating on me& she doesn't know that i got the her story.

2006-09-18 23:12:23 · 11 answers · asked by Lindelihle N 1 in Singles & Dating

I did not always think it would last, but after so many years, you just lose so many chips on the shoulder, and become best friends. You have to go through a lot, and I just wonder, if you had to do it all over again, would you, could you, marry the same person?

2006-09-18 23:12:15 · 17 answers · asked by shardf 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 23:11:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the weather in ireland today is sunny and about 19 degrees, but its due to rain later. The weather has been mild and some sun but heavy showers. just wondered what its like everywhere else in the world? its 11.10am now

2006-09-18 23:10:57 · 31 answers · asked by dossin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just had break up with my fiance and now i'm on the way to find a new partner. i want to find right person and do not want to loose him.

2006-09-18 23:10:27 · 17 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i loved my ex-bf but he bothered me i didn't break up but our relation was so low, and now it's about 6 month i have another bf that i don't love as much as my ex, the ex is now returned and i don't know what to do? be with which one?!

2006-09-18 23:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by marjan m 3 in Singles & Dating

Obviously it will affect the people you know, but the bus you used to take will continue its route, and the flowers you planted will keep growing, as if nothing has happened.

2006-09-18 23:08:23 · 17 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Family

Im looking for a website where I can download (for free) a GIF/JPEG of a Pink Oriental Lilly that I can put on a wedding invitation and carry on throughout the stationery. So it needs to be reasonably good quality.

Please help!

2006-09-18 23:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-18 23:04:03 · 28 answers · asked by axay192 1 in Friends

2006-09-18 23:02:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-18 23:02:08 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-18 23:01:58 · 36 answers · asked by dashingnik4u 1 in Friends

2006-09-18 23:01:46 · 17 answers · asked by Mary Rose 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 23:01:30 · 12 answers · asked by shakiff 2 in Singles & Dating