i ave 2 bfs, one is broke bt i luv hm, e other one is loaded n he uses hs money to get me, bt he treats me good n has never even shouted @me. the one i love knws that bt he tels me 2 get money frm hm 4 hm. he treats me badly, women alwys call him nsends hm luv msgs, his fon n camera is full of women n wen i ask he beats me n threatens 2 leave me. wen am wth his son , he says (i wnt 2 go 2 mummy) yet am supposed 2 hs mum. i even dnt knw where he lives, he claims he is living wth family friends yet recently i i got pics of a pregnant woman wth his son in hs digital camera,,am not even there! he rarely calls me or kams 2 c me nowadays. hs elder siz is ard n even stayin @my place coz he said that he wants 2 make her believe that he is stayin alone, i moved into a hotel yet am the one payin all rent bills. wen i complain he says he loves me so much n he is nt cheatin on me. he even doesnt want me 2 ave friends,,,sm1 out there help wth advice. am so confused n hurt, i just want to die.
2006-09-18 23:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by mjinga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why are you waisting your time on the Loser? seriously do you really have to ask anyone? if someone is treating you bad, and being dishonest with you, and using you... what reason do you have to give your love to them? You need to just leave him and let him be sketchy by himself! trust me.. no one is worth feeling that way over! You need to take care of yourself and leave him because he is very controlling!
2006-09-18 23:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure where the problem is, you need to drop both of them and find a man that's into you as much as you are into him. The first one doesn't want you, if he did he would be with you and want you with him. The second one you like more for his money, even though he treats you nice, you are not really into him. Move on and find a man that will be there for you.
2006-09-19 06:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whichever one you like. The one with no money, disrespecting, violating and pimping you has to be good in bed.That's why you stay with him. The other has a lot more to offer and hes not hitting you. You are happy. Why not go for the one that's not giving you so much drama. This is self explanatory.
2006-09-19 06:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were obviously abused as a child even if that meant that you didn't get the affection that you craved. you will only ever be happy with the idiot boyfriend. stay happy. there is nothing more to life. keep rich boyfriend for money. go back to idiot for beatings and happiness. if idiot leaves you, find another one. repeat until dead. good luck.
2006-09-19 06:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Byron Wu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him and brake all contact. Just take your son with. Move to another country do whatever you can, you need to get away from this situation as soon as possible!
2006-09-19 06:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better for u to leave him. Intially u think it is difficult .May be u will get emotional blacmail. But it is ultimately ur life. If it is becomming mess for u. Leave him. Rest God will help u. Dont try
2006-09-19 06:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by tamanasana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes.. Stay with the one that beats you... You will have a wonderful life.... I can't beleive you even have to ask that question.... Wake up..... He doesn't love you.. He is using you... He could care less about you... MOVE on...
2006-09-19 06:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, as fast as you can, away from this man. He is abusive and if he doesn't end up killing you with his fists, he is going to kill you with hepatitis or HIV. Do you have some girl friends you could lean on for emotional support?
2006-09-19 06:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave he broke gu. u shouldn't be taking care of him and his family. u gotta stand up for urself. don't let him run over u like tha. he is cheating on u. i mean be serious he let u see the other girls in his phoneand he doesn't call u. but yet u hold on. my advice to u is to leave.
2006-09-19 06:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by daprincess1187 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to end this relationship, it is wrong.. even you love him you have to forget him and live your life happy. . no one accept hitting or cheating or ignoring, so be yourself and take this decision immediately without hesitation.
2006-09-19 06:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sousy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋