well to make a long story short i beat up my boyfriend a few times when i drank way to much vodka and he didn't do anything while it was happening except try to restrain me but a few months later he ended up taking a few pills while he was drunk and i ended up with a black eye it was really the only time he hurt me like that and he promissed not to take pills while drinking any more but should i still stay with him?
2006-09-18 23:20:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you think it's OK to beat him then you deserve whatever you get back.
However neither of you should be beating the other, your relationship will fail so get out now.
2006-09-18 23:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm, im will try an put this nice .u were drunk an hit him and he just took it, well that tells me that he dont want to hurt you, yes he hit u ok, but u hit him to, so how do u think he felt when u got stuck into him, do u really think that this is a life 4 you or him, u both need to stop drinking, i hope if u hve kids, that they were not their. i think that if a women can give it to a man, a man can give it back to protect himself, cause some women can really hurt. thats all i hve to say. you are both silly and should not drink, u can hve fun with out the drinking u no.thats if you can not handle the drink
2006-09-19 08:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either one of you should stay together. You both need counseling for some anger control. NO one has the right to put their hands on another. Also both of you need to leave the alcohol and pills alone. Neither one of you can handle it. I hope you will take my advise and stop the madness before someone gets really hurt.
2006-09-19 07:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think you two deserve each other. Hitting is NEVER okay, for men OR women. If you did it once when you were drunk, then that should have been a signal for you to QUIT DRINKING SO MUCH.
2006-09-19 06:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a Question! Back that truck back up, girl! You need some serious help! You should should see a Doctor and seek counceling and AA might help. I bet you live in a world of drug and alcohol abuse. You poor girl! Please get rid of the boy friend and take charge of your life. Get some help while you're still in one piece!
2006-09-19 07:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by richg2524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like little kids who have eaten too many lollies and lost their senses.
Yes, you deserved a black eye. You hit him. Just because he is stronger than you don't think you deserve special treatment.
If your going to turn agressive when you drink then what is the point?
2006-09-19 06:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you deserve each other. You should stay with him is are going to continue to be an abusive alcoholic, I wouldn't wish that on a nice guy.
2006-09-19 06:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no f**king he should tell you what you did it doesnt give him an excuse to assault you ro or some **** if i was you i would get rid of him, if my g/f beat me up when she was drunk i would tell her the next morning and talk it over but i would hit her bak, i would stay with him he might break his promise i meen how can you say sorry for givin you a black eye what if it happens again just call it a day.
2006-09-19 06:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by bam P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You two need to get far, far apart. You are beating him he is beating you, this is no way to live. You both need to get some anger management classes. Please tell me you two do not have children together. What a disaster of a relationship. End it now, RIGHT NOW.
2006-09-19 06:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you 2 are meant for each other ! Next time look for the baseball bats and really go for it ! Don't 4 get to down a bottle 1st !
2006-09-19 06:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋