Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

2006-09-18 19:20:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this guy named Trevor, Senior, popular, Funny! but idk if he really likes me that way. but my sister and best friend think that he does but he doesnt really "Show it" like at all...but he asked me to dance twice saturday for our homecomming dance, well not really asked...kinda pulled me out to the dance floor, and today he kinda sat next to me in class but we dont really have one-on-one conversations...well he is really outgoing and fun! and im kinda shy afraid that ill say or do something wrong kinda person but i can easily get out of that, but trevor doesnt seem like he wants to get into a relationship (but i dont really know at all) but i want to know how i can maby flirt with him more and show him that im interested in him and maybe want a relationship...any suggestions on anything???

2006-09-18 19:17:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please dont get sarcastic with me because i am really confused. my boyfriend got involved with drugs, i made him choose between the drugs and me and my daughter, so he chose us, we booked him into a rehab and for 2 months he was doing really well, know it is just going down hill, he started the drugs again promising he will stop for us again but still has not, do i carry on keeping faith in him that he will stop and go back to rehab or do i leave him now and walk away. i have taken verbal abuse from him as well it is called physcosis, it is from the cocain it is a medical thing but i am tired of him calling me a tart and having affairs left right and center. i dont feel sorry for myself as i got myself in this mess but my dayghter does not deserve this. what do i do? please dont be sarcastic i really dont need it at the moment.

2006-09-18 19:17:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did not have time to spend much time w/ her for the past 4yrs. She is so lovely and I would like to be a better parent.

2006-09-18 19:15:51 · 3 answers · asked by k2apparel 1 in Family

it seems like everytime we try to get together, circumstances are non permitting.

2006-09-18 19:15:11 · 19 answers · asked by dpegra 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this Guy at my school called Aaron. I've liked Aaron for a year on and off, at first I didnt admit it he was 'cool' I was not. But So much has changed now I have new friends, a new look, new popularity and suddenly I'm 'cool' too! So a month or so ago We went out it was only for barely a week and he dumped me straight after the disco. I realised I'd been used until I found out my friend had something to do with it. Now I still like him but he likes my friend, thing is she doesnt like him back but he doesnt care... All my friends know I like him but they seem to be ignoring the fact in reality I suppose they are only trying to tread carefully but it hurts.

I really want to be with this guy again and I know what I did wrong last time but now hes always talking about this other girl and I cant find the guts to even speak to him anymore let alone flirt with him. What can I do? I really really like him badly and I'm afraid our time wont ever come again...

(Not Happy Jan)

2006-09-18 19:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by Pandoooo;. 2 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl, who is older to me by 2 years, i want to marry her, but want to know wat are the pros and cons of marrying an older girl than me. I am 28 and she is 30? Plz advice me genuinely?

2006-09-18 19:13:29 · 38 answers · asked by chippychap 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would a man prefer a woman with more money or would it even matter? What if she has no savings but has a good job? What if she has a low paying job and a large savings account? What if she didn't even work? Do most men put a lot of importance on this issue?

2006-09-18 19:13:19 · 16 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 19:12:30 · 17 answers · asked by Eileen S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have told her I am bisexual but I honestly think I am gay. what should I do we have 2 kids?

2006-09-18 19:12:28 · 21 answers · asked by Chuck D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can a person get more confidence in themselves .i know someone that has very low self estem and she is driveing everyone crazy by saying "you guys re going to leave me as freinds i just know it and it don't matter how many times we tell her no you are our friend and we are not going to stop being friends ,but it is getting old i told her to go to talk to a dr or therapist or somethng a nd she don't have any money . Any sugfgestions ?

2006-09-18 19:10:30 · 7 answers · asked by dee d 3 in Friends

how are you coping. really.

2006-09-18 19:10:23 · 11 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 19:09:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I tried the lube which I already do but the problem is that it's to thick and to long she wants me to get a reduction but that is not in my eyes. she is a freak in the sack but when it comes to me entering her love nest that is when the problem starts about half way in she is in pain

2006-09-18 19:09:05 · 4 answers · asked by hottansweet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am completely and totally in love with my boyfriend of one year. I recently found out that in the begining of our relationship he was having conversation with his ex that included things like "I miss you," and "love you." I also found out that while we were talking, but before we had consimated our relation ship he slept with someone else, all of which he lied to me about until I happened to find out tthrough e-mails. He says he loves me and needs me and that I am his only one. The problem is that I am very hurt and wonder if I can trust him. Help??

2006-09-18 19:06:05 · 26 answers · asked by A M 2 in Singles & Dating

compromise in marriage till what extent

2006-09-18 19:05:09 · 14 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married for last 10 years and have two kids. My wife @35 is two years younger than me.

Of late she has been complaining that she is not enjoying sex with me. She even informed that now when I touch her it does not arouse her as it used to be before.

She loves me a lot and same is with me, however, I am worried that this situation may affect our affections.

Please advise what shall we do?

2006-09-18 19:04:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a sister that was adopted out at 6 months of age and would just like to know if she is looking for us, just out of curiousity sake. I don't want to upset her life if she isn't but don't know where I could go to check on line. I live in Canada, Sask. and wonder if anyone can help?

2006-09-18 19:04:27 · 1 answers · asked by justsomeguy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been separated for 10 months and have bounced back and forth with trying to reconcile more times than I can count. I realized that I just wasn't IN love with him anymore, as much as I love him... and that wasn't fair to him. So I finally made the decision to go forward with the divorce. I have an appt. w/ a paralegal tomorrow and now that it is upon me, I am feeling depressed. I know we aren't meant to be... so why do I feel so sad, I've had plenty of time to digest this and have begun healing in many ways. I hate that I miss him, so how do I ignore that feeling and carry on with my plans for divorce... and my life?

2006-09-18 19:04:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did you?

2006-09-18 19:03:17 · 17 answers · asked by Coffee-Infused Insomniac 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 19:02:57 · 4 answers · asked by spookytoy 1 in Friends

At the age of 32 it seems a bit immature to introduce my special guy as my boyfriend. Signifigant other or partner seem kind of cold and a bit premature. It is way too soon to call him fiance. I basically want to introduce my guy in a way that recognizes his importance in my life without it feeling or sounding akward. Avoiding strange questions from coworkers and aquaintances while not using the ambiguous "this is my friend" would be ideal. Any ideas..............?

2006-09-18 19:02:51 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

ive been currently with my boyfriend for 5 years. he leaves time to time for work. we love each other and still are very happy. but on the other side, i started to talk to a friends friend (guy). i know the intentions are to hook up. i feel guilty but want just a fling with the guy. but im still very much in love with my boyfriend. what do i do? i think of the other guy a lot these days, but when i talk to my boyfriend i forget about the guy. i want both!!

2006-09-18 19:02:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she calls me and sounded all sweet but both me and her know that it is only a show however my best friend doesn't understand. so after she calls me he comes on line and acts like everything is cool and so i went off on him on how i will be nice to his girlfriend and stuff but i don't want to be around her if i don't have to be. (we are usually open with eachother so he knows that i still like him we were together for six months before he started dating this new girl) he didn't seem upset he said that he was glad that i finally said what i meant. then he said that when i come and visited him it would be just me and him and that he wanted to hug me... and more. then before he signed off he said "love you" i am terribly confused why does he talk to his girlfriend about me and where do i stand in this whole mess? some one help me and please if you can don't just give a short answer because for me this is really complicated and i just don't understand him

2006-09-18 19:02:24 · 7 answers · asked by going2md 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 19:02:00 · 8 answers · asked by Siva 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been seperated for five years, and the past three of which I didn't know if he was dead or alive. I've really missed him a lot but our reasons for seperation stays fresh on my mind. I recently bumped into him at a supermarket and it was love at first sight all over again. He asked me to come back. What in the world should I do people has it been too long or does everyone deserve a second chance? Is there a future or is the horse dead?

2006-09-18 19:01:56 · 5 answers · asked by DAWN DIVA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 19:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by shaffy 2 in Singles & Dating

In Milwaukee this past weekend a dozen people, including six juveniles, are charged in the sexual assual case of an 11-year-old girl. Authorities say she had sex with as many as 20 people while a 16-year-old girl coached her.''

Two more boys, aged 13 and 15 were charged with being party to first-degree sexual assault of a child. Six adults also have been charged in the case, Police were still looking for two more people.

A 13-year-old boy said others encouraged him to have oral sex with the girl.

Looks as though life in the fast lane is moving even faster. Hard to imagine what other adults were doing while this was going on. The ones that were not involved that is.
What is this world coming to?
No more kissie kissie huggie huggie

Parents, Watch your VERY young daughters.
AND your VERY YOUNG sons.


(Thank you Bill Clinton and thank you Debra LeFave)

2006-09-18 19:00:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is nothing wrong with my ego.I've probably turned down more woman then most guys ever date.Because they are not real.I have change everything about the man I was.So now I am very shy towards girls That I am very interested in.I do not care about my setence structure.How many time have any of you been published.This is just answers.If you are not a legit editor then don't edit me.I Am just very shy about myself.I spent eight years changing everything about me.So please give me some real answers to my last question.

2006-09-18 19:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

recently, i pointed out to my date that he was stuck in life. after that he just started acting weird and made it impossible for me to be close to him. was this information too close to the mark for comfort?a week later he said we were over for no real reason.

2006-09-18 19:00:47 · 6 answers · asked by dpegra 2 in Singles & Dating