Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

ok the situation is like i really like one of my friend.. He just went to london for his studies (will be coming back in 4 months) we used to be on message everytime he was here. N now hes not here .. yeah i do miss him and those msgs n moments alot n i cant stop thinking about them... we have often exchanged "love u's" n "jaan" et all. but i dunno if they were just a friendly gesture.. The main problem is that im a lil on the heavier side. Hes given me alot of motivation to loose it all.. Ya and i am working on it. But im worried if i tell him about my feelings what will happen.. As a person he likes me.. but just cuz im obese will he turn around? We are very good friends ha... The thing is tht should i tell him about my feelings rite now?? or should i work a lil hard n give him a surprise when he comes back after 4 months and then tell him?? But 4 months is too much n i dont want him to see some1 else in london which is impossible on my side to keep a check on (im in mumbai)

2006-09-18 19:00:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 18:59:09 · 6 answers · asked by poonam p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 18:58:13 · 10 answers · asked by Siva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its going to be outside, like a park. About 50-100 people will attend. What colors would you have the flowers be, tables, bridesmaids, groomsmen, what foods, drinks, seats....theame if one

2006-09-18 18:57:37 · 5 answers · asked by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 in Weddings

2006-09-18 18:56:38 · 20 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Singles & Dating

Is anyone else out there bored as Heck????
if yes please ad me to your msn messenger and we can chat
kiwi_smith@hotmail.com

2006-09-18 18:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

My brother is engaged to a woman that has caused a wall between him and the rest of our family. We were always close before. They are now engaged. She is older than him and previously divorced. I'm afraid if I just come out and tell him that they will cut off what little contact is left, with us.

2006-09-18 18:55:02 · 13 answers · asked by n_dymphna 3 in Family

2006-09-18 18:54:50 · 16 answers · asked by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

This weekend during a business trip I got to really meet a collegue of mine. Afterhours, everyone was chatting away and we ended up sparking a conversation. It started off innocently, talking about his experiences in the navy, and my military background. Eventually we got on the subject of sex, soon everyone around us had left and we were alone talking very explictly about experiences, and desires. My big issue is that hes a newly married man, happy with a beautiful (20 yr old virginal) wife, obviously far from as experienced as both of us were. He kept asking me what turned me on, even asking if i was aroused by the conversation(to which i answered yes). I got the feeling that he was turned on by our talk as well. We talked until 4am. He never tried anything,but we have to work together and after that nite im very sexually attracted to him, and hes said we should hang out more. I just dont know how to act around him now. I will not attempt to play homewrecker....
I

2006-09-18 18:54:38 · 8 answers · asked by sugasofly85 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 18:54:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On the one hand, I don't care if my husband watches porn movies. He rarely does so and watching such a movie is the farthest my husband has (or ever will) "stray" (if you want to call it that). I know it has nothing to do with or against me on a personal level. Sometimes he's "in the mood" and I'm not. Men seem to need more visual stimuli than women, anyway.

On the other hand, though...sometimes I'm a little disappointed that he wanted or felt the need to watch such a movie. And that's stupid because I sincerely know and believe the stuff I've already said. Shoot, I'm the one that bought the one XXX DVD we have!

Am I nuts or normal? Does anyone else have conflicting feelings about this stuff regarding their mates/spouses?

2006-09-18 18:53:46 · 17 answers · asked by WhyAskWhy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

have you sat on somone leg or ankle or feet like a tickle game ? how did you do it can you please give me the steps please? thanks

2006-09-18 18:53:00 · 2 answers · asked by stewman 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a honest guy,and I have just been cheated on.I thought if I was 100% honest and understanding and of coarse loved this girl there shouldt be a problem.Out of all the guys who will cheat on there girls I was not one of them.well I guess nice guys finish last.I got screwed over big time and Im in the most painfull time of my life and I would like to know your story so I can feel just a little better that im not the only one going though this.....thanks

heart broken guy :-(

2006-09-18 18:52:52 · 20 answers · asked by j p 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been spending a lot of time with this guy. he's been taking me to work in the morning, pick me up for lunch, and take me back home. he calls almost everyday and sends me text messages, sometimes 20 messages in a day!

i'm confused because sometimes he's really aggressive and shows his affection towards me but sometimes he's cool. he has a gf anf i already have a bf too. do you think a guy will make this much of an effort if he only wants sex? or does it mean he has feelings for me?

i usually don't have silly problems like this, but i like him so much i feel like i'm in junior high all over again! :(

2006-09-18 18:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by catkittykitten 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are not sure and would like to know...let me know

2006-09-18 18:51:39 · 10 answers · asked by Dead 2 Self 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys face rejection everyday of their lives, while women often feel so much more insercities then men, nice guys finish dead last, and girls always fall for the wrong guy, the list goes on and on!! But who really has it harder?? Wouldn't the world be better place if we could just read each other's minds... No more late night emails that you wait 20 minutes to send!!!

2006-09-18 18:51:13 · 17 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 18:48:00 · 21 answers · asked by rose 3 in Family

2006-09-18 18:46:24 · 9 answers · asked by Parul 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He really likes someone.But he is scared because he knows that he is not ugly.But he is so scared that she might not like him.I mean most woman are attracted to me not only because of my words.But there is certain woman that I never want to loose.Would should I do.

2006-09-18 18:46:21 · 18 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

Only been together one month

2006-09-18 18:46:00 · 16 answers · asked by Kal 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 18:45:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And how did it turned out?
I remembered making a mix tape for the hottest senior in my high school but he didn't knew me that well and it was very akward when I gave it to him. In it I left him a note asking for a photo of him to remember him by but he thanked me the next day and blew me off on the photo.
Then I found out that he had a girlfriend because at recess he kept flaunting her on my face.

2006-09-18 18:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it when your conversations get meaningless as they dry up? When you get mad at him for stupid little reasons, and more mad when he doesn't come cheer you up? When should you learn to forget about what this friendship could be made into and just think about him as a friend? why is it so damn hard? =/

2006-09-18 18:44:41 · 3 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend, 20, hasnt had a for more than 3 months, just asked his girlfriend to marry him. The problem is, he is a big flirt, regardless if he knows he is doing it or not or even trying to. I think that she is the right one but i really think its too soon. What do you think that he should have befor asking her, if you think he's ready than thats fine too. How old do you think you should be? What do you think?

2006-09-18 18:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 18:44:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said that he wants his space and that he's no longer boyfriend material. What's the best way for me to get over this? PS- he has been telling my friends and his family that he was going to propose for 4 months.

2006-09-18 18:43:16 · 20 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

i find that hurting me is my classmates's favourite pastime...they are selfish to the extent that they think of all possible ways of not being helpful...they derive sadistic pleasure by being mere spectators...i do everything to help them(unconditionally)..
.they are ingrates....never remember that i helped them and they need to be good to me as well....talking to me is an effort for them...everybody is mean....i try to be friends with them...always help them but they don't reciprocate or include me in their activities...they are like"why should we help her?"

2006-09-18 18:42:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You're walking down the school campus when you notice the finest most attractive girl walking in your direction. You really want to get to know her. What can you do to make that happen?

2006-09-18 18:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and the feelings or lack thereof are mutual...I take love very seriously and refuse to sign I love you or love to cards to people who I care barely tolerate...seems hypocritical...I do sign it though with warm regards, best wishes always...

2006-09-18 18:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

"Angie and I will consider tying the knot when everyone else in the country who wants to be married is legally able."

Do you think their illegitimate children when they are adults will accept that selfish statement?

Pitt quoted in "Esquire Magazine"

http://societyofbastards.org

http://oneminutemarriage.us

2006-09-18 18:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce