ok the situation is like i really like one of my friend.. He just went to london for his studies (will be coming back in 4 months) we used to be on message everytime he was here. N now hes not here .. yeah i do miss him and those msgs n moments alot n i cant stop thinking about them... we have often exchanged "love u's" n "jaan" et all. but i dunno if they were just a friendly gesture.. The main problem is that im a lil on the heavier side. Hes given me alot of motivation to loose it all.. Ya and i am working on it. But im worried if i tell him about my feelings what will happen.. As a person he likes me.. but just cuz im obese will he turn around? We are very good friends ha... The thing is tht should i tell him about my feelings rite now?? or should i work a lil hard n give him a surprise when he comes back after 4 months and then tell him?? But 4 months is too much n i dont want him to see some1 else in london which is impossible on my side to keep a check on (im in mumbai)
2006-09-18 19:00:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think ill give him a double surpise wen he comes back... n i think talkin to him face to face is better... isnt it?? cool... wht say??
i dont mind mailing him... but wht if i sin get any reply?? i cant wait forever..... n if i keep mailin n nudging him for not replyin he'll think im not lettin him live in peace and tht im behind his *** all the time.. then surely he wont talk 2 me
2006-09-18 19:01:12 · update #1
just bc ur on the heavy side doesn't mean that no one will have crushes on u ur friends with him right it shouldn't make a difference if he deserves u. if he says he dont like u like that well u could find someone better dont right it to him that's my only advice cause he could show ppl and even though hes your really good friend u never know so tell him in person it will make a better gesture and u never know u could come out of this with a bf lol
2006-09-19 10:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wait around and he finds someone else you might regret it forever. Call him on the phone and speak from your heart. Tell him all that you like about him. Say that you would have preferred to tell him face to face but you didn't want him to meet someone else and then you would have lost your opportunity. Ask him for his phone number if you don't have it, tell him you want to tell him something important. It is better to tell him how you feel so you will know his feelings also. It is better if he rejects you than you spending a lifetime wondering "what could have been." If he rejects you, then it wasn't meant to be. You'll find the right guy some day. Good luck though.
2006-09-19 10:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, of course. Meanmwhile., get to a g=ym and start pumping iron and lose 80 pounds. He'll want you bad when he sees how good you look, espeically if you tell him you wanted to do it hfor him and for you bothm, becuase you want a future with him.
No cooikes, no nbread, no cake, no sugar, jno rice, no corn, no rolls, ! Eatr sdome complex carbos onlym, and not too many each week. replace sugar with white pure Stevia availaivle in a helath food store...The pure one which is white....No calories, healthyk, etc. rake Chromium picolonate and drink green tea to healk weight loss. Nothing fried, No sandwhiches!
Ity will work out!
2006-09-19 02:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honee go with your heart and if hes intrested Im sure he'll let you know and honee we all don't have a perfect body if your really serious about losing weight do it for yourself and not for any guy, I just recently lost 43 lbs on weightwatchers and I love the results so look into that if you want to lose the weight Im doing it for me and my health the guys should love you no matter what you look like. lots of luck
2006-09-19 02:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by dnicebnice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in touch with him and send him some pictures of you once in a while. Tell him that you think about him all the time and that you miss him a lot. Just wait and see what his response is.
2006-09-19 02:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the idea of giving a double surprise and talking face to face is better.
2006-09-19 02:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he comes back to you don't get worked about him ******* a few chicks in London!
2006-09-19 03:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHAT
2006-09-19 02:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋