Who has it harder men or women??

Question

Guys face rejection everyday of their lives, while women often feel so much more insercities then men, nice guys finish dead last, and girls always fall for the wrong guy, the list goes on and on!! But who really has it harder?? Wouldn't the world be better place if we could just read each other's minds... No more late night emails that you wait 20 minutes to send!!!

Answer 1

Women easily have it better... but you wouldn't know because they are much better at complaining about things than men.

Examples:
Breast cancer funding is 10x that of prostate cancer funding even though they both kill the same amount of people each year.

If a woman has sex willingly and gets pregnant, she can either choose to kill the man's child via abortion or keep it and force him to pay child support for 18 years.

Women have more choices in clothing: pants, skirts, dresses, shoes, etc.

Women get to lie about how they look and it's somehow acceptable to everyone: lie about their figure by wearing girdles. Lie about their legs by wearing stockings, lie about their looks by using make up, lie about their height by wearing heels, etc, etc.

Women, more than men, get to choose to stay at home and raise their kids - or not - and go to work. Although it is difficult to ddo either of these... they have more of a choice in society than men.

Women get their meals paid for, doors opened more, books/bags picked up more than men do. Men at the office pick up and move heavy things for women all the time.

Women can have multiple orgasms - not all of them - but a lot more than men.

Women live longer, have the choice to go to war or not, have more funding for medical research in general, have separate gyms, changing tables in bathrooms more than men for their kids....

If you remove the cost to women's careers of them leaving work for raising their kids (which women do by CHOICE - by CHOOSING to have sex or have a kid after getting pregnant), then men and women earn the same amount for the same job.

It goes on and on and on...

One more thing: next time you see a commercial on TV for a product or service and the commercial has a man or woman (married or otherwise), notice that the man always plays the role of an idiot - and the woman is always the wise, responsible or all-knowing of the two.

Answer 2

Women get to choose whether or not they want their genitalia mutilated.

Men don't get to make that choice. In America most boys are circumcised hours after they are born.

So I'd say men have to put up with more ****.

Answer 3

men worked harder to keep the house maintained women work harder to keep a house a home

Answer 4

I think that this questions will reap answers from both sides, defending themselves... I don't think that there's a real answer to that question because people in general have it the hardest. We have complex brain structures as humans that make the simplest thing so difficult. I say humankind in general has it harder than the rest of the living organisms on earth. As far as which gender is worse off... go figure.

Answer 5

Some people love to turn it all into a big 'science' debate. If you want to talk about science, consider that it has been PROVEN that women experience more pain, by using brain scans. Go ahead and do your 'subjective' research and come up with your rebutels, I welcome them. Also, to add to that profoundly stupid statement that, "nice guys finish dead last"; surely they finish last but the reward they reap for their patients and diligence is always far greater than that which the 1 minute man gets! lol

Answer 6

Dude, there are a lot of topics to this question. It's broken down to many aspects. Maybe if you choose a specific topic. If you want it all, it will take deep research for this. Honestly.

Answer 7

Isn't this an obvious answer?

Girls, obviously. We give birth to life, which feels like you are being ripped apart. For you men, it is like a watermelon coming out of your ***. Our vagina can rip, while birth. We also have to feel the pain of a baby growing in your stomach for what, 8 to 9 months or something like that.
Also, we have monthly periods. Your body is going ******* insane at this time. Your emotions are going crazy, your having growing pains everywhere, your stomach feels like somebody has stabbed has stabbed you several times. This pain is monthly (for most girls) for about 3-7 days. Plus, we have our period at a young age, meaning we have to face this pain for atleast 35 to 40 years at the most.

What do boys face? Puberty? Oh, boo hoo!

You can't even compare the two.

Answer 8

if you really dig deep.. all these society problem came from sexual sin.. its the freedom to go against God's will that have doomed us. and when you sin, everyone around you suffers.. including yourself. think about it. things don't used to be like this.

I'm glad you are one of the few who realizes this problem.


24/Los Angeles
"premarital sex creates broken families, broken families creates broken society - a vicious cycle only you can stop."

Answer 9

Men have it harder because men have to fight to survive. The biological drive of human beings is to get their genes into the next generation(have children) Women are the ones who determine who will do this. Men have to fight and compete for a mate while the women sit around and look pretty. A woman can always find a mate because she can always find a guy who wants to have sex. When a child is finally born, the woman knows for sure that the child is hers, the man never really knows. This is natural selection.

Answer 10

Men, woman can choose who they be with. We're with the ones that'll have us.