What should I think of this?

Question

This weekend during a business trip I got to really meet a collegue of mine. Afterhours, everyone was chatting away and we ended up sparking a conversation. It started off innocently, talking about his experiences in the navy, and my military background. Eventually we got on the subject of sex, soon everyone around us had left and we were alone talking very explictly about experiences, and desires. My big issue is that hes a newly married man, happy with a beautiful (20 yr old virginal) wife, obviously far from as experienced as both of us were. He kept asking me what turned me on, even asking if i was aroused by the conversation(to which i answered yes). I got the feeling that he was turned on by our talk as well. We talked until 4am. He never tried anything,but we have to work together and after that nite im very sexually attracted to him, and hes said we should hang out more. I just dont know how to act around him now. I will not attempt to play homewrecker....
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Answer 1

You must have not had it for sometime....

But perhaps you should just let nature takes its course. The way you are explaining it, I don't think it will be long before you let your barrier go loose. Besides,I think you are still on the safe side if you are just "sexually attracted" to him and not emotionally. Once you get there, be sure to go away.
It doesn't only happen to women actually,men too get that sometimes. Like what you said, he is married with a "beautiful" wife. There is no reason for him to give her all up for you.
But just perhaps both of your hormones are running and it will all subside after both of you satisfy your "fantasies".

Good Luck!

Answer 2

Once you knew he was married, you should have ended the conversation and told him to go home to his wife, but you didn't and now you have to face him again and feel uneasy. You didn't do anything wrong, except start an uneasy situation for yourself. He on the other hand, is in the wrong, but that is between him and his wife. I would ignore his advances and just smile and keep on walking. If he confronts you and asks to get together with you again, just say that you enjoyed your time with him, but it is not a good idea for you to spend time with a married man. You can bet that he has no desire to leave his wife, flirting and playing with temptation seemed like a safe way to engage in a little fun.He needs to turn his attention to that little fun thing at home and leave his co-workers alone.

Answer 3

He is obviously not the faithful kind. The very idea that a married man had that sort of conversation with yu is just as good as cheating. Keep away from him or you may find yourself in the very position your desires wants, but your morals prohibit.

Answer 4

I think talking is not what gets you in trouble and if all it is, is talking then that might be ok but talking has been known to led to other things. You also have to keep in mind that he is married and you have to work with him. If things go bad it could go really bad. As how to act toward him just play it cool and if he brings it up then talk about it where no one can hear you.

Answer 5

My advice... leave it alone. He's married. As you said, you will not attempt to play the homewrecker. It sounds like you've got your head on straight. Don't get involved, you'll pay for it later.

Answer 6

guys are always horny you just happened to be there at the right time and you gave into the conversation he feels that your pretty much a sure thing now and if you allow the right opportunity to arise he's going to go for it. why risk your job for what could never amount to more then a one night stand or two

Answer 7

;leave him alone and let him cheat or play around with the idea of cheaing with someone else

Answer 8

keep your legs closed and stay away from this man