Ok I like this guy named Trevor, Senior, popular, Funny! but idk if he really likes me that way. but my sister and best friend think that he does but he doesnt really "Show it" like at all...but he asked me to dance twice saturday for our homecomming dance, well not really asked...kinda pulled me out to the dance floor, and today he kinda sat next to me in class but we dont really have one-on-one conversations...well he is really outgoing and fun! and im kinda shy afraid that ill say or do something wrong kinda person but i can easily get out of that, but trevor doesnt seem like he wants to get into a relationship (but i dont really know at all) but i want to know how i can maby flirt with him more and show him that im interested in him and maybe want a relationship...any suggestions on anything???
2006-09-18 19:17:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never speculate. You wont know if he wants a relationship until he tells you. He is probably deciding if he wants to ask you out. But if youre the shy type and get uncomfortable around him it may scare him off. Its alot to try and live up to when someone really really likes you. So it can make you think twice about going there. If he asked you to dance he thinks something about you is likable. Keep that in mind. And remember everyone says and does dumb things. It sucks. But you will get over the embarrassment. Remember when it happens to someone else? You probably feel bad for them and dont think much about it after it first happens. We forget we arent as important to other people as we are to ourselves. Last? Smile at the guy and make eye contact as much as you can. Smile. It shows youre nice. And happy. Guys like nice happy girls. Theyre more fun to be with than the bitches.And watch his body language. If he mimicks what youre doing it means he likes how you act. f he does something like brushes your hair off your shoulder he is grooming you. Wierd. But animal instinct. Make alot of eye contact. It makes you more permanent in his eyes if that makes sense. Dont look away too quickly. But dont stare. And dont try and guess what he wants or thinks. he will let you know. Guys let you know if theyre intersted as soon as you make it safe to approach. Give him 2 weeks and if he does nothing you know. Good luck
2006-09-18 19:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it as a game. Flirt with him for fun. If he likes you great, if not you had a fun time flirting. Also, don't let it go to your head. Some guys are just natural flirts. Flirting with him will show him you know how to communicate with guys and are able to have a fun time. If he likes you he will definitely ask you out on the weekend after you start flirting daily with him. Otherwise, whatever, find a better boy.
2006-09-19 02:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something to him that might get a response to get a clue. Like tell him he looks hot or nice and see what he says back to you and watch his eyes while he says it. Then when talking about the weekend plans say something like everyone is going....where ever they hang out, are you going? See if he gives any idication that he is going and wonders if you will be there too. Or maybe just flat out, ask him, hey, wanna hang out sometime? If he wants to date, great if not, hang out as friends.
2006-09-19 02:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he SO likes u! :) well, since u dont know him..n flirting might scare him off so if u wanna flirt with him, y dont u accidently drop your pencil under his table(if he sits next to u) and make sure the pencil that u drop is far enuff so that u cant reach it but he can. so when he pick it up for u,give him this sweet-awesome smile and say thanks politely.later, when u see him in the hallways, go up to him (when his friends r not there..coz it might b a bit embarassing since ure shy) and say, "hey! erm..thanks again for the pencil.oh btw,whats your name? travis?" he say >"no its trevor" u say>"oh..hahaha..sorry!"(give it a cute giggly laugh..)
2006-09-19 02:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by dolly parker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you because you are shy. Keep the shy card on the table. I think its time to also add the innocent card. Try to get him to help you with something. (homework, questions, something manly) you could also try asking stupid innocent questions like: Have you ever been kissed? Questions he can ask you back... It hs to be couples related questions... trust me, he will clue in right away.
2006-09-19 02:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is really interested, he will try later on, if you want to help him, just smile and look at him in the eyes, couple of times, that's a lot of motivation
2006-09-19 02:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him... " What do u think of me" and just say because i have these doubts about myself ...
then u might know what he thinks
accidently hold his hand and say ohh im sorry, or give him a call and say " Hey just wanted to say hi!!""
but dont do it too often
if he sounds hmm what the hell is she doing then just back off!!
2006-09-19 02:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write "I like you" on a slip and pass it to him the next time he sits next to you, and let him make next move.
Guys of such high profile, you will never know what's his motive.
If he doesn't even do anything after he knows that you like him, then there's nothing and you can move on with life at least.
Good Luck!
2006-09-19 02:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest on us when we take the initiative....
Now .. who in the hell understands men?
Take a time to see what the life brings you.
2006-09-19 02:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will look back on this and wish you hadn't mulled over it for weeks. Tell him you like him, if he isn't interested then you can get your mind onto more important things--- like your education --- YOU REMEMBER?!? The reason you are there in the first place...
2006-09-19 02:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Crystabella_BC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋